Means he's still unsure about his feelings. I think a lot of things in the world are defined incorrectly for many people so maybe he's not telling you what exactly he feels about you or those girls.
This is a big no no. If he REALLY loved you, he wouldn’t have crushes on other girls. Loving someone is committing to someone from the recipients heart. Let him GO
It’s one thing to glance at other women, while still being faithful and loving to you. But when the guy starts crushing at other women, yeah, that’s kind of questionable if he loves you or not.
Depends what you mean by "crushing" ? Is it like you crush on a movie star or celebrity, like an obvious fantasy? Or is it something else like on a real girl you both know?
@hi_it_is_me123 I wouldn’t and I never meant to imply that the asker should be ok with it either; I’m just stating the facts about men (as a man). I just don’t think such thoughts/desires should be revealed to those who’d be affected by them, so I think this boyfriend was wrong to talk about crushes
@hi_it_is_me123 I never said it should be normal! I said it’s natural for many guys because, unless you were born yesterday, you’d know that many people still think about others while in relationships
I think he loves but likes other girls likes friends or he's looking at other girls but who doesn't look at other people that's just fun and that's doesn't mean he doesn't loves you
This is true guys are wired like that. They find attractive girls they will look but a guy who controls himself and snaps out of it is a real one. If he doesn't control himself he might develop more than just an attraction to another girl.
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Means he's still unsure about his feelings. I think a lot of things in the world are defined incorrectly for many people so maybe he's not telling you what exactly he feels about you or those girls.
This is a big no no. If he REALLY loved you, he wouldn’t have crushes on other girls. Loving someone is committing to someone from the recipients heart. Let him GO
It’s one thing to glance at other women, while still being faithful and loving to you. But when the guy starts crushing at other women, yeah, that’s kind of questionable if he loves you or not.
He s being honest. Try to work with him Because you may be able to wean him off of that.
But how? He thinks his behavior is normal and I don't want to control him . He makes me feel inadequate.
It's not unusual, TBH, but it isn't normal or healthy. See if he is willing to do couples therapy.
Depends what you mean by "crushing" ? Is it like you crush on a movie star or celebrity, like an obvious fantasy? Or is it something else like on a real girl you both know?
It's trust. Most humans might do this kind of thing but at least he told ayou and trusted you.
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This is natural for many guys, but he’s foolish to have openly admitted that to you 🤷🏻♂️
I think he is just being honest about his thoughts.
Would you be ok if your girlfriend had crushes on other men?
@hi_it_is_me123 I wouldn’t and I never meant to imply that the asker should be ok with it either; I’m just stating the facts about men (as a man). I just don’t think such thoughts/desires should be revealed to those who’d be affected by them, so I think this boyfriend was wrong to talk about crushes
Do you think it is normal that your girlfriend has crushes on other guys
@hi_it_is_me123 Well, normal but flawed like many other normal things in life. Why do you keep asking anyway?
Not everyone is the same
@ThePityPartyGirl Who said everyone is the same?
I dont think it is normal ä
@hi_it_is_me123 Normal or not, I didn’t tell a lie. I dunno why some of you are downvoting
I dont understand why it should be normal that your wife and you have crushes on other people
@hi_it_is_me123 I never said it should be normal! I said it’s natural for many guys because, unless you were born yesterday, you’d know that many people still think about others while in relationships
I think he loves but likes other girls likes friends or he's looking at other girls but who doesn't look at other people that's just fun and that's doesn't mean he doesn't loves you
You are the one he loves..
But his lust sometime astray him to other girls..
It means you settled for less
He’s not serious about you then if he fancies other girls still
Yeah that just means he isn't invested in you and doesn't know what he really want
It sounds like it means he's trying to have his cake and eat it too
it means that he isn't singular. also if he was immature, he wouldn't tell you how he feels. he would just hit on those other girls.
Not immature but more so a " Player " perhaps? Keeping his stringer full sonic he throws one back , he's got more to readily pick from !
What kind of crushes? Just thinking a girl is cute, talking to that girl, or building a shrine to her lol?
Guys are werid like that it's just how some of us work but you should find some who is committed too you
This is true guys are wired like that. They find attractive girls they will look but a guy who controls himself and snaps out of it is a real one. If he doesn't control himself he might develop more than just an attraction to another girl.
Do you love him back? Or are you scared of commitment. If it's the latter, then that's probably why he still talks to other girls.
Hooo stay away from him. Run away he hooked on cheating
He’s immature. You should decide if you’re ok with that or not.