How many relationships have you had in your life?

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Shafaq_Mahnoor96 · Accepted Answer

I've been in none (0), lol the guy I liked and had feelings for already is and has been in a 7 year relationship with his girlfriend. Basically I came into his life at the wrong time. Technically I'm single but my heart is taken by a guy that I can't have. I've never got to experience being in a relationship before, no guys are Interested in me to the point where they want a relationship with me. And the sad truth is the "Taken guy" is all that I could ever want in a guy. Even though he's taken and already has the one he truly loves, I still have lingering feelings for him till this day. I have no such Intentions to break them apart, I'm Just liking him, admiring him from a far distance and have been keeping my feelings bottled up all this time. No other guys are into me and I'm not really into other guys except the guy that's taken. He was all that I could want in a guy, he seemed perfect...😞

zoeadams3 · Accepted Answer

For me, two. The first was the father of my first two children, and died just before I turned 20 and six months pregnant with our second child. And there is my current relationship. I'm not counting the father of the child I'm carrying now, that was a fling that gone wrong.

SuperManiac · Accepted Answer

A number and more than I want to say because I got blasted the last time I did being called a "player" and whatnot (they didn't seem to account for the fact that I traveled a lot and had to move all the time, not to mention that I eventually got married and over ten years happily).

But it doesn't matter as I see it. Most of them were shite. I would erase them happily in favor of just my wife. Quality over quantity, you know. :-D

jgokgotit · Accepted Answer

I define relationships as dating or serious. Dating relationships are the ones that never got serious. The serious ones are the ones where I saw a future with her and we both made serious steps. I have had 2 of each. The two dating relationships as a kid, my first love at the end of high school (both of us 18) and the second one when I was in the military. Been single since 2015.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

Just two... technically one, as one of the "relationships" I consider a pseudo relationship since neither me or the guy felt like a couple: it was more out of convenience and wanting to be in a relationship just to be in one, yet there was no real love there.

SydneySentinel · Answer

4 adult/serious relationships. I dont really count the middle/high school stuff because we didn't date or share intimacy. It was just cutisie stuff.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I had one and like him I want to marry the first person I date. I was interested in somebody else lately but I've decided he isn't as perfect as I would want.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I have had eight serious relationships in my lifetime.

DizzyDesii · Answer

2 official relationships with DS and DP where they were actually labeled boyfriends. TH, LM, JT, and TL may as well have been boyfriends since they reached the "ily" stage but they didn't reach the physical stage like the 2 dicks above. Plus these guys only lasted 2 months each sadly. The rest i didn't mention were almost boyfriends but didn't reach the ily stage. So yea if i made movie about my love life, i'd only include maybe 6 who shaped me into how i am

Okami_Kitsune · Answer

One that was actually a serious relationship. I've always said I'm not really the dating type, and man it's just hard. I dont like dating in the traditional sense, maybe its easier the more extroverted you are. But for someone so introverted that keeps his circle of friends small on purpose, it's difficult meeting people.

Anonymous · Answer

I have been in two relationships.

The first was three months - technically two months due to ghosting ::and cheating::

The second was about a month total, but over a two month period. We broke up and stupidly decided to give it a second chance.

All together, less than six months dating experience total.

SoWhAt249 · Answer

2. The first one was long term (like since 8th grade till senior year high school) and the second one was a short one, that I hoped lasted a bit more. Hoping to meet someone compatible so I can enjoy the long term again.

MPenelope · Answer

One in high school
Two in college, but my second one was like two months long so I don't know if is valid, given that my two other relationships were about 3 years long each. Afterwards nothing steady just fwbs or very casual things

MissKittyz · Answer

I've been in 3 relationships. One lasted a few months, while another one lasted 2 years. And this one I'm in right now, we've been together for almost 2 years now and we are engaged so this one better be my last lol

midnightmoon05 · Answer

4 1 1/2 yr. 8 years. 2 years. 2 1/2 yr.  Quality, not quantity.

Just_a_human · Answer

Zero. I've had quite a few fake relationships where people thought I was dating someone because the dude went around and told people that.

menina · Answer

Zero. And I won't be in a relationship anytime soon.

Supernatural_fanatic · Answer

None. There’s time I really wish I was in one but then when I think about it I’m not ready for the commitment and sacrifices that have to be made. I need to work on my freedom issues first.

AdHdSqUiRrEl · Answer

None as yet. I'm pretty happy with that though. I'm not really ready to be in a relationship yet.

BatmansWife · Answer

Six. Four of them didn’t last very long. One was 1-2 years on and off. The other is currently going on three years and we’re engaged. So that’s cool.

ChiTown33 · Answer

What do you mean by relationship i know a lot of people.

