Society has literally gone to shit. Women have the illusion of choice because of apps like tinder, instagram, vsco, etc where they are getting endless attention from males, so they don't settle for anything anymore.
Males are given the ability to put more feelers out because of these apps as well and when a female shows interest... it is hard not to take it because we don't get the endless attention women get.
@kim45456 I have been cheated on by every female I have ever been with. (12 give or take) I have never cheated on a partner. It would definitely make me question the pros and cons of my current relationship. But my wife is one of the few sensible females who doesn't do the shit tests and other games and she looks like a mix between Kate Beckensale and Jennifer Connolly, so it would take a crazy hot female to sway me... and I don't generally consider many female "attractive" enough to deal with the other crap.
The prevalence of cheating in relationships these days is proof of moral decline and of being unsuitable for relationships in the first place. I guess that this is what you get when you decide that God is old and throw Him away.
If you ask some people, cheating has been at least somewhat common since the beginning of our species. Even in monogamous animal species like birds, cheating is present, but a bit less common than cheating in humans.
In the West though, people have just gotton probably more open and in my opinion disgusting with it. Marraige, honor, loyalty, ethics, etiquette and patience etc., have been thrown out the window so widely.
I honestly don't know, kind of feels like it because of how much you hear about it, but for all I know it could just be a very outspoken minority, hard to tell. All I know for sure is that I'm loyal and that I'll have to trust than any future partners are as well.
Throughout the years ever since mankind came to be people have had polygamous tendencies especilly back in the caveman days when people fought for survival... think about it... But if people aren’t happy with their partner they should have a heart to heart talk and try to resolve any issues if they really love each other...
I see comments like "it's very common nowadays". I don't know how you can arrive at this conclusion by random observation. It reminds of a conversation I heard once when a girl said "I just found out today my best friend's boyfriend of 5 years cheated on her, and just the other day I heard my classmate said the same thing ! Geez, EVERYONE is cheating !" Ummm... not based on that sampling! LOL
@Shamalien Well the united states largest export is its popular culture, which is entirely controlled. Its really a weapon we send out to other nations to weaken their cultural heritage. Canada because its so close the USA consumes all our popular culture.
It probably seems that way. Certainly, modern day young women are quick to drop their panties if the guy is hot. It is our culture. When there is no shaming and almost every movie with any romance shows the main characters hoping in bed, often before they even have dinner, it is bound to affect the psyche of young women.
It’s insanely high. I really don’t understand how people can cheat. Even apart from the immorality and the hurtfulness, why would people throw away everything just for sex?
Not at all, some people are just so unsure as to what they truly want they end up making mistakes, doesn't justify it that's just the way some people deal with it! Not me personally tho, 100 percent loyal and wouldn't dream of going anywhere else! Sex is a very spiritual thing, having it with the wrong person can be very draining and a horrible experience
It’s always been a common thing. We’re just more vocal about it now. Those who don’t step out are not in short supply. It’s not that dramatic. However, depending on where you are you could easily have more “cheaters” in one area than the other.
I don't think it's just that. People are getting into situationships and not clearly setting boundaries so they are getting hurt when the other person doesn't stop seeing other people like they have and are saying the person is cheating.
Feels like it. People act like cheating is just a mistake like ‘whoops, my hand slipped!’ Cheating is choice. It’s a choice to hurt the person you claim to love and to break their heart.
Been in relationship, never cheated But people who cheated seem more happy idky, maybe because even when I am stuck in the most difficult of situations I did stand by her.
Anyways men (most) treat woman like trophy , they are so insecure about themselves that they need validation by getting another girl to make themselves feel secure and desirable about themselves. Not just men, maybe we all as humans?
As someone who's cheated many times and has been cheated on too. I have to say this. And I can't stress this enough. There's a type of people that can do it. Lie. Cheat. It's in their (our) blood. That's not the norm. It never was. But it gets attention and you feel that it's everyone. No one is gonna shout "Hey I didn't cheat!" And get a round of applause.
No i still thing the same about of shitty people who cheat are their that were there before, people just used to be more embarrassed to share that they cheated/ got cheated on
Cheating isn't becoming the norm, it's still only a minority of men and women who cheat like it has always been. In times of internet we just hear about it more often that's all.
I feel it's a natural reaction to the decline in female birthrates, that's why a lot of men are so fickle now, it's a natural phenomenon to ensure the species. It sucks emotionally but rationally it makes sense to try and procreate with as much possible chance rather than wait.
Yeah lol I'm thinking of ditching the idea of marriage in my life and just adopt some kitties and puppies and watch Netflix with my babies on the couch in peace, lol.
For me there is not. I have done everything i ever wanted in my life. Literally everything i enjoyed i did too much. Even drugs doesn't make me happy anymore xdd
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Society has literally gone to shit.
Women have the illusion of choice because of apps like tinder, instagram, vsco, etc where they are getting endless attention from males, so they don't settle for anything anymore.
Males are given the ability to put more feelers out because of these apps as well and when a female shows interest... it is hard not to take it because we don't get the endless attention women get.
So if a pretty girl give you attention, you will cheat on your partner?
