Very very true this here!!!
That's true. But we're all human and make mistakes
Yes! Absolutely right.
Thanks for the MHO 🙂
Well deserved ♥️🙂
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I can see how that would be
Either should only be said if meant... And I remember that episode 🙂
Agreed on the 1st part - and yes it was, like most of their episodes, a classic :)
Just like me 😇😇🙂 oldy but goody 🤣
Classic Toots for sure ha :)
Oh I agree I have a friend I've known since 12, him and his wife met cuz of me and still together. Lost touch for some years, reconnected and it was like we never lost touch ♥️ those are the true friends... But they're in another state from me, but they been here few times this year
You can say that again!
Damn sweetheart you want me to say all that again? ;)
So so agree there
Thing is “I’m sorry” is a gesture based on my ACTIONS. I can explain deconstruct analyze theories Synthesize come to a whole other level of understanding grow as a person become stronger and wiser and explain it all succinctly, if given the chance.“I love you “is based on my feelings.. which there’s not really a platform to intellectually analyze that.. It’s weird and serves no purpose
You are killing the replys today
Another great reply!!
That is true
Nobody likes saying sorry, but I will if know I'm in wrong.
Thank you :)
Love should be a pledge of loyalty to anyone saying it not just men. If you really love someone, you're loyal to them
I had one girl tell me incessantly how love she was for an entire year. However I was going through a tough time in my life and I acted disconnected. She ended up breaking up with me which was understandable. A few weeks later a major incident happened and when I confronted her about it her response was “tough luck your an ex”. Point being is all that “I love you” and every nice thing she said earlier made absolutely no difference. She is just expressing her emotion of the THE moment.
Yeah some people suck... Sorry you experienced that
She was the only person I have ever met who I thought wasn’t like that. But I learned a hard painful lesson. Also just because a guy isn’t saying “I love you” back doesn’t mean he isn’t hearing you.
For me, actions speak louder, better.. Anyone can say the words.. But true love is seen, not just heard
I did see it. When she wanted to break up I wasn’t surprised. I needed to figure things out on my own at that time. But it wasn’t an angry break up. But I left thinking we would have an underlying respect for each other. Then a serious came up and she responded to it in the most heinous and cruel way possible. Not a molecule in my body predicted that. For a long time I thought she would of followed up to apologize but she didn’t. Again women are true to their EMOTION which is always in flux. Men can be the same way but there is a reason they say “you are a man of your word”. We are supposed to stick to what we say whether we regret it or not.
Oh so agree there. That's why I'm bout the actions... Actions speak way louder then words
That it's hard, shows you mean it... When it's easy to say it's usually cuz it's not meant... And can show with actions... Actions speak louder anyway
Yes, but some girls want very bead to hear sorry. They have olso blackmail me whit tears and crying coments.
I'm so in agreement with this here 💯
Because some people can't admit their ever wrong... And some people are afraid of the consequences of their actions, so really won't admit or apologize. And because some really aren't sorry
True but I don't get the reasoning, why not admit you're wrong?
I don't either... But those people ain't thinking with reasoning at that point.. Or maybe they're incapable of it 🤷🏼♀️
Tbh can't blame all of them, stress does weird things to the brain ya know?
Oh I so agree. Don't just say you love me, show me with actions. Same with sorry, don't say it and then keep doing the same shit cuz then your not really sorry
Yes they do... That's why I personally rather someone "show" me with actions... Anyone can say the words.. But not everyone can back it up with actions
I agree... But then only say if mean it... Too many people throw both out there and don't mean it...
Yes, that's absolutely true as well. 'Love' is sometimes used to manipulate while 'Sorry' is an insincerely uttered.
Again... So so agree
Lol not a shit answer. No wrong answer here
haha, that was just a brief introduction in how my brain works! lol
Thanks for the intro 🙂
I understand what you mean
Yeah. I'd rather say I love you
If they lovable 🙂
Or I rather say "I'm sorry I love you" both together 😆
That's good.. Too many people do
I used to do that a lot too
I guess most women do when we’re younger.
Yeah my daughter does that now
You've never loved anyone?
Familial love yes. And i've had romantic feelings for a few women, but it was never returned. That's not love. So in my estimation, no i've never loved anyone.
Yeah I used to over apologize l think
It kinda sucks when you do, especially when people tell you to stop and you just say sorry for it.
Omg you sound like me lol I don't do that as much anymore, cuz got a dau who does same thing 🤣
You know, I've noticed we think quite alike... lol. ... Also what's a dau?
Daughter was being lazy lol
Oh. lol. ... Wonder if having a kid would knock some sense into me... ... Not gonna of course, but I wonder...