Neeceeb7 · Answer

A lot of them. I feel like I have lived many lives in my time. Just living my best life trying everything.

bonniebaby19 · Answer

Only one real, real relationship... i have dated like 10 guys, but only Gerald has stayed with me longer than 3 dates...

Hurlyburly · Answer

My boyfriend is my fifth, at least if I do not count the "relationship" I've had when I was 8 years old xD

Drumlin2001 · Answer

2.  I was a late bloomer, first relationship at 35. Didn't last. Dated someone new for couple of months, didn't get to relationship stage. Then i met current girlfriend.

nerms123 · Answer

there are 4 actual relationships that i remember, there maybe a few others that were ambiguous, like one in high school that wasn't really official

actually_Megan · Answer

Two serious relationships (one of which was long distance). Three non-serious. And two flings. Seven women total.

leahzrc · Answer

I dont count any as one but I had a boyfriend kind of thing for 3 months last summer but I still dont count him

saeyamazaki · Answer

A few. Like one in college, three in high school, two in middle school and like a fake one in elementary.

ImagineSketchy · Answer

0 romantic 5 True friendships Too many acquaintances/associates to bother counting or keeping up with.

pleasestopthis · Answer

One. Too troublesome, I don't feel like dating now.

BobbyC65 · Answer

Only two relationships with girl's and two one night stand's with girl's and a few hour's with the same gender. A guy I was naked with in my bedroom. :)

hannahbj · Answer

None😂 I rejected everyone because I fell deeply in love with someone and I only wanted to be with him

Graptemys79 · Answer

Well, technically friends and family are "relationships" but if you go by dating relationships, it would be three. If you count all friends, work acquaintances, family members, and students I have had over the years, it would easily be thousands.

MissSkirt · Answer

Two.
One was with a schoolmate who already worked when I was still in university. It lasted for only three months.
The other was with an international student in nearby university. It lasted for two and a half years.

Vaelthor · Answer

I'd say one, but even that didn't last long as it became very long distance after 2 months.

MannySimms · Answer

Jesus, I'm 70 and a social gadfly. Maybe between 30 and 100. Good times and lotsa varied experiences. I've done shit you've never even thought of!

CandacePerry · Answer

2 in high school 7 in college and one out side of college. On my 9th relationship.

SarahElizabeth98 · Answer

Just one since I was 15 and still with the same person and always will be. I don’t want a second man in my life.

Lynzerilee · Answer

None, but numerous rejections and almost-relationships

Lemia · Answer

Proper Relationships I'm in my first real one now. False relationships One

lxathed · Answer

I've had 8 serious relationships But a lot, and I can't stress it enough, but a hella lot of friends with benefits

Anonymous · Answer

Excluding childhood "dating", I've only been in one true relationship. I've mingled but I take my time and find someone I actually want to be with.

Kdude010 · Answer

0 because I didn't feel like I needed anyone else as a partner. I love me, myself and I.
If I date anyone, it will only deteriorate me into a lesser person than the person I am currently. I will no longer have time for myself.

Anonymous · Answer

When people tell their body counts it’s like a thousand. I’m surprised y these answers

Anonymous · Answer

Only been in one real relationship and we are still married.

Willthewise · Answer

None, its usually just my friends that are in relationships such as Mike and el, Lucas and max and well I guess Dustin and his "suzie-poo", maybe one day!!!

Prettysammie · Answer

Depends on what you mean by a relationship. I would say seven.

AL1994ind · Answer

I think 4 stupid ones that were not that serious at all, but this 5th one is just so different and I love him!!

hafinjun · Answer

7 all told that I considered long term , including one marriage

rosar_02 · Answer

I have one realation without counting friend with benefits and something like that

Pearl845 · Answer

Just the one, that was abusive relationship. Now I am see someone. X

13IsALuckyNumber · Answer

None, I’m actually hoping to change that soon though.

ChiPaPa · Answer

Zero and more than likely that's going to be the number for the rest of my life.

Kay_Swiftie1989 · Answer

I've had one relationship and I haven't had one since because of having a lot of commitments in my life

Anonymous · Answer

Well I'm counting IRL that would be 2 1 bad 1 great. Online about 3ish maybe just 2 but still 1 and 1

Piteka5 · Answer

Only one, I only fell in love twice so it's still a 50% success ratio ahaha

PrincessGrail · Answer

Twelve

AvaMorales · Answer

None!! Sometimes my friends tease me cause I am pretty slim and yet don't date, but I am really happy being single. People even called me lesbian yet... here I am, single. : )

GhettoGirl · Answer

Three, one with a girl, two with guys. I'm done.

Anonymous · Answer

2 with a labels on them but 1 didn't last 2 weeks that.

Anonymous · Answer

One and each other’s first. We’ve been together for 2 and a half years and we are still the same from the beginning lol.

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

Real, imaginary or either?

Trings · Answer

2, and I won't have any more. Trust is a fantasy... except to pets.😊

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