Women generally all try to date a billionaire and achieve all they ever wanted by just hooking up with the right guy. Try and find a male that thinks like that - you'll find the ratio is 95% to 5% in that expectation. Most fail not realizing that pretty much ALL hot women want the same, so once you are at that stage, the choice of good looking cows and geese that 'just want you for reasons they can't explain' is huge (they are by and large nothing more than a body that you can get in a red light district for 50 euros per pop (well, that's unfair to red light districts since some of the women there are better looking)).
If a dad is witnessed volunteering in the classroom or parenting his children, he gets praised and awed. If a mom does it, she doesn’t get as much praise because it’s expected.
If a man is the breadwinner in the house, he gets not praise. It’s expected that men provide. If a woman does it, she won’t get praise but instead questioned about who watches the kids, what does the husband do, etc.
Both of these things are important in a family household though. No money, no food, utilities, etc. If no one takes care of the kids, the kids won’t grow up healthily.
I guess with dating there’s more expectations put on men since they’re the initiators. But In a committed relationship, one that is healthy, the expectations are pretty balanced.
Men and women are like yin and yang. They balance eachother. I don’t think one has more expectations with the other. Without one another no one will have expectations.
Women. They're taught from the birth that they deserve no less than the best. Ofc they have ridiculously high standards. And every statistic i've seen confirms this.
Women think they deserve hot men with good careers and attractive personalities. The kind of men who make up maybe 1% of all men. Which is why women complain about not being able to find a man despite6their abundance of options.
Worst part is, women don't think they need to provide anything in return. They expect their funny entrepreneur calvin clein model boyfriend to just "love them for who they are" instead of realizing that if they want a 1% boyfriend, they also have to mak ethemselves into 1% girlfriend. Yes, that means getting hot and developing an interesting personality. Not just sitting on your ass, eating fat chips writing for prince charming to come long and love your flawed "PeRsOnAlItY"
Men. They expect us to give them our bodies and our VAGINAS and put their body part in there and they expect us to do it without getting anything back. Like kindness, respect and a valuable relationship that goes mutually well in both directions
Women have expectations to attract someone equal or better socioeconomically than themselves. Therefore their expectations for the relationship must be higher than men in general.
Women have way higher expectations. I don't think that needs to be a bad thing, but I think that women spend a lot of time in La La Land about the kinds of dudes that are actually out there.
Women do and continually make more while they're still in a relationship with you and will leave you without even giving you the slightest clue of what expectations they had, But men have higher expectations who they'd actually date rather than who they'd just sleep with, either way I may sound bias but honestly I think we all have way too high of expectations and should lower them
Women. Easily. They want everything. Looks, confidence, money, entertainment, him doing everything, a high paying job, a higher education, a car, a house, exotic trips etc...
men in general reject maybe 50% of women. meanwhile women chase after the top 20% of men. These 20% are the same men, who have options and can get away with being a fuckboy or a cheater if they choose so.
Definitely women, so far in all the serious relationships i have been in it was my girlfriends that kept pushing me to do more for our financial security (wealth) while i never pushed them for that or anything else for that matter.
Well men expect the ladies to decorate the house and make a nest. Plan meals and take care of the children and the social agenda, remember birthdays and throw parties. Ladies expect the men to work at a job that pays most of the bills, be the mr fixit guy when things break down , take care of the landscaping and home maintenance as well as be the family disciplinarian. And help around the house and with the shopping etc.
We will never live up to the expectations women have of us. That's why we have dogs. A pat on the head. Five minutes of playing tug of war and an occasional milkbone. That keeps him happy.
Agreed but rest everything like money, status , emotional support, feelings , gifts , lavish dates etc etc is expected by women so you're kinda seeing one side of the coin.
@Torari So why are women the ones who have to do makeup, hair, shaving their whole body, heels, bras, etc if men care less about appearance? They make a big deal about women's figures too. Breast size, butt size, and overall weight. All of that stuff is a lot of work to keep up with.
I say women but i ain't gonna after guys so i wouldn't know lol. But i am actually gonna guess it depends on the person so equal have high expectations.
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Women generally all try to date a billionaire and achieve all they ever wanted by just hooking up with the right guy.
Try and find a male that thinks like that - you'll find the ratio is 95% to 5% in that expectation.
Most fail not realizing that pretty much ALL hot women want the same, so once you are at that stage, the choice of good looking cows and geese that 'just want you for reasons they can't explain' is huge (they are by and large nothing more than a body that you can get in a red light district for 50 euros per pop (well, that's unfair to red light districts since some of the women there are better looking)).
According to my ex, I'm not allowed to have expectations from my partner because "we don't live in those times anymore".
But for some reason, she expected me to do all the manly things just like in " those times".
And a lot of women seem to share this kind of opinion.
It’s about even just different expectations under different circumstances.
Such as?
If a dad is witnessed volunteering in the classroom or parenting his children, he gets praised and awed. If a mom does it, she doesn’t get as much praise because it’s expected.
If a man is the breadwinner in the house, he gets not praise. It’s expected that men provide. If a woman does it, she won’t get praise but instead questioned about who watches the kids, what does the husband do, etc.
Both of these things are important in a family household though. No money, no food, utilities, etc. If no one takes care of the kids, the kids won’t grow up healthily.
I guess with dating there’s more expectations put on men since they’re the initiators. But In a committed relationship, one that is healthy, the expectations are pretty balanced.
