I wouldn't tell her, that i don't find her beautiful. I was thinking about this a few times. I know there is the universal beauty thing and all that, but there are people only "you" seem to like and others don't find /her/ that attractive. Besides personal preference i mean.. So like you know something plus about her, that makes her more attractive to you. Maybe we are not talking about the same thing, but almost lol.
I wouldn’t say that if you’d like them enough to take them on as your girlfriend don’t ever tell them something like that. That’s kind of like a teenage mentality of thinking that way
Don’t ever do that. If you don’t find your SO “beautiful” then that’s just messed up. Your lover should be the most attractive/beautiful/handsome person in your eyes, that’s how love works
Beautiful is a strong word. Say they're pretty or cute but they're not beautiful.
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I think saying “your pretty but not beautiful” is mean. Maybe they feel beautiful and you are taking that away from them by saying you personally don’t find them beautiful which is a superior compliment to being called pretty
Nah.. Literally in the dictionary they are all synonyms of each other therefore they all mean exactly or very nearly the same thing. Why make it complicated.
It's not I who decided to do that. People I meet in the daily lives and others have decided to add some nuances when they talks. So, I've heard that's many people's definitions.
But why? Why would you even say this to her? She's a beautiful woman from what I've seen and negging like that won't do you or your relationship any favor.
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I wouldn't tell her, that i don't find her beautiful.
I was thinking about this a few times. I know there is the universal beauty thing and all that, but there are people only "you" seem to like and others don't find /her/ that attractive. Besides personal preference i mean.. So like you know something plus about her, that makes her more attractive to you.
Maybe we are not talking about the same thing, but almost lol.
Why not just stop with you're pretty or attractive. My dude just think how you would feel if the situation was reversed. Remember the golden rule
Take the caveat out.
If the person is attractive to you, just say that!
Duh.
I think that would rude and inconsiderate.
* I think that would be. . .
I wouldn’t say that if you’d like them enough to take them on as your girlfriend don’t ever tell them something like that. That’s kind of like a teenage mentality of thinking that way
Don’t ever do that. If you don’t find your SO “beautiful” then that’s just messed up. Your lover should be the most attractive/beautiful/handsome person in your eyes, that’s how love works
Depends on them. I don't think that's offensive. Like really if im not beautify that doesn't also mean im ugly.
Yes. It's offensive to the person you told it to.
It's like saying you're ugly, but not THAT ugly.
Not nice man. Kinda too much
It's like saying you're okay or kinda handsome
I understand, but that's how I feel sometimes
I get it but you don't gotta say it just because you think it🙂
Why follow up with that though lol? Lift her up a little so you can drop her on her head?
I think it all depends on the tone and how you say it.
Beautiful is a strong word. Say they're pretty or cute but they're not beautiful.
I think saying “your pretty but not beautiful” is mean. Maybe they feel beautiful and you are taking that away from them by saying you personally don’t find them beautiful which is a superior compliment to being called pretty
It is not offensive to me but some people think its offensive but u should say that's ur opinion
What’s the difference between pretty, attractive and beautiful? I’m confused..
Pretty = Looks good.
Beautiful = Looks better than just good. It's some of the best looking.
Attractive = You likes someone and wants to be in a relationship with them. May be because of personality, looks or something else.
Nah.. Literally in the dictionary they are all synonyms of each other therefore they all mean exactly or very nearly the same thing. Why make it complicated.
It's not I who decided to do that. People I meet in the daily lives and others have decided to add some nuances when they talks. So, I've heard that's many people's definitions.
But why? Why would you even say this to her?
She's a beautiful woman from what I've seen and negging like that won't do you or your relationship any favor.
Dude don’t say that shit by the way you should think she’s beautiful if she’s your girlfriend not sure why she is if you don’t think this
It just sounds like something you don’t need to say, whether you think it a good or bad it’s going to hurt her feeling regardless
This is just semantics. There is no substantive difference between "pretty and attractive" and "beautiful."
it’s better to have a filter