The same thing that causes a man to cheat on his woman, LACK OF DISCIPLINE. It takes spine, discipline, and durability to be faithful. You have to be a rock. You have to be unmovable and unbreakable. Most people are fragile and easily displaced. They are weak. Loyal partners are strong.
People are greedy and they always want better no matter how good it is sometimes. I've never cheated or been cheated on but I've had these feeling and I know I've had girls in my life who've felt the same way no matter how deep in love you are usually you feel like something is missing.
Many factors are involved, for example, sexual dissatisfaction, indifferent attitude, diminishing of love, abusive relations, husband's attachment with other girl, wife's own hyper-sexuality and curiosity to explore it, company she stays with, etc.
There are a variety of reasons why anyone cheats. The SO is always working and she feels neglected, physical or emotional abuse can cause someone to cheat. But I think the #1 reason for it is an insecure SO who constantly accuses the other of cheating even if they are not. Eventually the one being accused will just say the hell with it and go have the affair they are being accused of having.
Besides being an overall scumbag of a person. Like I said about 90% of people that cheat in a relationship, there is something missing. For men, the women don't give enough effort, or enthusiasm. Sometimes very lazy. Not willing to explore further. Woman, most of the time, they aren't getting the Hollywood romance that they dream there men to have. Or they are being treated they way the feel they should.
Usually just prior to 30yo some deep thinking about her future begins and thoughts of trading up begin, esp. on a money/retirement theme... bring along some physical upgrades and family security helps seduce her
Or, the husband not giving her what she needs emotionally and/or physically. He could have erectile dysfunction, depression, alcoholic (makes you less hard), lazy, weight gain. And so many other things.
@bigcuband I was answering the question as to reasons why a woman would cheat, not placing blame on the man. The woman is guilty of cheating, but there is a possibility that it could’ve stemmed from something to do with her current guy. When you cheat on your girl, does she get the blame or do you?
Number 1 reason is ciuz she is selfish , she craves Money, status thinks grass is greener, attention seeker, only cares about herself, doesn't feel beautiful anymore so she is drawn to someone that says she is beautiful, her husband or boyfriend out on some pounds so she is drawn to a guy that takes care of himself or has a higher paying job. SO Selfishness is the number 1 reason a girl cheats
The fact he never offers to go out, never gifted me anything nor ever gave a flower (which I clearly hinted him). He never comments my art work nor encourages it and acts like its not much. Plus he never comments my appearance nor ever called me beautiful or made me feel wanted
I will take a guess : Either because he isn't taking good care of her (give time, attention,...) so she goes find someone that will either she never had real feelings for him and he was a just a temporary situation untill she finds the one she likes
Being a whore. I mean we can mince words all we like but the fact that she doesn't just dump him or divorce him if it's gotten to that point first over cheating on him makes her a whore... sorry. The same goes for men!
Swollen clit syndrome. .. Actually, most women truly down deep hate/despise their SO and it is in their nature to one-up and find that next best branch in the mating hypergamy evolutionary model. I don’t think it is spite as much as they seek their perceived best gene pool. Boredom, disgust, little-financial, little-dck, eats-strange, sucks-his-teeth, no-bad-boy-gene, and so on… are all symptoms of the breeding up instinct.
It could be any of these choices. Usually, women cheat because she's missing something emotionally in a relationship. Her partner probably isn't giving her enough attention.
I don´t know. Many things factor in to this. But self-esteem, insecurity or similar things very much. And then there are always the ones who are just fucking sluts! :)
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The same thing that causes a man to cheat on his woman, LACK OF DISCIPLINE. It takes spine, discipline, and durability to be faithful. You have to be a rock. You have to be unmovable and unbreakable. Most people are fragile and easily displaced. They are weak. Loyal partners are strong.
People are greedy and they always want better no matter how good it is sometimes. I've never cheated or been cheated on but I've had these feeling and I know I've had girls in my life who've felt the same way no matter how deep in love you are usually you feel like something is missing.
