I am not okay with my boyfriend seeing nudity on the TV, is that ridiculous?

[Anonymous]

and no.. its not because I am insecure. I just don't find it okay.

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Like right now I know my boyfriend is watching nudity in a TV show and it makes me really sad and uncomfortable and not want to be intimate with him or let him see my body. I am not okay with that.

[ecfresh]

You are insecure, if you think you are not then you are lying to yourself. If he feels confident he would be ok with you looking at dicks online. He isn’t watching the tv show just for the nudity, if that’s the case you should show him porn sites.

Do you understand why you don’t feel like being intimate with you right now? Understand it’s because he isn’t as connected to you at the moment and instead is choosing to focus on a tv show. Does he understand the importance of foreplay and how to seduce you way before even deciding to watch the show tonight?

[Clowr]

Is it full nude where you can see all, top shot where you can see boobs, or full nude shot from the back? Is it ok with underwear?

Do you switch channel when it is a nude male body or nude upper body of breasts where not ok.

It is not like he do like a tv show or movie just because there is nude people in it. And not his fault it do show up.

Could understand it more with porn, cause that would have been something he had searched up him self.

[Asker]

Lots of boobs and full fontal female nudity as well. It hurts me to know he sees other woman.. to me that is just not right, I wish he didn't even want to look at it

[I_smell_Ducky]

Yeah, it's pretty ridiculous.

[Asker]

How could I get over this then? I dont like him seeing other peoples nude bodies...

[I_smell_Ducky]

Fuck if I know. I'm not a psych major. Why not just watch porn with him?

[Anonymous]

If its nudity in the context of a legitimate script in a show or movie, why does it matter? Tasteful story telling nudity is one thing whereas porn is another. Some people might be cool with porn too, but most women I guess would not be?
Can you provide examples of a tv show in particular that bothers you?

[Cammy137]

Yes. That sounds absolutely toxic! I suggest you see a therapist. Im not even saying that as an insult: you legit have issues that need to be dealt with.

[zozo7880]

You mean like porn, or nudity in a movie or tv show?

[Asker]

Tv show

[zozo7880]

It actually is pretty bad, you should work on that insecurity, he's an adult.

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

That's a bit ridicolous yes. As long as he isn't jerking off to anyone it shouldn't bother you. You can't censor the world just because you're together, that suggests emotional immaturity.

[dublin_sexyeyes0]

Yes very controlling of you and yes its an insecurity issue in yourself too

[WhoDatGuy]

This is the tip of the insecure jealous iceberg. He needs to run

[buttcrackjoe]

Its ridiculous and insecure no matter how you try to spin it

[oncpl]

I think it is normal Let him see, rather I would suggest you to watch with him.

[Iron_Man]

It's just TV movies like HBO. But Going on the net looking for it I understand you completely

[Anonymous]

That is kinda ridiculous all right

[Truthatanycost]

Why don't you ask your psychologist...

[TripleAce]

Rofl shtap You 🤦🏻‍♂️

[codycccccccccc]

Seems very religiously prudish

[bangyourhead]

Yeah, that’s nuts. you’re crazy

[MarketData]

"Give me nudity or give me death" - Patrick Henry

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Massive insecurity

[Asker]

how is that a massive insecurity.. I bet he would be uncomfortable if I was looking at dicks on the tv

[SuccessfulHornDog]

He told me that he was not only fine with it but that's something he'd like for you to do together

[Mahof]

Yes very silly