Men and women are like yin and yang. They balance eachother. I don’t think one has more expectations with the other. Without one another no one will have expectations.
Women. They're taught from the birth that they deserve no less than the best. Ofc they have ridiculously high standards. And every statistic i've seen confirms this.
Women think they deserve hot men with good careers and attractive personalities. The kind of men who make up maybe 1% of all men. Which is why women complain about not being able to find a man despite6their abundance of options.
Worst part is, women don't think they need to provide anything in return. They expect their funny entrepreneur calvin clein model boyfriend to just "love them for who they are" instead of realizing that if they want a 1% boyfriend, they also have to mak ethemselves into 1% girlfriend. Yes, that means getting hot and developing an interesting personality. Not just sitting on your ass, eating fat chips writing for prince charming to come long and love your flawed "PeRsOnAlItY"
Men. They expect us to give them our bodies and our VAGINAS and put their body part in there and they expect us to do it without getting anything back. Like kindness, respect and a valuable relationship that goes mutually well in both directions
not where the girl does all the work
What do they “put their body part in there and expect us to do it without getting anything back?” Anything back? Sex isn’t enjoyable to you?
@maiave no not anymore
Not when I know they’re going to pump and dump
@maiave now they love bomb for about a few weeks after sex (pressuring the hell out of me to do it) and then they leave
At least this was my first ex
Women have expectations to attract someone equal or better socioeconomically than themselves. Therefore their expectations for the relationship must be higher than men in general.
Women have way higher expectations. I don't think that needs to be a bad thing, but I think that women spend a lot of time in La La Land about the kinds of dudes that are actually out there.
Women do and continually make more while they're still in a relationship with you and will leave you without even giving you the slightest clue of what expectations they had, But men have higher expectations who they'd actually date rather than who they'd just sleep with, either way I may sound bias but honestly I think we all have way too high of expectations and should lower them
Women. Easily. They want everything. Looks, confidence, money, entertainment, him doing everything, a high paying job, a higher education, a car, a house, exotic trips etc...
men in general reject maybe 50% of women.
meanwhile women chase after the top 20% of men. These 20% are the same men, who have options and can get away with being a fuckboy or a cheater if they choose so.
Ladies. We "mess up" too much we dont do enough, we dont try enough, we are labeled as cheaters, liars, etc. This is the vibe I get
I don't disagree with you.
@AmandaYVR apparently someone did
Meh. I noticed [probably] one girl divebomb downvoted a whole bunch of reasonable male comments here. Not just yours. So don't worry about it.
Definitely women, so far in all the serious relationships i have been in it was my girlfriends that kept pushing me to do more for our financial security (wealth) while i never pushed them for that or anything else for that matter.
Because females naturally pay attention to details better than males
I also believe this factors in. 🎯
Females by a long shot. They plan for everything. Kids, Home, Wedding, reunions.
Bingo.
Well men expect the ladies to decorate the house and make a nest. Plan meals and take care of the children and the social agenda, remember birthdays and throw parties.
Ladies expect the men to work at a job that pays most of the bills, be the mr fixit guy when things break down , take care of the landscaping and home maintenance as well as be the family disciplinarian. And help around the house and with the shopping etc.
In general, women. They tend to be looking for a future. Guys in general are looking for a sex partner.
We will never live up to the expectations women have of us. That's why we have dogs. A pat on the head. Five minutes of playing tug of war and an occasional milkbone. That keeps him happy.
I picked men. They have a lot more expectations with sex and with the way that the woman looks.
i also agree on this.
Agreed but rest everything like money, status , emotional support, feelings , gifts , lavish dates etc etc is expected by women so you're kinda seeing one side of the coin.
Sex maybe, however on appearance the statistics don't lie, and they state clearly women have higher standards of physical attractiveness than men do.
@Torari So why are women the ones who have to do makeup, hair, shaving their whole body, heels, bras, etc if men care less about appearance? They make a big deal about women's figures too. Breast size, butt size, and overall weight. All of that stuff is a lot of work to keep up with.
@Flower7 99% of men don't give a shit about those things. Women do all that bullshit to compete with other women. Not to attract men.
@Torari So you really think a man would be okay with women being completely hairy, with their hairstyle looking a mess?
He'd probably find that quite sexy
@Torari Underarm and leg hair?
I've never known of any guy who's into that.
Men require 1, maybe 2 things.
Women require 100, maybe 200 things.
@Torari If you'd ever tried dating men, you would understand better.
I'm not gay, but based on the rumours I've heard dating men is quite easy. Gay bars apparently are basically soft orgies.
I don't need to date men to know what the statistics say though, and they very clearly say women have much higher standards.
@Torari Then why are women the ones who usually get cheated on?
They aren't. Depending on where you look women cheat just as frequently as men, according to some sources even more frequently.
And regardless, cheating is irrelevant here. Men or women valuing appearance higher does not have any co-relation with how often they cheat.
depends on the person. we all see what is importance differently and some of us understand we are just humans while other dont.
not to mention it very subjective with exceptions.
I wanted to choose both... but I think men are unrealistic and end up with who they think k they should be with as opposed to who they want!
Really! Interesting.
I'd love to hear if you have anything more to expand on that.
I say women but i ain't gonna after guys so i wouldn't know lol. But i am actually gonna guess it depends on the person so equal have high expectations.