How long did it take you to had a spark and chemistry in your relationship?

[needhelp777]

[SueShe]

Have you notice how sex has become ever so important in a relationship?

It is mentioned 15% of the time.

It is sad that people put so much emphasis on an act that takes less than 0.1% of a person's time but determines the entire life relationship.

There are reasons for almost 50% of the excuses given.

* You could sleep in different rooms because one snores
* You could go to bed at different times because of different work schedules
* You don't cuddle at night because you have 2 separate beds
* You don't go on dates since you are already together and don't need more dates
* You opt sleep over sex. That is the best one. People could just be tired
* The thought of having sex is revolting. If people have bad hygiene, then it is indeed an issue.

These are just a few observations.

Yes, the advices to bring spark back may be good but again, some are expensive (i. e. week-end abroad, going for dinners/spas & exercise class) for those that don't swim in $/£.

It is true that here are plenty, non sexual activities that can help bring back some life in a failing relationship.

[SueShe]

Thanks for the MHO

[Ankitasingh466]

After 2 years. When i seriously started talking to him. He always makes me laugh.

[needhelp777]

But how did u know?
I dont get it.. my boyfriend and I always said I love u , cuddle with each other etc..

We been together since 2017 ..
But please tell me how did u know and please tell me what u did

[Ankitasingh466]

it just happened naturally. I started going to his house on my own. He starting coming to my house. We spent lot of time together.

[needhelp777]

My boyfriend works..
4pm to 12-3am it varies because of his job
I live at his house..

But right now I'm in an ldr.. because I'm in another state until I go back home to him..

😭😭😭

[Ankitasingh466]

Oh. We stay together but.

[needhelp777]

That good

[BlackRoseFairy]

That's a good question. I've only had really strong chemistry with 2 people so far. And a little "lighter" with another 2.
In the cases of strong chemistry with the 1 person it was right away. It took us like 5 minutes.
With the other one it took a bit more, but to be honest we were still just texting when we both agreed on it, so I guess the lack of a real time in person meeting had an influence on that. (It was 2-3days)
With the "lighter" cases one took us 3 dates and the other was like a week or so...

[JustRollTheDice]

Not gonna lie, with my partner, I felt a spark on our first date, it went from just meeting up for a late lunch to us lying under the stars on campus till five in the morning, and three years later I still get butterflies for him

[luvstoned4him]

Wow, those are quite the lists and you are absolutely right!

[RussianNestingDoll]

A lot of it has to do with showing the other one appreciation and making them feel like the priority.

[FrenchyRomain]

i had the spark and the connection the second i saw her walk through that door on December 16th 2017

[Just_a_human]

Reading those lists make relationships sound like so much work.

[Anonymous]

Before we even met for the first time we felt a spark.

[xyz94]

You don't have to 'try' if it's chemistry it just happens.

[Secret6620]

Instant chemistry for me ♥️🥰

[boggboss]

From the start I guess

[debi2622]

That was immediate with my SO. And has not ebbed.

[notsure1234]

why are you in another state?

[ISarithI]

instantly im sex on legs

[BabyPagan]

From the get go