How can I stop feeling inferior to my girlfriend and her brother?

[Anonymous]

I feel inadequate when next to them, because they are tall, blonde and with blue eyes. I'm short and with brown hair and eyes.
They both adore me and my girlfriend jokes that sometimes she has to contend with her brother for my attention.
I admit that I enjoy being so mollycoddled by both of them, but sometimes I can't help but feel conscious for my appearance compared to theirs.

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+1 y

I realize they are from a superior genetic stock, but I can improve and prove myself worthy of them damn it.

[JustAStrange]

Bro... my advice, never belittle yourself like that. Think about it, she is your girlfriend... YOUR girlfriend... which means she chose you and i bet she can have any guy she wants but she ended up with you. So, don't feel inadequate. There are probably things in you that you don't see yourself! Open your eyes man! Anyways, i am no professional LOL but if you need help in dating and attraction google relationshipadviceforcheaps. com (It helped me re-attract an ex and build my confidence so maybe it can help you out too!) I hope that helps man!

[Bhavin2184]

. If she was not into you she would not even make you boyfriend. So stop feeling inferior at just silly things like appearance

[Asker]

Appearance is not silly

[Bhavin2184]

In your case it's silly. And you don't understand that your lucky because she likes other quality than just appearance.

[Asker]

Eh lucky

[btbc92]

Wow, everybody is really being a jerk. First of all, your insecurities can't be fixed by others. You can only be fixed within yourself. You have to understand that she is a person just like you. Who cares if she's tall, have this or that features and you have so and so features. Nobody should care about that unless it personally bothers them. But in that case, they shouldn't be with you. Your appearance is not what MAKES you.

[Asker]

Appearance and physical form do matter

[btbc92]

No they do not. If they matter I'm sure your girlfriend wouldn't want to be with you. She is with you for you.

[Asker]

I think she mostly likes me because of my frail health, but I'm exercising and eating healthy to get stronger and healthier.
She's fine and can afford to eat sweets or smoke cigarettes, but I do not.

[btbc92]

I think what you really need to do is find yourself a professional therapist for your mindset, because you don't sound healthy. You've been around a lot of toxic people and now you believe the toxic words people say.

[Asker]

I don't believe in therapy unless for extreme cases

[btbc92]

Yeah, and that's why you need it be ause your toxic. It is Extreme for you to actually think like that. And you want to know why you're feeling sick. Does she know that you actually think that way? Keep thinking like that and you going to self sabotage relationships and then she's really going to leave you. Don't say stuff like that about your girlfriend. If she's with you even though you're not that great with your health, that's a sign of love. Your appearance have zero to do her choices.

[btbc92]

Your friend is sick the way you are because you abuse your own body by saying things like that. Anything that you think of yourself, you will become.

[Asker]

There's nothing wrong in wanting to improve one's health and appearance.
They are tall, beautiful and talented people. I'm not, but I can do my best to improve myself.

[btbc92]

Buddy, get a grip! Your health, fine. Your appearance is should be for You! She doesn't care.

[Asker]

She doesn't care but I do!

[btbc92]

Then your the one who has to deal with it. She deserves better.

[Asker]

Honestly, I don't really care about your opinion.
I want to get fit and healthy and that's what'll do.
I don't want to be a sickly wreck all my life. If she likes me because of my pitiful health, that's just perverse.

[cute_short_nerd]

Lol if she loves you, she’s loyal, he’s patient, then you have a win. YOU GOT THAT WOMAN. YOU DID THAT. Bro, when you feel down, think of your achievements, drown out everything, and clap for your own self because you are the one that did that. Be happy with that you have in the moment.

[Asker]

More like she got me but although I'm thankful I feel like a little fish between two sharks lol

[cute_short_nerd]

Evolution

[cute_short_nerd]

Blue eyes are really common as a genetic mutation through time and shit.

Blonde people are usually unintelligent too. They may not be, but it’s 90% true.

[cute_short_nerd]

Ain’t nothing genetically superior about that

[cute_short_nerd]

Green eyes however hmhmhmhmhm only 2% of people have that.

[Anonymous]

Dude, get over it.
You got everything a man could asl for: a beautiful girlfriend and a best pal, and you know they'll never do anything funny because they are brother and sister.
Don't ruin that, you don't understand how lucky you are.

[Asker]

Yeah yeah

[Avicenna]

Thats just silly. You need to realize that.

[Anonymous]

get over it

[Asker]

Yeah