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At my age, the bond is not sparks and electricity and passion that compels me to copulate. The bond is a warmth, a satisfaction, contentment, the feeling that I am where I belong, and when we are in bed going to sleep and my arms are around her, I know that there is no where else I would rather be. And I feel better just standing close to her!
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I felt instant attraction with all my girlfriends and we fell into deep infatuation.
I felt that with my (future) wife, too. But it took a year for me to be sure I wanted to marry her. I had to be certain that we could spend the rest of our lives together.
My feelings evolved over time, I didn’t see him in a romantic light when we first met but I was always curious about who he was as a person. When we got to know each other more it just kind of happened
Strong feeling from the get go. As it completely took the wind out of my sails. It stays solid as long as you respect it and appreciate it.
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Yes I felt the spark right away
I was not interested in my late husband when we met and he wasn't interested in me. In fact, he told me I made him think of an insect the first time he saw me because of my slender build and all black outfit. In the spirit of mutual insults, I told him I thought he was a fuddy-duddy with no sense of humor. : D But we became friends, and I got to observe him at work. I grew to respect him and found myself thinking about him a lot. We talked more and he started doing little protective things, like buying me pepper spray before I went off to college, calling me for lame reasons and then us talking for hours on the phone. It was two years before I realized I was in love, and three months after that he finally asked me out. A year later we were married. Seven years after that, he died of cancer. I'm thankful for the time we had.
I felt a spark immediately, she didn’t. She finally fell for me when her and I got split up from a group of friends at a music fest and her and I spent time alone. She realized I’m not the “arrogant asshole” she thought I was.
Has always been there a bit like an arc of electricity coursing through the air tying us together bringing us closer
Infatuation grew to interest grew to love reduced to, at times, familiar roommate with a common interest (children). I know that's kind of bleak but it's honest
I never felt that spark. She just asked me out one day. I said "ok". We dated. We dated for a while and she asked me to marry her one day. I said "ok". And 25 years. And 3 kids later we're still married.
We were friends first, but once we started dating the spark came pretty fast
Yes, it happened pretty fast, and it is stronger than ever today after over 9 years of being together.
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I would say both
felt the intense spark n also my feelings evolved over time
It was pretty much from the start. The adventure continues
The spark isn't real. I didn't feel anything for a very long time and sometimes I question the feeling of love.
For me yes. I was mesmerized. She didn’t like me at first but I won out in the end.
Iran K found her attractive when I first saw her, but I didn't love her until after we started dating.
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