If a girl keeps pushing and hitting a guy !!! Can the guy hit back or what's the proper way of handling that situation?
Honestly man, just get away from her. You aren't running away from a fight, you're running away from having your life, business, reputation, etc, destroyed by a vengeful woman. That's the only "right" way to handle situations like that. Because here's the thing; even if the guy is totally justified in retaliating, the absolute shit storm that follows him means that he still loses. Forget about hitting her for a second, let's talk about retaliation of any kind. Heck, I'm still paying the price for women smearing my name back in high school, and I didn't hit anyone. I missed out on a business opportunity last year because of some badmouthing from a girl that I creeped out in high school. In her defense, I was kinda acting like I didn't get the message that she wasn't interested, but in my defense; I was just curious why she wouldn't go out with me (she would give me BS reasons that really obviously had nothing to do with anything). That was over a decade ago.
There was a video online where Beyonce's sister was punching and slapping JayZ in an elevator. I think JayZ had been caught cheating, or some such thing. I have no idea what the story was there, so don't go quoting me on that. Anyway, Solange is getting UP IN JAYZ'S FACE. Like the dude was well within his rights to stop her from hitting him. But he just kept his hands in his pockets and did his best to turn away from her. That's what you have to do when women are attacking you; you just run.
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Push her REALLY HARD away from you first.
The average man punching the average woman in the face can literally break bones in her face; that is why we as men shouldn’t default to punching a woman. The strength dynamic is very imbalanced.
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If she keeps trying to attack you after you push her down to the ground or push her against a wall , then yes you can punch her. You never know what she is going to try to do, and EVERYONE has the right to defend themselves.
Just get away from her and warn her to stop. Hitting and punching are two different things. Don't hit back for no logical reason. You can also restraint her but not too hard to leave marks. Also, what are the reasons for her hitting a guy? When we find out what is the reason for the conflict then it can be avoided.
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Restrain her.
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If moving away from the situation isn't an option, the next best thing in my opinion would be to start blocking her shots. As long as it's done correctly, this can only be seen as defensive, and can't be turned against you, unlike hitting or restraining her, should she try to take leagal action after the fact. Also, in my experience, blocking and standing firm will often result in her giving up because all she's getting out of it at that point is bruised/sore knuckles, etc. As far as I'm concerned, there is very little reason to hit anyone back, regardless of gender, as long as you've got defensive options and can utilize them correctly.
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Only enough to defend yourself. So like if they push I think you can push back and just keep them away from you? Or just run the f away.. There.. Problem solved. Only use violence as last resort and if you are in like.. Fear for your life or something then maybe.. Like if she was some like.. Hulk looking female or.. Has a weapon.. Do you think a cop would let them do that to them? I doubt it.. Still you shouldn't try to hurt them or anything since you are so much bigger and stronger. That could look really bad in court and you could even go down for assault I think? Not positive tho but I think I remember hearing if they suffer a lot more damage then you. Clearly it wouldn't be necessary if that were the case.
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You are justified in using the force necessary to end a genuine threat. For me that would almost always be a pin/restraint. Hitting a girl, especially if she is a lot smaller, is not warranted unless she is wielding a deadly weapon. Except in that latter situation, I am most likely going to just walk away from her and only restrain her if she follows and continues.
Actually the same goes for a smaller guy, too. If I can bench nearly three times your weight I am not going to knock you out cold just because you lost your cool for a minute. -
There are reasons why a girl beats a boy. But if you are a developed person, you endure the dispute and think about why the girl reacts and finds a solution. The girl also wants a peaceful solution. Calm the girl down and discuss the problem, find a peaceful solution with her.
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Unfortunately society is anti-male. Because of this, if a man makes any forceful move on her, even for a legit reason, he will be the one in trouble at the end. The best thing you can do is redirect her so she doesn't hit you and you don't hit her. Eventually she will get tired and stop. The other option is to leave if possible. I know it sucks. That's why we should all support the men's rights movement.
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Restrain her or remove yourself from the situation. Physical violence should be a last resort. She is most definitely in the wrong for attacking you but because men tend to be physically stronger, you want to avoid hitting back at all costs.
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Equal rights mean equal fights. Hit her just once and hard enough to snap her into some sense. If she still doesn't learn, then pick her up and toss her around or something. Demonstrate how SEVERELY out matched she is. If she still won't stop, tko or sleeper hold then call the police.
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In self defense situations in general: if you can leave safely, leave. If you can't, incapacitate. If you can't and really think your life is in danger, kill. Other wise call the police as soon as you can.
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I have no idea what's right. Press charges? It's not okay unless she is pushing him off her or advances. But it's not okay to just hit men and it takes advantage of that fact that men should not hit women, it's wrong.
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If a girl hits a guy, he should hit her back immediately. He needs to set the expectation that he is not going to let her hide behind her gender and get away with shit like that.
Men in general need to reset the expectation that men will not hit women just because they are women. Those days are gone. If women know they can't get away with it, they won't do it. It's a win for everyone involved.
Guys, if a woman punches you, knock her out. -
I think the best reaction would be to hold her wrists so she can’t hit and then get someone to call the cops on her ass
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The way I see it, you push me, I am going to push you back, and if you hit me, I am going to restrain you, I care not from who it comes, an attack is an attack.
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If the girl isn't hitting for trying to assault or something like that then try to restrain her first and then if that doesn't work hit back
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In my opinion push her off and leave/runaway. if she is legit bashing you and you can't get away you can fight her
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In a perfect world yes. But all too often the guy gets blamed and punished for defending himself. She also exaggerates her injuries just to get him arrested or beat up by other people.
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Real Men leave the situation because he's a man and it's safer for him to go sleep in a car on the street. Real men don't hit women they just leave her then leave her for good
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He can restrain her and if that doesn't work then he can hit her. Ideally he should remove himself from the situation.
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I think I have to agree. Like if you have a daughter then you know what girls are actually.
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You shouldn't.
Just leave.
Walk away from her, until you are both calm. 💜 -
I wonder what the answers would look like if the genders were reversed. A 180lb woman vs a 140lb man, and he just keeps pushing her and slapping her. Should she restrain him? Just walk away?
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