Is it possible to recover a failed shit test?

[Anonymous]

Today I realized that she was asking me questions about marriage to test me. Last day she texted me ' go and hang up with the girls who doesn't want to have a serious relationship. I want to get married and be mother, I cannot deal with such nonsense things and I don't want to hurt you. promise me! what do you want from me ' and I explained my interest to her and how I care about her. She said that she didn't like me at all and said ' don't talk to me again'. The other day she said ' good morning to you too ' like nothing happened the previous day. Should I text her saying that I am not the person that she thought and I don't deserve what she said or should I wait until she texts me? ( she was not texting me for 5 days)

[Anonymous]

Do she ever explain to you what she wanted out of a relationship?

If she didn't clearly state she was dating to get married or possibly move toward marriage at some point this sounds like an odd discussion and a bit passive aggressive.

Honestly you might want to let her go unless she can explain herself a bit better.

[Asker]

No, Actually we were not dating. We were just talking at work, text messaging and on the phone. She was asking me what I thought about her and whether I want to get married or not and I said that she is cute and I don't think of getting married for now. I wonder all of these are excuses or she is trying to test me from the beginning because she cannot trust me.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know the whole thing is odd if you aren't even dating. I guess if you were thinking of dating for the purpose of marriage it would make some sense and then the woman or man should state that is their purpose for dating. I'd let it drop and just see what happens. You should have to worry about what she is thinking if you know yourself to be trust worthy and I don't know how saying you aren't ready for marriage would be untrustworthy if that is the truth.

[Asker]

Can we talk on private message if you wouldn't mind?

[boggboss]

Seems pointless at this point as she don't seem to care what u have to say