Well we always heard that love doesn't have any boundaries. Is it true in real life or just stories. Can anyone share his or her story. That ever single girl or boy has dated married man/ women. I am curious to know does love really exist or its just a physical affection?
And also share your opinion about marrital affairs.
Are you agree that true love exist? if yes, Is extra marital affair fine?
Are you agree that true love exist? if yes is extra marital affair not good.
True love can exist, but that doesn't mean that it is right. I used to date a married man at some point, but I didn't know he was married. I had been out with his best friend a few times and he invited me to his place. This guy showed up, let's call him Sam, and we started to get close. The irony in all this was that his best friend of course knew that he was married, but nevertheless encouraged him to move on. And he even made fun of how he was crushing on me. Eventually Sam fell in love with me, and I with him (at this point I still don't know about his status) We made love and it was the most fulfilling experience I ever had. He was projecting his love and the tenderness he saw me with in every touch on my skin... When he told me that he was married and had trouble with his wife, but he was afraid to ask for divorce because of the impact it would have on his children, we had a long talk and I encouraged him to sort things out with his wife and talk to her the way he talked to me. Find out what went wrong and fix what can be fixed. And I also made it clear to him that I didn't want to be neither the cause nor the reason for him to get a divorce. It was hard to let him go but I knew that it was the right thing to do. And of course I got so pissed at the jerk who thought it was OK to set us up instead of telling him to back up. (not because we were dating, he obviously was never interested in me, but to protect his friend)
We never saw each other again. I don't even know what he decided to do in the end. If they fixed things or got a divorce... I have no idea. 🤷♀️ I figured that if he decided to break up and and got himself together and then still wanted to keep in contact he would've found a way to contact me (he had my phone number, knew my address etc) he didn't... So I moved on and just wish him the best.
There were many things that run through my mind at this point... And many various outcomes. What I feared the most was that even if he got a divorce to be with me, it might have a bad impact later. 1. That he might turn to me for consolation and then realise that I am not what he wants. He also was a lot older than me (12 years) 2. That he might have issues about seeing his kids and take it out on me/ blame me for it 3. That he might turn around someday and outright say to my face that he made a mistake by leaving his wife
Martial affairs are just that. A lack of respect for the spouse & for the person (the dirty secret) with whom the cheater is having an affair. It is, in many ways, a mere convenience.
If true love existed - which I believe it does - then the married would do the decent thing & get divorced.
What you saying here is not true love lol it's entertaining a affair as if the married part truly loved the new single person they would break up the marriage and be with them this is more so entertaining lust
Extra marital Affair is never good or fine under any circumstances.. If there is no love in your marriage and you find true love.. Leave your relationship and be with your true love
I know a couple who are together and they are happy but one of them is married. The married couple split up years ago thou and have not been together since just never got divorced
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