Am I too young to start a family?

[Anonymous]

I am 24, a good guy, quite good looking, and all I want, is to find my future wife and start a family. Meanwhile all the other kids my age just wanna fuck me and do drugs? Am I getting old too fast? Should I be fucking around and doing drugs? Am I in too much of a rush? Is my search for love maybe ruining my chances? Should I wait till she comes to me?

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+1 y

Thanks for the answers everyone, when I said start a family, I meant find the one to do it with, the kids will obviously not come now. But if I want kids by the age of 28, I have around 4 years to find my "the one" and it's stressing me out

[KeziL]

You're not too young to start a family. I want to get married when I'm 23 and have kids at/by 25. I want to start my family life basically the second I get out of college, get engaged and then get married and buy a house together and have a couple kids. I don't see the point in fucking around in the meantime, my ultimate goal in life is to have a family so why not have that right away?
At 24, I don't think you're rushing anything. 24 is a great age to start a family. Young parents are better parents anyways, do more with their kids, are happier and less stressed out all the time. There's no point in doing something you don't want to do (drugs, fucking around) just to waste time til you can so what you actually want and start a family.

[Asker]

Maybe you and I should start a family haha

[KeziL]

I've already got a guy in mind but thanks for the offer :)

[jkm1864]

Look take it from Me its all a lie and they all eventually cheat no matter if You think You found a good woman. You can work Your ass off and be an excellent father and right around the time She hits menopause mother nature will tell Her to spit out one child and then CHAD fucks Her and You end up with child support and You lose Your house and family. Take it from Me the pain and anguish of losing Your home and family isn't worth it so play it smart and never get married or have children. If You must have children then pay a surrogate and make sure an agreement is hammer out before the child is born. If You have to get married then look for a wife in asia because they are more traditional and they still appreciate family unlike American women.

[_SOARER]

Now is the perfect time to find a good girl.
This is our chance to find one that's decent while we are still young

I feel the exact same way and I am 24.
Right now I am just working towards saving money for the house!

A family needs a house. So just keep working, saving, and searching for that good woman

[severance]

Usually, people don't know who they are until they're 30. Or even older. You aren't too young to WANT those things... but you're a bit too young, in my opinion, to act on them. Go date, find a nice girl. Develop a career. Save up with your partner. Then think about kids. Kids are a huge burden. They're awesome, for sure, but a burden and stress nonetheless.

[Cryptic-Game]

Then I'm fixing to know who I am on November 3rd. :) I turn 30 in a little over 3 months.

[jennifer_bloom]

If you want a good girl you have to look for her - high quality people don’t chase cause they have options

[Asker]

I like to think I'm a high quality person.. I don't chase girls. How can I look for her without chasing?

[jennifer_bloom]

Invite her for coffee or for a conversation and see if she accepts

[Avicenna]

Not at all. However, can you support kids?

[xxxxxxxlllllllxxxxxx]

no, ur not too young to start a family, and there's no such thing as too old or too young, in my opinion. do what makes u happy, thats the right choice. And def dont feel like u have to fuck around and "live ur youth" just bc most of the people in our age group do

[modelUN242]

Definitely not, the earlier the better, I'm the same as well. My friends think that they should get married at 30 or later, which is too late in my opinion.

[EyesOfGod]

Yeah i want to be around as long as possible for my kids if i have any.

[CuteNerd9]

I don't think you're too young. You're an adult and you seem to be looking to start a family the right way. If you're ready don't let others sway your opinion just because they may not be ready.

[likelyOK]

No you sound like a good man with good values best of luck to you don’t let others deter you from what you want.😇

[NewZion]

If shit ever hits the fan:
https://www.law.cornell.edu/wex/divorce

[EyesOfGod]

Lol wow

[EyesOfGod]

Bud we men have all the time in the world to have kids,(raising thems a different story) but you should ask that question to all the single mothers younger then you lol

[TacosRAwesome]

Nothing wrong with that. Just take life as it comes.

[Nonfrivolous]

28-30 is the best age for marriage but 24 isn't too young tbh

[hellish-kitty]

You shouldn't feel rushed or stressed out when it comes to starting a family.

[Iron_Man]

No man that’s nothing you’re just getting started out in life

[Anonymous]

Everyone’s different—you do you

[Cryptic-Game]

You aren't too young.

[apollo3000]

Hmm... Good question