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For me, two. The first was the father of my first two children, and died just before I turned 20 and six months pregnant with our second child. And there is my current relationship. I'm not counting the father of the child I'm carrying now, that was a fling that gone wrong.21
A number and more than I want to say because I got blasted the last time I did being called a "player" and whatnot (they didn't seem to account for the fact that I traveled a lot and had to move all the time, not to mention that I eventually got married and over ten years happily).
But it doesn't matter as I see it. Most of them were shite. I would erase them happily in favor of just my wife. Quality over quantity, you know. :-D11
I define relationships as dating or serious. Dating relationships are the ones that never got serious. The serious ones are the ones where I saw a future with her and we both made serious steps. I have had 2 of each. The two dating relationships as a kid, my first love at the end of high school (both of us 18) and the second one when I was in the military. Been single since 2015.10
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Just two... technically one, as one of the "relationships" I consider a pseudo relationship since neither me or the guy felt like a couple: it was more out of convenience and wanting to be in a relationship just to be in one, yet there was no real love there.10
4 adult/serious relationships. I dont really count the middle/high school stuff because we didn't date or share intimacy. It was just cutisie stuff.31
I had one and like him I want to marry the first person I date. I was interested in somebody else lately but I've decided he isn't as perfect as I would want.10
I have had eight serious relationships in my lifetime.10
2 official relationships with DS and DP where they were actually labeled boyfriends. TH, LM, JT, and TL may as well have been boyfriends since they reached the "ily" stage but they didn't reach the physical stage like the 2 dicks above. Plus these guys only lasted 2 months each sadly. The rest i didn't mention were almost boyfriends but didn't reach the ily stage. So yea if i made movie about my love life, i'd only include maybe 6 who shaped me into how i am14
One that was actually a serious relationship. I've always said I'm not really the dating type, and man it's just hard. I dont like dating in the traditional sense, maybe its easier the more extroverted you are. But for someone so introverted that keeps his circle of friends small on purpose, it's difficult meeting people.10
I have been in two relationships.
The first was three months - technically two months due to ghosting ::and cheating::
The second was about a month total, but over a two month period. We broke up and stupidly decided to give it a second chance.
All together, less than six months dating experience total.10
2. The first one was long term (like since 8th grade till senior year high school) and the second one was a short one, that I hoped lasted a bit more. Hoping to meet someone compatible so I can enjoy the long term again.10
One in high school
Two in college, but my second one was like two months long so I don't know if is valid, given that my two other relationships were about 3 years long each. Afterwards nothing steady just fwbs or very casual things10
I've been in 3 relationships. One lasted a few months, while another one lasted 2 years. And this one I'm in right now, we've been together for almost 2 years now and we are engaged so this one better be my last lol10
None. There’s time I really wish I was in one but then when I think about it I’m not ready for the commitment and sacrifices that have to be made. I need to work on my freedom issues first.10
1 1/2 yr.
2 1/2 yr.
Quality, not quantity.40
None as yet. I'm pretty happy with that though. I'm not really ready to be in a relationship yet.40
Six. Four of them didn’t last very long. One was 1-2 years on and off. The other is currently going on three years and we’re engaged. So that’s cool.30
Zero. I've had quite a few fake relationships where people thought I was dating someone because the dude went around and told people that.20
What do you mean by relationship i know a lot of people.12
A lot of them. I feel like I have lived many lives in my time. Just living my best life trying everything.23
Zero. And I won't be in a relationship anytime soon.30
Only one real, real relationship... i have dated like 10 guys, but only Gerald has stayed with me longer than 3 dates...10
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I've been in none (0), lol the guy I liked and had feelings for already is and has been in a 7 year relationship with his girlfriend. Basically I came into his life at the wrong time. Technically I'm single but my heart is taken by a guy that I can't have. I've never got to experience being in a relationship before, no guys are Interested in me to the point where they want a relationship with me. And the sad truth is the "Taken guy" is all that I could ever want in a guy. Even though he's taken and already has the one he truly loves, I still have lingering feelings for him till this day. I have no such Intentions to break them apart, I'm Just liking him, admiring him from a far distance and have been keeping my feelings bottled up all this time. No other guys are into me and I'm not really into other guys except the guy that's taken. He was all that I could want in a guy, he seemed perfect...😞
I had the exact same story.. and now she's married.. i did try.. a lot.. cried a lot.. but i guess time heals everything