My husband is liking random pictures of women that his friends post on social media. What should I do? (Page 2)
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That's terrible he shouldn't be doing that at all. He should be focus on you and uploading pics of you guys together. Yes confront him and make sure he doesn't beat around the bush. I hate Facebook because now people can even add porn and Facebook doesn't do shit. But I think that's in all social Media because twitter is way way worse.
Guys will look until they day they die. I think it should be minimal if you're newlyweds! Is he not satisfied with you? He should be looking at you instead! Insist on more and see if his looking goes down. He really shouldn't be doing unless he's bored... even then...
What? No thumbs down! Tell me why!
He's a fucking man let him be one. We love women and varieties of them. So us men who are faithful but yet still have our manly obsessions let us look at a fucking picture or your going to get a picture of something you won't like because he couldn't release our male desires. You should be thankful for these pictures because the are probably one page away from a std or pregnant sidechick
Confront him about it. If he doesn’t respect your discomfort or tries to make you feel bad or like you’re in the wrong for feeling uncomfortable with him lusting after other women, you married the wrong guy tbh.
Yes, I think you should confront him but he probably won't like it. His behavior is disrespectful to you and as you're newlyweds, it may only get worse - especially if you put up with it.
Please do yourself a favor and read free-ebooks' "Are Men the Weaker Sex". If your husband fits the descriptions found in this book, you might want to re-evaluate your marriage and decide whether it's a healthy union or not.
Good luck, hon.
I think you should tell him that you’re not okay with that. But, don’t listen to the people saying to dump him, he’s your husband. Divorce is no joke. If he doesn’t stop, just let him know that you don’t approve of it, and you wish he wouldn’t. After that, just keep trying to take care of the relationship, and not let it turn into resentment.
You two will be divorced inside of three years if you don't get a little perspective. I mean you're joking, right? He is LIKING pics... means nothing. Get a hobby.
Your feeling are 💯 percent normal and same goes for men. So, the things, is that as men we like beautiful women no. matter who she is and it is our nature. However, the first look and like is fine but keep looking is not acceptable at least in my culture and man sure return to his woman. I could say your husband is also trying to be funny and have fun with his guy friend, what my advice is just to give him some time, it could be just fun period
Ooh this is nothing, is men being men. You should worry if you are finding pictures of a naken woman in his phone, sent by a real woman, a coworker, neighboor etc. You are probably very young, and young woman are insecure for some reason. When you going to get older this is a reason to laugh about, trust me!
He's clearly not bothered much about your feelings shouldn't get married if going to lust after other women look yes but commenting is out of order how would you feel? I know I'd be upset
i dont understand why you women think this is such a problem. To me it sounds like you have control freak problems
Why do you think it's not such a problem? You're a guy. Of course you'd do the same as the OP's husband. Be honest.
@Andéersin its just liking a photo. its not like he likes the girl or anything; just how she looked in the picture
On social media in this day and age, "liking a picture" has become a whole lot more than that. Especially when there are is DM option planted next to it.
@Andéersin well i dont have social media, but i do know that women often look into things and overreact to the smallest things. A lot of you have been brainwashed by the media and I think it makes you overly paranoid. As long as the guy isn't stalking her or trying to contact her, I still do not see a problem simply liking a photo.
Men can feel just as insecure as women.
There's no innocent in
a game of two.
You and very man on this Earth may be okay with having a girlfriend liking EVERY attractive half naked men on social media and not bat an eye.
But don't go believing every men on this Earth have the same belief.
@Andéersin Nah I agree with him. Its not a big deal.
Of course not. Because you'd do it to around your girlfriend. Until she does the same right back.
@Andéersin I wouldn't care if she did it because I dont have sexual hangups
Good for you. But keep in mind every man is different.
@Andéersin Most men dont care because we deal with it all the time seeing our girlfriends gush and fawn over celebrity heart-throbs all the time in movies, etc.
That is true. But most men have a right to be bothered by it if they don't like it.
It's not a "bro-code" they should follow what ever men should feel or do just to have something in common as a man.
That wouldn't be fair to them and their individual feelings. Right?
Oh yes yes yes girl. I would too. I just started a conversation with my boyfriend (whom I want to marry in the future) int egard to nudity in tv shows and stuff. It is extremely difficult for me but today I started... girl yes.
Go up behind them while he's doing it, look on the screen, point to a random girl, and say oh she's cute! Then sit back and watch his reaction. Lol
Try not to be so insecure. He married you. but, naked pictures on Facebook? huh?
Liking naked pictures is not mistake but if the guy's interest is changing then it is questionable
I dont think they allow nude pictures on Facebook, so I'm not sure what she is talking about.
I think she maybe exaggerating because I've never seen a nude pic on Facebook
That's not even allowed
She's exaggerating and overreacting due to jealousy and insecurities.
Start bringing beefy guys home and paint "like" on their stomachs.
He doesn't like them better than you. Font he so insecure. He's with you because you're the right one for him.
men will always be men
as long as he isn't chatting late night and hiding the phone from you, you are good
I love women's feet but wouldn't comment on them if I was married
@richardoshea ok good for you
Naked women are literally everywhere, from tv to print advertising. Hell, advancements in tech made it even more readily available. Don't blame your husband on this one
You can tell him that you feel a little jealous maybe and that it's making you uncomfortable, but keep in mind, men just like looking at women. Women also like looking at men, doesn't mean they'd run off and look for somebody else. Don't worry it's normal.
Why should you not talk to him about how you feel? You're married...
Post pics of yourself and see if he thinks it's ok when guys tell you what they want to do to you
@richardoshea That doesn't answer my question.
It could just be an innocent like. Just keep an eye out for any dirty comments.