When you want to dress sexy and revealing, Do you do it for yourself, for your partner or for other people (excluding your partner)?

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When you want to dress sexy and revealing, Do you do it for yourself, for your partner or for other people (excluding your partner)?

When you want to dress sexy and revealing, Do you do it for yourself, for your partner or for other people (excluding your partner)?

When you want to dress sexy and revealing, Do you do it for yourself, for your partner or for other people (excluding your partner)?

When you want to dress sexy and revealing, Do you do it for yourself, for your partner or for other people (excluding your partner)?

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the images above. Of course there are many different kinds and styles of such clothes but it is just to give you an idea.

I asked this because yesterday (Sunday) I was doing some errands at a supermarket and then I saw a lady in a tight sexy stripped dress with black boots a bit above her knees and she was with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend on the other hand was wearing normal casual men clothes. I was like what? Then I asked myself. Do guys really like their SO to be wearing tight revealing clothes that sometimes they look like prostitutes? I had seen this in several occasions, the lady looking trashy and racy and their SO, acting like their SO is some kind of trophy to them.

It is fine and I agree for a woman to wear sexy clothes to draw the attention from your SO, your crush, etc but over doing it is when it is totally wrong, that you end up looking like a hoe…. But there are women you see on streets or on stores, etc that you just ask to yourself WHY?

Do guys who like women wearing such clothes have some kind of respect to their SO or that has nothing to do with respect and you let your girl whatever they want?

What are your thoughts on this?
Updates:
Guys Would you really like your gf/partner/SO to be wearing those clothes or similar to those in public where everyone obviously will be staring at her. Would not you be uncomfortable?
What will be the valid reason for a man to enjoy seeing his girlfriend wearing such clothes, tight, revealing, short, etc etc in public? I What do guys gain by that? Really guys? You like ur girl to be wearing similar clothes? I mean a woman can look still sexy and attractive and feel good about themselves but not with clothes super tight, super short, super revealing. Most ladies here claim they do it for themselves? Really? I have my doubts. They do it to get the attention from others is that easy.

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  • Maybe she actually was a prostitute 😐
    But in all seriousness xD
    Some guys tend to like having a girl that others ogle only to feel a boost of confidence because he can claim ownership and feel proud that guys want what's his (it's how guys compete... and it's seen a lot in how they treat their cars and show it off to other guys too)

    Some girls do in fact just have a taste for tight clothes and love the feeling when they wear it. Some girls are deterred by the stares and attention, and other girls feel rewarded.
    I guess what I'm trying to say, is we can't really know for sure why someone does what they do. But it is possible that if they loved getting the attention they got while wearing tight clothes, their brains might have conditioned itself to have the same high they used to get from the attention from just the clothes and so to them they may actually think that they are doing it for themselves but really it's the pre-attention high that they are enjoying/feeling.
    It's the same phenomenon as to why men love lingerie, it's not the actual lingerie they love but the actual thought of removing it and what it leads to (most often when a female wears lingerie she wants sex).
    The phenomenon is called operant conditioning (specifically positive reward)

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  • I don't really dress sexy and revealing so much, more like "sharp" if I put an effort, but I do it for other people mostly these days. My wife already knows how I look at my sharpest, and she doesn't seem that impressed anymore. Whereas with other people, they get impressed and I still get compliments from girls and such and that makes me happy, and even guys seem more interested in talking to me and getting to know me when I look my best, and that makes getting new friends and acquaintances easier.

    >> Guys Would you really like your gf/partner/SO to be wearing those clothes or similar to those in public where everyone obviously will be staring at her. Would not you be uncomfortable?

    Well, I'm used to it. I dated some girls who dressed really sexy and you get stares and guys trying to pick up your girl and so forth. I don't get jealous of it. I do get annoyed if it gets excessive, but it's usually not so excessive unless we're going to a night club or something.

