When your partner promises sex... and doesn't deliver?

[Anonymous]

How do you feel about it? Asked for it some six hours back, some indecision, some promise... but nothing as yet. How would you cope with such a situation? I think it's something many (especially men) in long term relationships face. But men mostly won't talk about it.

[MadamX91]

Dude I'm on the same boat. My husband has been busy with work lately that he'll feel tired, but promises sex. So we'll go to sleep without having any. As a female it makes me feel unwanted because we used to do it 4 times a week.

[Asker]

I know exactly how it feels. Masturbation could take care of the physical need, but what about the emotional?

[Anonymous]

I’d just accept it and make sure everything is okay with him and ask if he wanted to do something else instead.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m not a very sexual person, my sex drive is very low it wouldn’t be a bother to me at all, just as long as he’s okay and nothing is bothering him.

[asshole_]

She on her time of the month maybe?

And do you two fuck when she is.. some people don't do it

I don't

[Asker]

No, it's more like she lost her libido (low sexual desire is a thing) over time.