I'm sorry is harder. Because you go through a mind numbing guilt trip first that makes you feel like a disgrace and pathetic. Then to move on from there and ask forgiveness, that's hard. At least for me.
I love you the first time, I never know if thier ready, but I'm prideful, the words "I'm sorry" will never easily fall from my lips... I never say either without meaning them.
Oh definitely I love you, my self esteem/self deprecation issues make apologising very easy lol In fact I almost apologised for providing such a sh! t answer to the question lol
Ain't people who can never admit when there wrong not good at responsibility tho? And kinda narcissistic? I've kinda always be able to be responsible for your actions and admit when i was wrong.
They definitely have issues but not nessary a personality disorder. People scared of saying I love you like me have issues too. Probably life experiences also contribute to the ability to do either
"I love you". I say "sorry" almost too damn much. And I don't really have anyone I can say "I love you" to, since... Well, I don't really feel that way to anybody.
Sorry. I hardly say that to anyone. I dont like to say what i dont really mean. So the most theyโll get is a โmy badโ if i dont feel im in the wrong
Say you hurt a friends feelings by your words or actions and you didn't know you did so at the time. You don't necessarily understand why they are so hurt, but nonetheless they are. How do you handle it?
@spartan55 well they usually hurt me and tell me to deal with it. Sooo... i wouldn't tell em that in return but iโd be like โwhat did i do?โ And if their reason isn't good enough, iโll say โmy bad.โ If their reason us good enough then iโll be like โwell, my bad but youve done me wrong in the past as well. So ig we can call it even/a truce now.โ ๐คทโโ๏ธ Yea im really not the apologetic type
Familial love yes. And i've had romantic feelings for a few women, but it was never returned. That's not love. So in my estimation, no i've never loved anyone.
probably - I am sorry - ! for I think most people feel that they have nothing to apologize for so they do not need to say - I am sorry - but they do need to say this anyway ! thanks
If that ain't REAL TRUTH right there. That's why I'm more bout actions. Don't SAY you love me, SHOW ME with your actions. Don't just SAY SORRY, show that by not doing what you has to apologise for again
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I'm sorry is harder. Because you go through a mind numbing guilt trip first that makes you feel like a disgrace and pathetic. Then to move on from there and ask forgiveness, that's hard. At least for me.
I understand what you mean
Yeah. I'd rather say I love you
If they lovable ๐
Or I rather say "I'm sorry I love you" both together ๐
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I love you the first time, I never know if thier ready, but I'm prideful, the words "I'm sorry" will never easily fall from my lips... I never say either without meaning them.
That's good.. Too many people do
Oh definitely I love you, my self esteem/self deprecation issues make apologising very easy lol In fact I almost apologised for providing such a sh! t answer to the question lol
Lol not a shit answer. No wrong answer here
haha, that was just a brief introduction in how my brain works! lol
Thanks for the intro ๐
Definitely โI love youโ! For some crazy reason, I seem to be apologizing a lot!
I used to do that a lot too
I guess most women do when weโre younger.
Yeah my daughter does that now
Neither? i don't see why it would be hard to say i'm sorry or i love you.
For some it is tho
Cannot say i really understand people who can't. Guess i haven't met anyone like that too see it
Some people are never wrong In their minds. It's easier to be right than wrong for anyone
Ain't people who can never admit when there wrong not good at responsibility tho? And kinda narcissistic? I've kinda always be able to be responsible for your actions and admit when i was wrong.
They definitely have issues but not nessary a personality disorder. People scared of saying I love you like me have issues too. Probably life experiences also contribute to the ability to do either
Oh i see... So been hurt too much yeah i understand that.. Sorry guess it gives us all scars in someways. Just never realized these 2 were ones.
Case hardened if that makes sense.
@WowwGirl Yeah totally get it never went that way but 100% get
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"I love you". I say "sorry" almost too damn much. And I don't really have anyone I can say "I love you" to, since... Well, I don't really feel that way to anybody.
