Why do some guys run away when things get hard? (Page 2)

Question

Like when you have an argument they choose not to talk to you about it. They leave you helpless and upset for not wanting to discuss it.

Browneye57 · Answer

Cuz YOU make it hard. Arguing is a fail. Why don't you young women get this? You always have to be right. No guy wants to put up with that bullshit.

ronaldo75 · Answer

Because it's absolutely impossible for a man to win an argument or make a point against a woman. Sometimes you're just not worth the effort or the energy.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Women do it to.  At the point in our relationship we needed to talk the most my ex ran away.

demonics · Answer

Honey whats wrong? Nothing. Ok. *Walks away* You mean like that?

esotericstory · Answer

To avoid conflict, humiliation, social punishment, abuse.

Haelaeix123 · Answer

Cus it's easy and cus some guys are cowards, they'd rather run than simply face the issue

AtramentalIvory · Answer

The same reason some girls run away when things get hard. It can be easier to avoid than to deal with.

sheepdip · Answer

Because you've made them angry enough to want to remove themselves from the situation before they do something they regret.

sp33d · Answer

Same reason anyone would. Things get tough and they're not up to working things out for whichever individual quirks of theirs.

Lone_Wolf1990 · Answer

Some guys can't handle their thoughts and mixed emotions. A real man stands by his woman no matter the situation good or bad.

Guitar97 · Answer

If they cared they would stay and talk. If you are referring to your so called boyfriend. Well you already know why.

Angelina25 · Answer

That's pretty annoying

charlottessped · Answer

I'm gonna be honest, I was one of those girls who ran away. My ex and I had lots of problems. Women do it too, I learned from it and next relationship I'll be willing to work it out.

Anonymous · Answer

I can't answer that question without more information about the nature of the argument and your behavior during the argument.

Bigfappa · Answer

because we hate y'all and like to see u feeling upset and alone so that u want us back more

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Sometimes it's wise to do so and sometimes it's not.

Cs428 · Answer

Because their not real man who can happen real situations

Liam_Hayden · Answer

I walk away from unreasonable people and people who are overly demanding.

Unit1 · Answer

Difficult. I could ask the exact same question. I had a girl doing that to me 🙄🙄🙄

Thatgal4426 · Answer

Because they werent looking for commitment from the start

Twalli · Answer

Guys deal with problems alone, by and large. You have an argument and need to get over it, a guy can do that better alone.

standardguy · Answer

If he learned that in his childhood to flee from problems and suffering then he will do it as adult too

2407damo · Answer

Maybe the basic fight or flight response kicks in when things are tough, please don't think I'm defending this action

Anonymous · Answer

Because they often feel their arguments are ignored or dismissed and the debate has become emotional. They feel that the girl is not being fair to them and is not listening to their arguments, but just thinking about herself.

Anonymous · Answer

Cause they could care less. They’re there for the easy parts.

24brownish · Answer

Nope, they wilp come close.. as close as possible when things get hard ;)

LtJackass · Answer

I don't know. Why do some girls spend all your money and disappear? Who cares?

Aphrodite89 · Answer

Women do to cause they can’t handle it the pressures.

MarketNews · Answer

Bad parenting; they've just never learned to discuss issues constructively. Probably their parents had a shitty relationship, or no relationship.

jlo20 · Answer

I don’t think that applies for all guys, because my boyfriend always wants to talk when we have arguments

TallAnon · Answer

I guess it's a coping mechanism. Personally I never had this problem.

Samhanks · Answer

Only the smart ones! To avoid prolonged to and fro arguments !

melodking · Answer

For me, it's just to make sure I don't hurt anyone around...

GreenGold1992 · Answer

better to think before speak than to speak and make things worse

Anonymous · Answer

Well it's better to stop the argument than just talk about our illogical feelings of being hurt like what girls do because being offended doesn't prove anything.

Randomlips · Answer

Not just guys though... but usually lack of care, immaturity or something similar

Twenty2 · Answer

I always talk! I believe without conversation there's no relationship.

Guanfei · Answer

No girl. Your man left you in the shit. Not "some guys".

Liljay_khalifa · Answer

Because some Guys think all the need is the flashy things but they don't really know that Giving them TIME is what really matters...

Anonymous · Answer

I dunno why someone will do that but I’ll never leave the scene until my part is cleared as crystal

Anonymous · Answer

Here’s the thing it’s called being mature and walking away

Anonymous · Answer

Because on a scale out of ten, we only need a three in terms of drama. Women communicate at 11

kieranB98 · Answer

Cuz guys can't deal with people being upset n crying

Anonymous · Answer

For the same reason women bail when they see something they think it better.

Anonymous · Answer

I notice it is mostly women who run away at the first signs of hardship in a relationship, especially financial ones.

TheThinker92 · Answer

We're just not good at expressing ourselves lol

Anonymous · Answer

Because bitches aren't worth the drama they create. And all bitches love to create drama.

Secret6620 · Answer

Inability to cope 🥺😢

Hannajenky · Answer

I didn’t think they could run with it like that 😂

bhavy24 · Answer

They are coward, this shows their mindset

gorman24 · Answer

It all depends on is it a one sided argument?

owens97 · Answer

I don't know y dont u ask the women that do

Caunsos · Answer

Because they are not men.

No_Archons · Answer

cause you were never worth the trouble?

Secretgardenblood · Answer

Men has not a heart:/

DWD94 · Answer

Because we don't want to annoy you.

blondfrog · Answer

That's the way our cookie crumbles.

datgirl · Answer

Cause they are weak minded

Milan_22_ · Answer

I have the same problem the other way around...

i_am_tbjxii · Answer

I mean females do it too

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