Many factors are involved, for example, sexual dissatisfaction, indifferent attitude, diminishing of love, abusive relations, husband's attachment with other girl, wife's own hyper-sexuality and curiosity to explore it, company she stays with, etc.
I think there should be an option for "because he also cheated on her" as I've heard of that happening a lot
Ya, I put one about guys cheating also :) ...
What causes a guy to have an affair behind his girlfriend, or wife's, back? ↗
I mean like a women may cheat on her boyfriend if she found out he cheated on her already. Like as revenge being the motive.. ya know?
Oh, yes, I see what you are saying.
I agree, I'll bet that does happen! :)
Yeah I've quite often heard of both women and men doing that
There are a variety of reasons why anyone cheats. The SO is always working and she feels neglected, physical or emotional abuse can cause someone to cheat. But I think the #1 reason for it is an insecure SO who constantly accuses the other of cheating even if they are not. Eventually the one being accused will just say the hell with it and go have the affair they are being accused of having.
Besides being an overall scumbag of a person. Like I said about 90% of people that cheat in a relationship, there is something missing. For men, the women don't give enough effort, or enthusiasm. Sometimes very lazy. Not willing to explore further. Woman, most of the time, they aren't getting the Hollywood romance that they dream there men to have. Or they are being treated they way the feel they should.
Something is missing either way.
Usually just prior to 30yo some deep thinking about her future begins and thoughts of trading up begin, esp. on a money/retirement theme... bring along some physical upgrades and family security helps seduce her
Or, the husband not giving her what she needs emotionally and/or physically.
He could have erectile dysfunction, depression, alcoholic (makes you less hard), lazy, weight gain.
And so many other things.
Of course you blame the man you suck
@bigcuband
I was answering the question as to reasons why a woman would cheat, not placing blame on the man. The woman is guilty of cheating, but there is a possibility that it could’ve stemmed from something to do with her current guy.
When you cheat on your girl, does she get the blame or do you?
Simple
Number 1 reason is ciuz she is selfish , she craves Money, status thinks grass is greener, attention seeker, only cares about herself, doesn't feel beautiful anymore so she is drawn to someone that says she is beautiful, her husband or boyfriend out on some pounds so she is drawn to a guy that takes care of himself or has a higher paying job. SO Selfishness is the number 1 reason a girl cheats
The fact he never offers to go out, never gifted me anything nor ever gave a flower (which I clearly hinted him). He never comments my art work nor encourages it and acts like its not much. Plus he never comments my appearance nor ever called me beautiful or made me feel wanted
You need to find the boy that will treat you like the princess that you are Ms HBC!
I will take a guess : Either because he isn't taking good care of her (give time, attention,...) so she goes find someone that will either she never had real feelings for him and he was a just a temporary situation untill she finds the one she likes
Being a whore. I mean we can mince words all we like but the fact that she doesn't just dump him or divorce him if it's gotten to that point first over cheating on him makes her a whore... sorry.
The same goes for men!
Swollen clit syndrome. .. Actually, most women truly down deep hate/despise their SO and it is in their nature to one-up and find that next best branch in the mating hypergamy evolutionary model. I don’t think it is spite as much as they seek their perceived best gene pool. Boredom, disgust, little-financial, little-dck, eats-strange, sucks-his-teeth, no-bad-boy-gene, and so on… are all symptoms of the breeding up instinct.
She's a selfish narcissistic bitch who doesn't care who she hurts as long as she gets to do what she feels like.
Some girls love attention from more than one man. Or some just have a cheating problem.
It could be any of these choices. Usually, women cheat because she's missing something emotionally in a relationship. Her partner probably isn't giving her enough attention.
if he is to busy to have sex with her and when she has the urge to have sex then she will do it with who ever is handy around her ! thanks
Some kind of dissatisfaction with her relationship with her boyfriend or husband, whether it be sexual or emotional
Low self-esteem or the prospect of a huge cock!
I don´t know. Many things factor in to this. But self-esteem, insecurity or similar things very much. And then there are always the ones who are just fucking sluts! :)