Some do, some don’t. Also depends what you mean by “younger.” Younger than us, who are in our 40s? Or like YOUNGER? If I were single right now, I wouldn’t even consider like 18-24, the younger end of that spectrum would be kinda weird for me age-wise, and the older end, not as much, but I still think there’d be too much of a disconnect in terms of where our lives were at, and also, if you want to consider the hopeful long haul, I’d widow the chick a clean 15-20 years early. 25-30 is more doable, but still a little young for me, functionally. These women are all aesthetically still attractive at those younger ages, but we’re just at a point where I think that’s all that really works out. 30-35 is probably my sweet spot for younger women. My girlfriend now is 35, and it works. It worked when we met, when I was 27 and she was 22, when we were still just young guns. So I guess if I were 45, I’d shoot for 35-40 if you’re looking for younger, unless you’re after objectively YOUNG women, in which case, let us know if you figure out the secret lmao.
@DianaWest There’s nothing wrong with it, they’d totally be in play. But this discussion is strictly about women who are younger than the man. I left out ages 41-44 as younger women for a 45 year old because that’s really almost a negligible difference.
Yes and no. Every woman is different. Some do and some don’t. I am an older gentleman and have a younger wife. I have dated several younger girls and what they like is the security that an older man can bring. They like the experience in bed an older man has (not all but some). Older men can be less jealous and over all more loving. With age comes wisdom and that includes the knowledge of how to treat a woman.
false, for me at least. i'm 20, and any guy past 30 is a no-no for me. I don't like guys to be much younger than me, but if they're 25, 26, whatever. as long as he's kind and smart and hot (in this order). then again, a small portion of people with big age gaps really do love each other. but my eyebrows start to raise when I see a 30 year old with a 60 year old who just so happens to be a millionaire. wow. I personally don't see the appeal in older men. I know some women think it's because they're more "mature," but I find guys my age a lot sexier on average. funny thing is that guys my age never approach me. it's always 40 year old greying dudes that hit on me.
also: i have to admit, i have seen a lot of older guys that i found very hot. guys in their forties and fifties, even late 30s. BUT: here's what takes away the attraction: i think about 10 years from now. 10 years from now, i'll be 30, and he'll be 60.
Men who are older are more likely to have more money and stability, and also are more mature. This is the main reason why it's much more common for women to date older men than younger men. Still, the opposite is quite common. In fact all of my past girlfriends were older than me.
Can’t say I’ve ever really thought about it. Significantly older? Nahhh cuz I just won’t have much in common with them. A bit older like maybe 3-5 years possibly. Turns out I went for a guy a few years younger so idc really.
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I’m not into older men but am married to one. I didn’t fall for him because of his age, but for who he is as a person. But then again I probably wouldn’t have liked him romantically when he was my age from the stories he has told me. So who knows 🤷🏻♀️. He doesn’t look old though, he takes better care of his body than most my age.
Mostly false. On dating sites very few women indicate interest in dating a man more than ten years older. Sure, some very high status men can attract desirable younger women. But mostly no. I'm out a lot and rarely see May-September couples.
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I am 18 and I like bigger they are more mature and attractive
Well, people get pissed off about generalizations / stereotypes because there are always exceptions so they don't apply to everyone in a demographic category. But, there is usually a lot of truth in stereotypes and that is why they exist in the first place. That is certainly true of this one, and there are plenty of studies that confirm it.
In general, older guys are attracted to younger women and younger women are attracted to older guys. It's human nature.
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Does this mean i will get more women in a few years? 😃
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