Is it fine/normal to crush on other people when in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Tbh I don’t think it’s okay. It’s fine to notice someone’s beauty but you shouldn’t care at all.

Yes it’s fine/normal to crush

No it’s not okay

[jennifer_bloom]

I’m single but I believe your ideal partner is the one you have a connection and loving friendship with. Not the one that gives you the biggest thrills and weekly restaurant food. Many men and women choose the thrill over the partnership and end up dating abusers who ruin their lives.

[Anonymous]

To be attracted to other people is normal but not having crushes.

[Boomchakalaca]

Is that the same thing, crush and attraction?

[Opinion Owner]

Not to me

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Being attracted is one thing. Allowing for such feelings to develop in the first place shouldn't happen to begin with.

[Avicenna]

Well, a crush is too much. but just being attracted is normal.

[TacosRAwesome]

Are we talking about admitting someone is hot type of crush or are we talking about crushes that are a fine line away from an emotional / physical affair? Attractive people will always exist whether you're l

[Akam93]

Very normal. Even married people do. I would know.

[Asker]

Could you explain how they do it? Like do they care? Is it disloyal the way they do it?

[Akam93]

I dont know. Your asking the wrong person.

[Asker]

Would you not do that?

[Akam93]

I already have.

[Asker]

But I thought you were obsessed with this guy ‘that is just perfect.’ What happened to that?

[Akam93]

What are you talking about?

[Anonymous]

I've been guilty but yes its not okay

[Iron_Man]

Not to crush no

[Anonymous]

Crushes are for teenagers.

[Sasha0426]

Crushes have an age limit? I honestly didn’t know that. As adults, what are we suppose to say?