He is threatening violence. This is very dangerous and in a matter of time he will fulfill his promises. Unless you got violent and/or threatened violence first he has absolutely no excuse for this shit.
This is not love. Also this is NOT absolutely NOT masculine energy (so many women get that wrong it’s disgusting). This is controlling behavior and you need to leave right now.
Make plans to move your stuff out when he isn’t around. Move somewhere and you call him and calmly and yet very directly tell him you are moving on. Tell him he crossed the line when he threatened violence and you are not going to tolerate that. Do not rationalize his behavior. He loves himself not you. That’s why he’s afraid of leaving. His apology was crocodile tears but crocodiles kill people.
I hate guys like this. They make all men look bad. But what I hate even more is this controlling behavior secretly turns so many women on.
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yes he is ding it on purpose to get you to stay with him he sounds more like needs to ba taken too the wood shed. guys like him are nothing but trouble you need t get away from him before it gets worse which it will.
he is a user and cares nothing for you , and you can question me all you want but the simple fact is that if he is throwing a fit over a birthday party for a freind what do you think he will do if you get married and go to your familys for a party? you do not need a guy like that at all.
i have seen girls older than you go to the hospital due to guys like your boy friend which i dont think he is acting like one. you need leave and not look back
What he is doing is wrong, whether he means to or not. He likely has anger management issues, or control issues at best. At worst, this could be a symptom of a more serious mental health concern. Regardless of what it is or whether or not it’s intentional, the two of you have to get to the bottom of it so that type of verbal interaction never happens again.
Wow, your boyfriend sounds mean, you should break up with him if he continues. What's his problem? Are you going to cheat on him? Well, I don't know about your history, all I can say from this is that it's not good.
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Yes he's abusive unless you know he's joking. You should ask yourself why he doesn't want you to go to your friends? Is it in anyway controlling or anything like that and is this the first time he's acted like this towards you? Does he seem to get upset easily or act aggressive with other people? I mean there will be signs that this is a problem and you just have to be honest with yourself. If he has an anger problem it's not worth it you should end your relationship and move on. This is coming from someone that has had anger problems my whole life and even though I don't and never have beat on women I've been in trouble a hand full of times with the law for violence and was locked up a couple times. It's not worth it plus even though I know not everyone with anger problems hits women but too many do so as a dad I say end it find a guy that knows how to deal with his anger in a safe and healthy way. I wouldn't want my daughter to date a guy like me.
I don't know about intentionally, but he definitely sounds abusive. The guy is emotionally unstable. Trust me, any man who acts like this is not worth your time. I am speaking from personal experience.
No I don't think it was on purpose. More like on instinct. Clearly he has anger issues or trust issues. That sounds like a child having a tantrum to get his way.. I understand getting upset but name calling then crying about it? Very childish
Yes he’s doing it on purpose hun he knows full well what he’s doing. I had a similar situation only mine was suicidal and if I didn’t do what he wanted he would off himself. He never did. They know exactly what they’re doing I would break it off with him before your too caught up in their manipulative lies to get out and he actually becomes physically abusive.
He should never treat you like this. He should be able to control his anger and temper while being around you. Talk to him and if things don’t work out, i suggest you find another man who treats you better.
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It doesn't matter whether it's intentional. He's abusive and you need to get the hell away before he becomes physically abusive.
Either way, any kind of abuse is unacceptable. Please leave him before you’re trapped in an abusive relationship. You deserve better.
Yes because he isn't able to identify that he is abusive and need to ask. People don't say that when you want to go to a dinner
Yes, he is. And asking you about it may be an attempt to cover it because he's aware that he is. Regardless of the circumstances, threatening physical violence is always uncalled for.
Doesn't matter if it's intentional or not, you shouldn't have let that go so easily. That's a behavior that screams for a correction.
You will know but you need to know if his last is having affect. Well you don't need to but do you. It's like hanging from your back with one leg completely removed, the other cut in half, one hand cut off, and no head.
Break up with him, it'll only get worse if you stay with him.
Emotionally abusive is the same as verbal.
There is physical abuse and emotional abuseHard to tell. Male or female friend - to flirt with others or not?
No. He’s intentionally abusive. Run away ASAP.
Yes, he is
He must be a trump supporter/republicuck
THEY HATE WOMENno out of anger and frustration. he has a temper
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