    I prefer that they don't but it's like their choice as I see it. I'm not particularly a meddling type unless things are really starting to irritate me, at which point I might politely request a change and just break up if that doesn't work out.

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    • In particular I still like it when girls get really flirty and say things like, "You're so lucky to have him" to my wife (even though it probably irritates her). And that's with no intentions of cheating on my wife, it's just feeding my ego a bit and letting me know I still have what it takes (which might somehow be useful for keeping my wife interested in me as well).

  • I say women do it for ALL 3.
    It's human nature. Most women want to be desirable, to their man or in general to others.
    If my chick wore that, I'd be cool because she is mine. I know whatever happens, we are together. Plus, I love the view. lol

    Also, be careful. You are sounding like you're hating.

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  • I don't really care what she wears. She's mine. Other guys can look, but they can't touch. I wouldn't encourage her to dress provocatively for public, but if it's something she wants to do, fine. I'm not going to control what she wants to wear.

    A guy who would try and control how she dresses just reeks of insecurity, to me.

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    • I have no feelings about it. She can do what she wants.

      I would not be uncomfortable if she dressed provocatively in public.

  • I personally do not desire a partner who wears revealing clothing and I'm off-put by the women who do.

    As for the men who don't care.
    About two thirds of men are promiscuous, they lead relationships out of convenience rather than emotional attachment.
    As long as their dick doesn't stop getting sucked off, what is there to complain about?

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  • If it were my girlfriend, i suppose a strong sense of pride for her as seeing as she is the best dressed or goddess like being that has confidence in dressing in this bold fashion. It’s as if to say she’s flying close to the sun but far enough not to get burned. It adds a bit of danger and a compelling nature. Sure other people would stare and eye fuck, but it is something... unique, if the word fits.

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  • As far as your update goes, no I would not like for my girlfriend to wear clothes like that. Some kinds of athletic wear that are somewhat similar would be fine, but overall I wouod not like it because I do not go around in deep V-necks and transparent pants--not that anyone wants me to lol

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  • Everyone knows that women dress sexy for one of two reasons. First, to make other women jealous. Second, to attract men other than the one she currently has.

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  • No woman does it for her self. That b. s and very few do it for their partner. Dressing sexy or revealing is merely done for other people. Attention attention attention is what you seek

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    • Whoever the female is that disagreed with you, she's in denial. It's 100% true... women dress in extremely revealing clothes for attention, and that includes teasing boys and men with their bodies. Just to be clear though guys... it doesn't give ANY man to force yourself on a woman and say "hey, you're the one dressing like you want it".

    • They know most men aren't interested in chit chatting about women problems or gossiping about others so their only wayd to tempt men is by objectifying themselves

    • OK so we don't do it for ourselves... its for attention
      So?
      And when receive attention for dressing provocatively, isn't that exactly what we supposedly wanted in the first place, so we get what we want, how is that Not for ourselves?
      Personally if I dress in something I know my partner would like, I enjoy the compliments, the expression on his face or even the physical reaction, that all benefits me... so when I dress a certain way to get a certain reaction and I get it... mission accomplished... all for me

  • That wasn't her boyfriend, that was her pimp lol.

    And no way I'd be attracted to a girl who dressed like that anyway. I like modesty. If she dresses sexy it better be for me. Also, when we go out to do something special I wouldn't mind a classy dress.

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  • What kind of woman dresses like that? Have some self-respect.

    Or do you want the people around you to burst out into a laughing fit?

    Dressing like that (keep telling yourself it's for none other than yourself) is pathetic, because it screams: "I'm a whore." / "I like to fuck/be fucked."

    etc.

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  • Even if they're single, I strongly dislike women like this. It's too flashy and/or revealing and I only get negative impressions from such women, such as: desperate for attention, gold-digger, unfaithful in a relationship, and a hoe.

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    • I know this sounds cold, but that's my honest view.
      And it's rrinforced by me being correct more times than I wish I wish to say.

