What can you do when a girl starts hitting you and pushing you and you don't really want to hit her back?

[Anonymous]

[NamerOfStars]

Fighting back is always risky, doubly so when the attacker's a woman, and triply so when you're not. Trying immobilize her can work, but if she's in full-on fight mode, restricting her hands and feet might not be enough; she can still headbutt and bite. Running might seem to be ideal, especially if you're faster, but if her predatory instincts are firing, she might just chase you down.

If you're somewhere in public, your best bet may well be to simply scream for help, as loud and long as you can. The volume may make her back down, and even if it doesn't, the called attention probably will. You may be mocked "oh, you let a GIRL beat you up", but it's a damn sight better than going to jail.

[umbra_ignis]

Who says I have to hit back? Insult her, leave her well technically it depends on the situation if she’s drunk throw a blanket over her, if she’s on her month be patient, if it’s something you’ve done something idiotic and it was a huge mistake (aka buying tons of useless things) apologize (but if it’s a small thing just leave), however if you done nothing at all and it’s getting on your nerves either leave or insult her either or works but if you have to show her that you aren’t someone to be messed with because sometimes even if you don’t wanna do something you probably gonna have to do it anyways.

[CrystalSnowflakes]

Block it and try to walk away.
Put your arms in front of your head and just try to walk away, make it audile that her behaviour isn't valid but don't insult her. That'll only make her more insane. This girl doesn't sound like someone you should associate with.

[Natattack21]

I would try to walk away from the situation.

And if it continues, I would stop talking or being with the person in question. There is no reason for you to put hands on another person.

[HollyK21]

Has this happened more than once? Hell even once is enough. Abuse is not alright in any form and you should leave her if that’s what her anger has come to!

[Asker]

First time but it got pretty intense and i didn't want to hit her back since i know i can really hurt her.

[HollyK21]

That sounds toxic as hell, I hope you decide to walk away from her and that situation before it escalates to something serious.

[Asker]

I'm really thinking about it I don't really want to be with a person like that. I mean at one point I pushed her but she wouldn't stop hitting me.

[HollyK21]

I hope you do, because a common situation in abusive relationships is the victim blaming themselves, trying to find faults where there aren’t any.

[Asker]

Yeah I mean I felt like she was trying to take advantage of the fact that she's a girl and I didn't want to hit her. I mean I've always said of never hit a girl but in this case I had to fight everything in my body to not hit her.

[TonyV]

Leave her, and if she corners you and is assaulting you defend yourself, hit her back if you need too. I also recommend you file a police report now before you have to hit here back. Cause if you let it go till you have to hit back when the cops come she'll cry and lie and say you hit her and they will take her side. So you really should have a record of this

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

Act like her punch has knocked you unconscious and play dead. For effect I'd start laughing when she panics

https://www.youtube.com/embed/V6I_E-pzwjM

[DeeDeeDeVour]

She must have a lot of pent up anger. Maybe an embrace and allowing her to vent out in tears might help. If she's still violent, turn your back on her & walk away.

[DCooper]

"Don't really want to hit her back?" Dude, hitting her isn't even an option. Doesn't matter if it's self defense. Just get the hell out of the situation.

[slatyb]

Out of anger? Just walk away René. If that’s not enough then do the minimum necessary to protect yourself. If she’s out of control call the police.

[lanadelrey25]

Slap her anyways lol, only if she really deserves it though

[Asker]

Lol well I wanted to

[lanadelrey25]

If it was self defense, like u legit needed to, then go ahead. even still, if you go hitting people expect a hit back. unless you're a super gentle gentleman or something which is also cool

[Asker]

Lol well she kept hitting me and pushing me and at one point she started scratching me which really pissed me and I didn't know if I should hit back or not!!! I mean it would've been a dude doing that

[lanadelrey25]

It depends on why she hit you really I guess

[Asker]

Just a little misunderstanding which all couples have !!! She didn't like I called her out on her bs but still not reason to get physical.

[lanadelrey25]

yeah I agree, she needs help. You'd be in jail if it was the other way around

[Asker]

Oh I agree that's why I didn't if I should hit back !!! Even though at one point I really wanted. I mean even if you're a girl you shouldn't test your luck like that. But I mean I'm a fighter and I've knocked out guys bigger me so if I've hit a girl that's doesn't weight over 120 pounds I think I could've really hurt her.

[cute_short_nerd]

Trip her and then ask if she is alright, if you are sneaky about it, she will get very embarrassed and stop it.

[wankiam]

either walk away or restrain her until she calms down

[Anonymous]

Leave. There is no excuse to ever lay hands on another person, and the best thing you can do is to remove yourself from the situation before it escalates (and it WILL escalate).

[ovixs90]

Be a loser and let her kill you 😁 kidding push her strongly away or show whos man.. dont let her treat you like crap. She hits you cuz she knows you won't do a thing

[Thatsamazing]

Uh, how about be a nice person so that the situation doesn't develop that way at all in the first place.

[Pete671]

Cuddle her, let her cry on your shoulder for as long as she wants,

[Asker]

That wasn't an option at the time

[Pete671]

ah ok, I would just leave, but hang around on the periphery in case she injured herself,,,

[Liam_Hayden]

Film it, press charges, and sue for emotional distress.

[Asker]

Lol you can do that?

[Anonymous]

Grab her her hands in the middle of her palms and hold them there. That way she can't use them.

[Anonymous]

Maybe try and gently push her away, in self defence

[Anonymous]

I'll get naked immediatly and if she doesn't stops than it's time to rub the penis and bring the sperm out 🤣🤣🤣

[Anonymous]

You hit her back.
Don’t let entitled c words think it’s ok to be violent and not have retaliation

[Anonymous]

If a girl treats you like that and you still don't want to hit her back, then you need to grow a pair of balls.

[Cryptic-Game]

You can report her to the cops for physical violence.