My boyfriend is scared I’ll leave him for another guy?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is scared that i’ll leave him for another ‘better guy’. What should i do?

[Washere1234]

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
Imagine that you were in a similar situation and try to empathize with him.
Give him reassurance that you love HIM.
Then tell him to please stop being so insecure because that in itself unattractive to women.
Tell him to be happy and enjoy himself, nobody knows the future.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Just be there for him. It's his insecurity he needs to do away with. You can only help him get over that.

[CriticalDiscourse]

Probably evaluate if this particular emotionally draining situation is worth continuing with.

[SunnySri]

Mam you can try and talk to him.
Sit with him and listen to his reasons for such insecurity and assure him how much you love and care about him.
And if you are certain you want to be with him you can also tell him that you are never going to leave him.

[Nawlins34]

Honestly? And I'm not being funny here, leave him.

Because nothing you say will calm him down and at some point his insecurities will no longer be attractive to you.

I will say this though, You have to ask "why" is he saying this? Is it justified? Are you doing something that is triggering his insecurities or what?

[Asker]

It’s because of his past relationship that ended with divorce. It broke him. I never done anything to make him worry about leaving; i’ve been loyal from the 1st day we were together. He says he’s scared because for him, i’m really attractive

[Nawlins34]

This is actually worse. He hasn't healed from his divorce and it sounds like you're the most attractive woman he's ever dated. That's pressure on an insecure guy who's wounded.

[Asker]

that’s the absolute truth but i don’t want to leave him and neither he

[tzdc21]

Sit down with him and reassure him that he is everything that you could ever want and desire from a man. He clearly feels insecure of himself, so do everything in your power to help put those insecurities to bed. Tell him compliment or something that you love about him everyday. Assure him in someway, shape or form that he is loved and respected by you.

[Unit1]

Let your actions prove him wrong because words are very cheap.

we may realize it's a real possibility. What you saw there is his defense mechanism.

[mich15smith]

talk to him about why he feels he's not good enough

[msc545]

Reassure him that you wouldn't do that assuming you wouldn't.

[ashish804]

may be because u r fucking more sexyyyyy than him thats y he feel so

[Sam_The_Savage]

Leave him and let him face his fear. Lol

[imhappynow]

Don't leave him ig

[Asker]

im not even thinking about it