  • Only if we are going to a club or swinger party? I’ve seen girls out in “summer wear” like rompers or play suits, but I suspect that’s more about staying cool in the Texas heat than attracting sexual heat.

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  • No I will not feel uncomfortable. Infact I will enjoy to see other jeauls. She is mine and she can wear anything in which she feels comfortable. For bad people I'm their dad. If they are staring then it's not a big deal. It's normal today. Even girls stare at guys asses 😉

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    • I like it more if she will dressed like this for me when no one around... This is my first preference

  • My girlfriend wears stuff like that and I asked her the same thing one day well she said it's for her own confidence, with that being said i don't care if it was for her confidence or trying to get male eyes, she's mine so they can look all they want but I'm the one she is leaving with

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  • a) the women in the pics are hot as f, simple as that
    b) I would love it if my girlfriend dressed that way but only on my request
    c) I would also love to see the look of jealousy on the faces of my other friends on seeing her dressed like that

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  • You like to see that look in the eyes of men with open mouth , but believe me keep it for your only partner is so much better because his is the only one love your inside to outside but others just wanted to eat outside then through you out

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  • Excellent question. And I think they do it for ALL of them. They just seek attention from anyone. If SO is blind to that or not interested, looks or compliments from anyone else would fulfill their esteem.

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    • Fortunately or unfortunately, I come from a culture and background where my SO has her own limits and I have no issue with that.

  • Ehm, I remember @redeyemindtricks saying her husband said a woman should dress so that she would feel like a woman, but classy enough to feel like a lady. I agree with her husband.

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  • Since u writed this much means is a huge impact on u. And poor guy, i can axcept the first time i go out with a girl if she dress like that but the other times i tell her to go back home and change while i wait without huryng up.

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  • I think a woman should do it for herself and her Partner (if she has one) or just for herself (if she doesn't).

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    • but some of those clothes and I are slutty. Do guys rea lly enjoy seeing theri SO looking trashy? Because those kind of clothes are trashy and I even seen worse than that.

      I doubt a lady will like her guy to bve wearing sloppy clothes and all looking like a mess.

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    • I've never told a girlfriend how to Dress, and I won't start now. In public, I think she shouldn't dress like that (never had a girlfriend that did, either).

    • That is what I meant in public when he is hanging out with you, like going to parties, go to eat something, running errands, etc etc Why I would want to wear such clothes in home anyway.

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  • Well I think there’s a fine difference of stay sexy and classy vs sexy trashy lol.

    I mainly dress sexy for myself and my man. I don’t need to impress anyone else when I’m taken and gotta love yourself. Dress good to feel good and confident. 😉

    Well I don't know why taken women need other people’s attention when they have a man. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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    • I just read your updated to your question. We are here to give you our honest opinions. If you don’t think what we said are the truth, then what’s the point of this question post? It sounds like you wanna hear that you’re right only. Of course anyone who would wanna dress good look good for themselves too.

  • When I'm getting ready to go out on a date with my fiance, he's usually with me when I'm trying to decide on what to wear. He helps me choose my clothes. If he picks my revealing ones, I don't object since they're still respectable anyway. He's mainly who I please when we're out together. When I go out without him, I dress for myself which isn't far from what he would have picked out for me.

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  • Myself. I like dressing up so that I feel good about myself. I would never wear any of the outfits in the pictures. My definition of dressing up is different.

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    • I seen some ladies wearing similar dresses like those out in public with their boyfriend or partners pr very revealing and tight.

    • I'll sometimes wear a tight dress if the event is appropriate but very rarely will I wear a revealing dress.

  • When my boyfriend and I first met I was a teenager wearing heavy metal t-shirts and Adidas sneakers and I had a total tomboy look and didn't wear dresses or heels. now I wear pretty much everything except overalls or bikinis But, dressing sexy one in a while for your man like, on his birthday or a date night once in a while is okay if, he's cool with it.

