I'm sorry, but no. That's not normal at all. That level of insecurity is beyond unhealthy and it has nothing to do with your boyfriend and everything to do with you. You need to figure out what's going on in you and work on it.
You can talk to him about how you feel, but do not make him feel like it's his fault (because it's not) or that he should stop watching nudity. Because that would be possesive, controlling, and outright toxic. I hope you're aware that he also masturbates. That too should not be a problem for you.
I don't mean this in any offensive way, but you have a lot of growing up to do still, because you don't sound like you're mature enough for a grown-up relationship yet. Again, not meant to offend you, just telling you what I think you need to hear.
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I think it's something to feel uncomfortable about but I will say nudity is kinda mainstream and unless you both are committed christians, small amounts of nudity might happen... But I will say some nudity especially explicit content or longer than average nude scene I think it's ok to ask him to fast forward it.
I'm going to refer to a myTake I wrote about six years ago about porn. I know that's not your specific problem here, but the take-away is the same. It's guys looking at naked women, and how to shift your thinking about it. I hope it helps, and you will feel better after reading that this isn't about you - or about who your boyfriend is looking at.
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Game of Thrones is awesome!
It’s not like it’s porn or anything. And he doesn’t love you or want your body any less because occasionally he thinks about Daenerys naked (NOT while he’s having sex with you). I told you honey. Guys are different that way.
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Totally normal. Id feel uncomfortable too if i was in your shoes. It's like you dont necessarily want him paying attention and flaunting them off more than you. You should talk to him about it though because your feelings are valid in the relationship and he should be considerate and respect how you feel if it's bothering you girl.
This is normal for your age, My last girlfriend was age 18 and I was age 35 at the time and she got mad cause I hugged my own great aunts, yes very crazy of her but things happen but my case was different but still my girl at the time was age 18 and you feel the way you do cause your young and this is common, If you saw him hugging 2 women who were age 50's and he never told you who they were, you might get
the wrong idea?why is your nakedness not enough? why must he watch these beautiful women right in front of you? you might as well be at a strip club
If you watch a show that has nudity and it was your boyfriend's give him a heads up he should really mind at all he may be a little uncomfortable but normal for the both of y'all to be a little uncomfortable just work through it and talk about if you need to
Im pretty sure he thinks you’re just his “friend with benefits.” If you want a real companion, find a man with self-respect and an intelligent understanding of literally half of the 8 bil people on earth. Don’t settle for stupid, don’t waste your time on men who won’t appreciate your unique needs and wants. “Toxic” is a word that means “nonconforming to politically correct standards.” If you’re toxic, he’s a big boy and he can haul his own a$@ back to his own apartment, cry for 10 minutes, and then go watch Game of Thrones.
I mean, that's nothing. Pretty much all guys watch porn. Its a fact.
Wait so you're also not okay with him watching porn?
My opinion: I personally don't think that's wrong lol. I draw the line at live cams and irl making out/sex. Everything else is completely normal.Yes, it's normal for you to feel that way. But it's not okay for you to keep your feelings to yourself. If it bothers you, you need to tell him.
Get over it. He isn’t going to leave you for some woman he has little chance to meet and no chance to date.
Nowadays most movies contains nudity and its increasing
Have you watched Fifty shades, Aviva, blue is the warmest colour
All have much mire nudity
And guys watch porn so they are already watching too much nudity
P. S in movies they are also showing dicks, blowjobs handjobs full sex video so girls would also enjoyI don't know why , it's difficult to get away from ii...
it’s way better than him looking at other random Girls naked not in video games and movies/tv shows
It it disgusts you that much, tell him.
Don't let it tested in you until the argument that makes it worse.I feel you are perfectly fine feeling that way when he is watching something like that. I would talk with him about it making you feel uncomfortable. If it doesn't solve, find someone that will make you a priority
Do you feel insecure?
Seems a bit much to me.
Talk to him, that’s stupid
You're making a big deal of nothing
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