Lol yeah it would 🙂
It definitely can be but you can show love with actions too. My hubby didn't day the words too often in 20 years, but he tried to show me with actions
"Actions speak more than words" aight gotcha but sometimes those actions are taken for granted which makes it harder for next time.
That can be so true, too
Yeah me neither.
Sometimes can show it if the words too hard to say.. Actions speak louder anyways.. Least for me
For some it is tho
Cannot say i really understand people who can't. Guess i haven't met anyone like that too see it
Some people are never wrong In their minds. It's easier to be right than wrong for anyone
Ain't people who can never admit when there wrong not good at responsibility tho? And kinda narcissistic? I've kinda always be able to be responsible for your actions and admit when i was wrong.
They definitely have issues but not nessary a personality disorder. People scared of saying I love you like me have issues too. Probably life experiences also contribute to the ability to do either
Oh i see... So been hurt too much yeah i understand that.. Sorry guess it gives us all scars in someways. Just never realized these 2 were ones.
Case hardened if that makes sense.
@WowwGirl Yeah totally get it never went that way but 100% get
If that ain't REAL TRUTH right there. That's why I'm more bout actions. Don't SAY you love me, SHOW ME with your actions. Don't just SAY SORRY, show that by not doing what you has to apologise for again
I agree... Think people say that word too easily these days without meaning it. Love shouldn't just be said tho it should be shown with actions
A Good point your actions should speak louder than your words.
So right 💯
I’ve said “I love you” more than i probably shouldve. But i meant it 90% of the time
So, you don't ever feel you are wrong? For example, if you hurt their feelings?
@spartan55 i said i “hardly” say it. I didn't say i never say it. Plus i rather tell a white lie than hurt someones feelings
You completely misunderstood what I said.
@spartan55 oh my bad. Reword it for me please
Say you hurt a friends feelings by your words or actions and you didn't know you did so at the time. You don't necessarily understand why they are so hurt, but nonetheless they are. How do you handle it?
@spartan55 well they usually hurt me and tell me to deal with it. Sooo... i wouldn't tell em that in return but i’d be like “what did i do?” And if their reason isn't good enough, i’ll say “my bad.” If their reason us good enough then i’ll be like “well, my bad but youve done me wrong in the past as well. So ig we can call it even/a truce now.” 🤷♀️ Yea im really not the apologetic type
So agree there
What? Blonde moment lol meaning?
This comment was meant for a different part of this thread. Gotta love the GaG mobile app.
Oh okay lol thought I was having a slow moment 🤪😅
The first time say it
That there hardest thing about love sometimes putting that trust in someone
Least you admit it.. Cuz sorry don't mean much if don't mean it. I always told my kids best way to show sorry is don't do the thing you had to be sorry for again
Yeah I can see how that might be hard for some of they said it might not be reciprocated, but see least you find out that way
@ And I mess up more often than I say I love you for the first timeLol 😊😊👌
Haha, you understand then😁
@VIVANT good answer
@Grond21 You dont mess up THAT often... 🤣😂😇
Yeah that's some real truth there!!!
I meant that in a killing way just in case you thought otherwise
Kill the relationship? If you mean a person... That might get this thread flagged for removal
They should be an expression of feelings. They're just phrases if don't really mean it or feel it
Don't know why people can't admit when they wrong or hurt someone. If I'm wrong imma admit and apologize...
So you're never wrong? You never did ANYTHING that needed an apology "ever"?
I never said I am never wrong. But I don’t apologize for my choices.
Yeah should only be said if meant... Same as I love you.. Yet some people throw that love word around and don't mean it
Wow I'm surprised Ms @GwenhwyfarWe are different there🙂 This was a good question because there is no right or wrong answer
@WowwGirl agreed 😊
@Brainsbeforebeauty but some people really mean it
I'm sure many do I'm just case hardenedAnd haven't had one who didI think it's situations that make a opinion on this question. So,,,,, yeah
Right, so true for some... Well said
This just hypothetical question sparked by something radio DJ said today
For me, it's not cuz we can all "F" up. So that's not always the issue. It's when people can't own it or try to shift the blame on you or someone else that I have issue with
Why? To see results? Didn't think to make it a poll..
It can be sometimes
That's good. I'm pretty much same there
It can be sometimes... At least the first time
If I know I'm wrong, I have no issue apologizing. Love, well I have to mean it or I'm not going to say it. And to me love is more something you show, not just say
Yes, @Brainsbeforebeauty I think people are afraid to be rejected if your dating someone and come out and tell them that you "Love Them" I think that is the fear?
That I rather see, at least seems more real than the people that too easily throw that love word out but don't really mean it