@kim45456 I have been cheated on by every female I have ever been with. (12 give or take)
I have never cheated on a partner. It would definitely make me question the pros and cons of my current relationship. But my wife is one of the few sensible females who doesn't do the shit tests and other games and she looks like a mix between Kate Beckensale and Jennifer Connolly, so it would take a crazy hot female to sway me... and I don't generally consider many female "attractive" enough to deal with the other crap.
The prevalence of cheating in relationships these days is proof of moral decline and of being unsuitable for relationships in the first place. I guess that this is what you get when you decide that God is old and throw Him away.
A lot of people who believe in God cheat as well.
Yeah like all those Catholic priest fucking children god is great isn't he
There's a difference between believing in God and living in a way that shows respect for what He says.
True dat. I also believe one who fears God would never do that.
If you ask some people, cheating has been at least somewhat common since the beginning of our species. Even in monogamous animal species like birds, cheating is present, but a bit less common than cheating in humans.
In the West though, people have just gotton probably more open and in my opinion disgusting with it. Marraige, honor, loyalty, ethics, etiquette and patience etc., have been thrown out the window so widely.
I honestly don't know, kind of feels like it because of how much you hear about it, but for all I know it could just be a very outspoken minority, hard to tell. All I know for sure is that I'm loyal and that I'll have to trust than any future partners are as well.
Throughout the years ever since mankind came to be people have had polygamous tendencies especilly back in the caveman days when people fought for survival... think about it...
But if people aren’t happy with their partner they should have a heart to heart talk and try to resolve any issues if they really love each other...
I see comments like "it's very common nowadays". I don't know how you can arrive at this conclusion by random observation. It reminds of a conversation I heard once when a girl said "I just found out today my best friend's boyfriend of 5 years cheated on her, and just the other day I heard my classmate said the same thing ! Geez, EVERYONE is cheating !" Ummm... not based on that sampling! LOL
Yes it has
Especially in the USA where media constantly promotes adultery through music, entertainment, "science", magazines etc
They are trying to destroy the institution of Family. They basis of all civilization
Canada too
@Shamalien Well the united states largest export is its popular culture, which is entirely controlled. Its really a weapon we send out to other nations to weaken their cultural heritage.
Canada because its so close the USA consumes all our popular culture.
yeah but we have a brutal state funded media that exercises strict control over the minds of our people in addition to what's coming out of murica
It probably seems that way. Certainly, modern day young women are quick to drop their panties if the guy is hot. It is our culture. When there is no shaming and almost every movie with any romance shows the main characters hoping in bed, often before they even have dinner, it is bound to affect the psyche of young women.
It’s insanely high. I really don’t understand how people can cheat. Even apart from the immorality and the hurtfulness, why would people throw away everything just for sex?
Not at all, some people are just so unsure as to what they truly want they end up making mistakes, doesn't justify it that's just the way some people deal with it! Not me personally tho, 100 percent loyal and wouldn't dream of going anywhere else! Sex is a very spiritual thing, having it with the wrong person can be very draining and a horrible experience
It’s always been a common thing. We’re just more vocal about it now.
Those who don’t step out are not in short supply. It’s not that dramatic. However, depending on where you are you could easily have more “cheaters” in one area than the other.
Simple
I don't think it's just that. People are getting into situationships and not clearly setting boundaries so they are getting hurt when the other person doesn't stop seeing other people like they have and are saying the person is cheating.
Feels like it. People act like cheating is just a mistake like ‘whoops, my hand slipped!’ Cheating is choice. It’s a choice to hurt the person you claim to love and to break their heart.
Been in relationship, never cheated
But people who cheated seem more happy idky, maybe because even when I am stuck in the most difficult of situations I did stand by her.
Anyways men (most) treat woman like trophy , they are so insecure about themselves that they need validation by getting another girl to make themselves feel secure and desirable about themselves. Not just men, maybe we all as humans?
As someone who's cheated many times and has been cheated on too. I have to say this. And I can't stress this enough. There's a type of people that can do it. Lie. Cheat. It's in their (our) blood.
That's not the norm. It never was. But it gets attention and you feel that it's everyone. No one is gonna shout "Hey I didn't cheat!" And get a round of applause.
No i still thing the same about of shitty people who cheat are their that were there before, people just used to be more embarrassed to share that they cheated/ got cheated on
Cheating isn't becoming the norm, it's still only a minority of men and women who cheat like it has always been. In times of internet we just hear about it more often that's all.
I sincerely hope this is true
I feel it's a natural reaction to the decline in female birthrates, that's why a lot of men are so fickle now, it's a natural phenomenon to ensure the species. It sucks emotionally but rationally it makes sense to try and procreate with as much possible chance rather than wait.
Thats why i dont trust people. Everyone is asking me why im single and thats only reason. People are disgusting.
Yeah lol I'm thinking of ditching the idea of marriage in my life and just adopt some kitties and puppies and watch Netflix with my babies on the couch in peace, lol.
Great idea but since life doesn't make any sense im thinking of overdosing with drugs and dying young.
Nah don't do that there are many ways to enjoy life without the trouble of a relationship. ❤️
For me there is not. I have done everything i ever wanted in my life. Literally everything i enjoyed i did too much. Even drugs doesn't make me happy anymore xdd
There are more fun things to discover, chill.
I hope there are
Why not get to know eachother you guys would be couple
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dude she is from bangladesh. And im from Europe