Boyfriend taking a long time to reply

[Anonymous]

Girls...would you be upset if your boyfriend did not call you in 4 days or didn't text back to your message until the next day in the evening? I mean, if this happened on a regular basis.

Also, you are in a long distance relationship, so you only see him every 2-3 weeks.

Thanks

[tyt_2012]

To be honest, no I wouldn't. I believe in giving your boyfriend some space. One of the reasons most guys get sick of girls is because they're so clingy and call/text all the time. It's cute sometimes but not always. I talk to this guy through text messages and he texts me too much and well I wouldn't mind at all if he did what your boyfriend does, in fact I would like it. I don't like it when people are too eager, it puts me off them. Just play it cool and let him get in touch with you when he wants to, he's probably busy and has other obligations. Or take initiative and make the first move and text him first. Don't act too eager though. It's a turn-off.

[Asker]

Thank, your right I guess. Although we have been dating for almost a year now, I thought it would normal to communicate at least every other day. However, your right with it being a turn off if someone seems too clingy.

[tyt_2012]

Just don`t seem too over eager and you should be fine, hopefully. Good Luck.

[cathifer]

im in a LDR too and I see my boyfriend about as often as you if not less and my boyfriend makes sure he contacts me in some way shape or form everyday. I wouldn't be happy if he didn't try, but don't be afraid to call him yourself and you should probably tell him how this makes you feel. communication is key and verbal is even more crucial when its a LDR

[graphicnerd]

It depends if he's lazy or just not much of an IMer/Texter.

If the text doesn't require a response, then it won't bother me.

If it was a question, I'd get agitated if it's been a day or few hours,

but then I'd call and ask again, or try and talk about communicating more.

Communication is important.

[themastaplan]

i don't know his schedule but 4 days without contact and being in a relationship is weird...usually couples communicate daily...my dad travels every week but I'm pretty sure he finds some way to say hello to my mother while he's away (on a daily basis). the text isn't too weird, people are busy...still tho I like to always touch base with my girlfriend daily...it reminds her I'm thinking of her even tho I may not be able to see her

[EZlats]

If you're in a long distance relationship, almost all you ever have is communication. If he doesn't have time for that long (without a legitimate reason) every single time, I don't really see why you're bothering keeping it as a relationship. Now if you really love him, that makes more sense but really he should be trying to talk to you more. Maybe not every day, but 4 days without anything is absurd

[tjasa]

I think that a lot of boys are like that...the time is killing me to, if he doesn't contact me...but you can't do nothing special...thats how they are :D don't worry about that, if he likes you, he will contact you soon :))

[rallz93]

I would dump him... something isn't as it is supposed to be ..:D

You would be better of without him...

[kiss_me_Kate]

hes likely txting someone else

men need constant excitement

[Anonymous]

i would be. but I would understand he has other things going on