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  • I like to wear sexy clothes when I'm feeling particularly confident and I'm not going to an event that would otherwise "shame" me for dressing revealingly. So yeah sometimes, I'll go to the grocery store wearing cute things but then if I'm not feeling confident (more lazy) I'll just wear sweats. I like to dress sexy for me and for a man to remind him what he's got and not to take it for granted.

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  • I don't dress THAT revealing, personally. But, if I do, it's about 70 per cent for myself, 20 per cent for my man, and 10 per cent for others. Only because being checked out boosts my ego a little. But, even if people didn't look at me, I'd still enjoy my outfits lol.

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  • primarily I would think a woman has to feel confident and comfortable dressing that way or she wouldn't.. that being said, she probably doesn't mind the attention she knows she will receive and to make her SO happy is a plus as well.

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  • I dress for myself first and foremost to make myself good and then my boo then for the world... I dress sexy but not barely dressed to the point you don't leave anything for the imagination. I dress enough to show some curves, a little skin and still look put together. That even my boo will be proud to say i am his woman. Not be embarrassed by me...

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  • sexy revealing clothes are what got us our boyfriend.

    For a while, they like us wearing it to show us off as arm candy.

    then when other guys take notice, they get jealous and want us to stop.

    I dress sexy for myself, and yes, to get guys to notice me..

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  • I don’t dress sexy all the time but when I do, it’s for me or the occasion. I don’t really consider how other people are gonna look at me unless I’m out on a friendly date. For friendly dates, I dress in tracksuits so that they don’t get the wrong message.

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    • Update: I think some guys are into that because they treat their girl like a trophy. She looks like a whole meal that every other man wants to devour but they simply can’t have. Some guys just like to show off their girls body for the social praise that is disguised by jealousy among their peers.
      Also... I know you don’t believe it but not every woman who chooses to dress sexy does it for other people’s attention. Maybe most, but not all.

  • I dress like that because I can it's for me I work hard on my body so yes I'm going to wear little clothes and be comfortable in my skin

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    • and if ur guy shows u like a trophy u are ok with it?

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    • What kind of setting is appropriate to wear the clothes like the ones here? Adult parties? hehe Porn movie awards? haha. Beacuse on a normal nite club u can wear sexy cloths but not taht slutty

    • I'm sure we go to different clubs

  • I used to do it for attention but now I dress how I want to dress for myself. I love feeling confident & if guys look at me then that makes me feel attractive & happy in myself. I do love it when I wear a nice outfit & people compliment me

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  • Looking presentable, groomed and nice to feel good in ourselves is a different thing altogether from dressing sexy to garner people's attention. They are strategically trying to get some thing happening but not just to get men's attention.

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  • I never wear anything as revealing as that. That would only attract unwanted attention, especially in public. And I'd definitely be against my girlfriend wearing anything revealing like that in public. Although I doubt she ever would as she's shy and humble. Sometimes I wear shirts that show a bit of cleavage at home, although not to the extreme in the photos. That's the kind of thing that want her to see and nobody else.

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  • Partner, never in public and never for anyone else.
    The pics of the outfits you posted are kind of ugly though. Totally not my style when it comes to revealing clothes.

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  • I do it for myself, I enjoy watching people stare when I'm feeling it. I'm a bit of a flirt not gonna lie 😂😂😂

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  • I'd only wear those clothes if I was walking the streets looking for a trick or seeking attention and approval.

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  • I don't own any sexy or revealing clothes. I don't feel com in clothes like that so I don't wear them.

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  • For myself, although it doesn't bother me if I attract looks.

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  • I only dress slutty when seeing my man. Even if I'm just going to his house. I just like showing off for him.

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    • I tried dressing slutty in public once for myself but felt totally degraded and weirded out by all the looks I got and comments and never tried dressing slutty in public again. Now I just go slightly showy but not enough that I wouldn't wear it around my grandma or dad. So now slutty clothes is reserved for my man.

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