I want to have kids already but not w/ my husband. Am I too old at 28?

[Anonymous]

Long story short.
move being married to my husband for 9 years. We live w/ my mother who treats me like I’m her daughter in law and since I was a kid she prefers anyone over me.
I tried giving my best to this man but I’m done. I’m not attracted to him anymore. I’m becoming depressed more and more. I begged him for several months that one day I was going to find someone better and I did. I fell in love w/ someone else and told him. He broke my phone. Now he’s trying to treat me better but I’m just not attracted to him anymore. I hate him for wasting my youth. I’m trying to find a way to get out.
divorce sounds easy but we have a business that will end in two years since I already invested. Im not a liar.
what should I do if I’m by myself in this world. Plus guys don’t take you serious these days.

[devilish-cutie]

If you are unhappy in that marriage and you did your best to make it work and dont see any way of working out than its time to move on. You dont want kids with this man, that speaks volumes. You had good times with him so its not all time wasted, some poople were alone all that time and haven't had anyone, so it can be worse. You are not too old, people nowdays even have kids even with 40. Im 34, no kids and single, am i doomed? Compared to me you still have plenty of time. At 28 and 34 you are not much different so I do understand you. Whatever business you have you cannot make that as an excuse, you need to be determined and disciplined to sort your life out! Good luck!

[AutumnSerenity]

It sounds like you’re miserable in this relationship/situation so I recommend that you simply leave and worry about the divorce paperwork later. Maybe he’ll file it himself. However, I don’t recommend having children with this new guy just yet. Try living with him for a while to see what his malfunction is (because they all have one - some are just more intolerable than others). However, as I’m sure you know, you don’t see who someone really is until about 3 years in. The best thing you can really do though is to just be alone for a while, maybe date someone from a distance. Otherwise you’re rebounding and making impulsive decisions that’ll cost you your sanity in the long run.

[jahaims]

You chose to be with someone and are saying someone else wasted your youth. You shouldn't have kids if you don't know how to take responsibility for your own actions.

[Asker]

How do you know I’m not capable of taking care of myself just because a have a “chicken heart” Dude, why do you think he doesn’t want to let me go? Because I treat him and my mother like a queen and king. I cook from scratch just like a professional chef. I used to make a lot of money working everywhere from regular jobs to dangerous (not illegal) jobs where I have to act though to the point guys in their 20s ask me to take care of them or protect them if they don’t feel safe. I took care of my cousins since they moved were little. I do everything a housewife does and work as hard like I’m not a housewife. I never wanted kids to proof I can make my own money without asking the government here in the USA. Not wanting to break his heart has nothing to do w/ me being able to take care of myself.

[Anonymous]

And this is why women who are 30+ are the best for marriage. Take notes, red pillers who complain about women in their 30s.

[Ironic_Method]

Because they make poor life altering decisions?

[Anonymous]

Man--I sure hope you are hot as FUCK because you sound like a complete loon.

[Dkc123]

You gonna regret this. Go back to your husband..