I would straight up ask if he has another girl he wants to be with cause if he has a girlfriend he already mind on there should be no two side chicks. If he not committed to you I wouldn’t bother with him. Some relationships give a second chance and then what happens is the cycle of trusting and mistrust. They say they’ll get better and focus on you but doesn’t happen and you are wasting your time and energy to chase after them and it stresses you out. Or so happens they get their act together and do what is right and put the time and love into you.
If you are in an relationship, your mind should not be thinking about crushes or anyone else but your one and only love. I consider it cheating and if I did that I shouldn’t be in a relationship with my man in a first place.
I heard people my age or many in college even don’t think through decisions in dating and basically go through hookups and all ( being the one at parties always and/or getting high) but I haven’t had that in mind and I believe I found my only one.
I don't know if our relationship will last long enough but whatever happens I’ll see what I’ll do next if I wanna be in a relationship right then or not.
*Sorry this was long*🌺🌺
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I wouldn't really say it's not normal but it shouldn't be happening if your committed in a relationship and you shouldn't have your eye on anyone but your partner if so you need to be single I think.
No. It is neither normal nor acceptable. In a relationship in which love has been declared; your eyes and heart are supposed to be with your partner only. If you have a crush on someone else, it means that your heart is with that person, not your partner. It means the love you declared for your partner was false.
It's normal to notice other attractive people. It's not normal to advertise that attraction on twitter for the world to see. Especially the fact he's talking about an ex. He's not over his ex. Open and shut case.
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It is normal & anyone who claims they don’t (for a long period at least) are full of bulls**t. Being with someone doesn’t suddenly make the rest of the world ugly.
It is NOT normal or moral, however, to act on these feelings while still in a relationship. Cheating is never acceptableIt's normal to crush on anybody regardless of relationship status
It's not when active effort is made in order to cheat on someone.
Your boyfriend sounds like an insecure douchebag, who you should better leave.NOT NORMAL
What the fk?
How are people voting yes to this?
Might as well go for the other girl then.
If my boyfriend tells me he likes another girl too, I'd leave.
And vice versa
He would be freakin upset if I liked another guy
And the fact he posted on social media about it?
WHAT THE EFFFFFFF?
Thats so disrespectful af
People would be laughing at you right now since you're still with him
Sorry girl
DUMP HIS ASS
he's about to cheatAlmost all boys have some sort of attraction toward other girls , even they have their girlfriend or wife. And its natural. But being a sensible you should try to hide those feelings instead of sharing them
Normal. Still shitty and I'd dump their ass over it.
It's normal to have a crush... but IT'S NOT NORMAL WRITE IT ON TWITTER!!!
Probably this guy has a brain of 4 years old kid... that's ridiculousThat particular situation is fucked up. What kind of moron posts that on Twitter.
It's normal, but that doesn't mean it's okay or good. It's common to still have feelings from a past relationship. That's partly why I don't like sluts. Too much baggage.
Yes that's his ex girlfriend it's 100% normal you never stop living someone. I still got feeling for my ex but happy with my current girlfriend of 3 years and even had a crush on a friend never acted on it.
It's normal but usually you know that there is no way of ever getting in to a relationship with them
If u r serious it shouldn't happen.. If so then ur not with the rite person
That is harsh so he just picked you bc he could not get with her. That is not okay
Your boyfriend is a dumbass.
Why are you still with him? Just dump him.
Break up then
Possible, but not normal.
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