Yeah I used to over apologize l think
It kinda sucks when you do, especially when people tell you to stop and you just say sorry for it.
Omg you sound like me lol I don't do that as much anymore, cuz got a dau who does same thing ๐คฃ
You know, I've noticed we think quite alike... lol. ... Also what's a dau?
Daughter was being lazy lol
Oh. lol. ... Wonder if having a kid would knock some sense into me... ... Not gonna of course, but I wonder...
Lol yeah it would ๐
Sorry. I hardly say that to anyone. I dont like to say what i dont really mean. So the most theyโll get is a โmy badโ if i dont feel im in the wrong
Iโve said โI love youโ more than i probably shouldve. But i meant it 90% of the time
So, you don't ever feel you are wrong? For example, if you hurt their feelings?
@spartan55 i said i โhardlyโ say it. I didn't say i never say it. Plus i rather tell a white lie than hurt someones feelings
You completely misunderstood what I said.
@spartan55 oh my bad. Reword it for me please
Say you hurt a friends feelings by your words or actions and you didn't know you did so at the time. You don't necessarily understand why they are so hurt, but nonetheless they are. How do you handle it?
@spartan55 well they usually hurt me and tell me to deal with it. Sooo... i wouldn't tell em that in return but iโd be like โwhat did i do?โ And if their reason isn't good enough, iโll say โmy bad.โ If their reason us good enough then iโll be like โwell, my bad but youve done me wrong in the past as well. So ig we can call it even/a truce now.โ ๐คทโโ๏ธ Yea im really not the apologetic type
"i love you" is more difficult for me. if am wrong i have no problems saying am sorry or appologizing.
Yeah me neither.
It's a 100 times easier to say i'm sorry. If i wver love anyone i'll let you know how easily it is to say "I love you".
You've never loved anyone?
Familial love yes. And i've had romantic feelings for a few women, but it was never returned. That's not love. So in my estimation, no i've never loved anyone.
probably - I am sorry - ! for I think most people feel that they have nothing to apologize for so they do not need to say - I am sorry - but they do need to say this anyway ! thanks
Confessing the feelings is harder for me than apologizing.
It definitely can be but you can show love with actions too. My hubby didn't day the words too often in 20 years, but he tried to show me with actions
"Actions speak more than words" aight gotcha but sometimes those actions are taken for granted which makes it harder for next time.
That can be so true, too
None of those things are hard to say, people have just thrown them around so much that they've lost all meaning.
If that ain't REAL TRUTH right there. That's why I'm more bout actions. Don't SAY you love me, SHOW ME with your actions. Don't just SAY SORRY, show that by not doing what you has to apologise for again
Same here
I think , I love you, gets tossed around flippantly
Its a weighty thing to say
Easier to apologize when you've done wrong
I agree... Think people say that word too easily these days without meaning it. Love shouldn't just be said tho it should be shown with actions
A Good point your actions should speak louder than your words.
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I love you.
Because when I say either one I mean it. And I mess up more often than I say I love you for the first time
@ And I mess up more often than I say I love you for the first time
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Haha, you understand then๐
@VIVANT good answer
@Grond21
You dont mess up THAT often... ๐คฃ๐๐
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Iโll never say either unless I genuinely mean it. If I mean it both are equally easy to say.
So agree there
Bingo ;)
I'm sorry is easy , I love you is the hardest one...
The first time say it
The L word.. Using that word means i trust that person implicitly.. saying sorry is far easier.
That there hardest thing about love sometimes putting that trust in someone
I say "I love you" a lot to my best friend. But I always say sorry if I'm in the wrong, so neither us hard for me to say personally
That's good
Saying i love you is difficult as i will only say when i mean it but i dont know if the same would be reciprocated by my partner
Yeah I can see how that might be hard for some of they said it might not be reciprocated, but see least you find out that way
I don't find it difficult to say I am sorry and I usually apologize when I do something wrong.
That's good, same here ๐