My ex boyfriend vents to me about everything , does this mean he loves me?

[Anonymous]

[jadspop]

In a way... I would say yes... But maybe not what you think... He values your opinion and companionship... But that dosent nesicarily mean he's romantically interested in you...

I still message my first HS girlfriend to see how she's doing and vent from time to time... And I care about her a lot.. she means a lot to me... But I can't say I'd be interested in dating her...

Though I do flirt a lot..

But there are other girls in compleatly plutonic with that I care about and enjoy talking to.

So he might still have feelings for you but it dosent guarantee he has romantic feelings

[Asker]

We just broke up a week ago

[jadspop]

Well I mean.. I'd it's that new then he deffinatly still has feelings for you... You don't get over a person that quickly... Well.. generally... It could be that he's just used to you being there and hasn't adjusted to being single yet?

How long were you two together?

[Asker]

We were together 2+ years , I kinda ruined it I overthink a lot and usually need reassurance and I guess he wasn’t having it this time , he was calling me 24/7 then he slowed down so I thought he lost interest , we stopped speaking and we just now started speaking but I don't know what that means

[Asker]

Cause he kept saying it’s no point of staying

[jadspop]

Sounds like he's stalling cuz he's waiting for you to give him a good enough reason to stay...

He thinks it's over but he wants to be wrong... He still cares about you and wants to be with you...

Like I said... It's just up to you to give him a reason to stay...

At least that's what I'm getting or if it...

[Browneye57]

"Ex"? Why are you wasting your time?
Exes are exes for a reason. Taking one back is like routing through the trash - you know, dumpster-diving? You might find something you like, but it's still trash.

[Bfly004]

Not necessarily love it might just be he sees you as his confidant. A person he can trust. This is part of a relationship and if you are looking for a relationship with him to grow with its definitely a step in the right direction

[FeenaK]

I don't think that has much to do with his feelings. But it does mean that he trusts you and needs a trustworthy friend at this time in his life

[Shaboogity420]

I don’t have much experience, I’ve only been in one relationship for 4 years but after she broke it off and didn’t give a reason as to why I’ve been blaming myself ever since, I had my final ACT the other day and causally messaged her to see how she did, she ended up venting to me for 5 hours straight. It felt good, but strange.. like going back to our old ways, and at the same time being like “don’t you have a boyfriend for this?”, I don’t think it’s love, but it’s hard to tell. The first time anything felt sincere from her, the first time she’s taken the blame and apologized. I don’t know where my minds at currently but I feel you.

[Bram852OOO]

Kinda depends on the situation. Howlong ago was the breakup, who initiated the breakup. Have you talked with him first weeks after the breakup?

[Asker]

We just broke up it’s only been a week he broke up with me tho

[Bram852OOO]

If you wanna have a chance of getting him back, 30 days without any contact most often will do the trick. Caus then he will suddenly relise what he's missing out on. If you slowly lose contact with him, he won't have that realisation.

[Asker]

We haven’t spoke for a week , he was just watching my social media & then texted me what was going on around him

[Bram852OOO]

I am going trough a breakup atm aswell. I broke up with my girlfriend little more then 2 weeks ago. And lately have been reading a lot of breakup psychology for how you can get them back

[Asker]

I have too , the last thing that happened was me and him got into a bad argument but he texted me last night and told me what was going on and I was like I’m always here regardless he can come over whenever but he was like we ended things badly and then I said it’s okay and he left me on read they texted yo and was like nvm

[Bram852OOO]

Never answer back for the next 30 days unless he exactly tells you that he wants you back

[Hangry22]

No. It just means he gets free therapy from you

[DavidFox]

lol, only been using gag for 2 weeks but seems like a lot of people try to use this for free therapy :)

[Hazelstar99]

Yeah it's just like you're fired from your job but still chosing to work for it. That's for free. Isn't that really fucked up?

[DavidFox]

So fucked up. That and how much pleasure the toxic trolls get from causing people pain.. gag is a horrible place at times. There may actually be evil people here.

[Asker]

What’s using gag I never heard of that

[DavidFox]

This app

[Hazelstar99]

If he's your ex why is he coming back to you?

[Siavash_1990]

No. He may just like or trust you

[GreenGold1992]

Probably not, but he may just trust you

[In_Trance]

it means you didn't block him

[mich15smith]

he prob trusts you

[Iron_Man]

No not really