I'm 15 and it is normal for guys twice my age to like me?

[Mishan97]

It’s definitely very weird. There’s a big difference between a 15 year old dating a 30 year old and a 30 year old dating a 45 year old. I know technically both are 15 years apart but a 30 year old and a45 year old are both working adults, with similar maturity levels. But as a 15 year old, you’ve just started high school, you don’t have much experience with boys, you are much more innocent than a 30 year old. A 30 year old has already experienced high school, college, and working and living alone. These experiences help people mature and learn. You’ve yet to go through these experiences. These men are hitting on you because they most likely want to take advantage of the fact that you are young and innocent and therefore easier to manipulate. I’d say stay away from these men they sound creepy! You’d be much happier dating a guy your age. You’ll have way more in common to talk about and you will be able to relate to each other better.

[AmandaYVR]

The "yes", "it depends" and "not sure" is all b. s. They should absolutely stay away from you. Hands down. (And their hands off.) Don't entertain any sexual attention from an adult. Ever.

[Xcommunicated]

This may seem very nice to you. Complimentary and excite you. Let me make this abundantly clear. It is NOT ok for an adult (male or female- equal rules apply) to say or do anything sexual to a minor. Even making someone uncomfortable is technically harassment.
Unfortunately, this is all too common, and people make excuses.
don’t let people play on your emotions. Find a nice line that’s says thanks but no thanks. And find a guardian or group.
if someone truly cared about you, they would let you grow up... just like they already have. Instead of stealing your youth.

There is no such thing as consent from or with a minor.

[Wedimir]

A cute young representative of the opposite sex will always like the older one, this is nature. Law and morality try to protect teenagers from sexual harassment, but often teenagers themselves seduce adults. If my daughter said she was Dating a grown man, I would kill him.) Although this may be a backward opinion. Freedom of morals! everyone does what they want. But if a man took advantage of a girl and left her, what should she do? what if she got pregnant? Yes, a man older is normal but when you are at least 21, you have a profession, a job and you can live

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you look like you are 15 or do you look older?

[zeitgeist057]

Wikipedia article on Ephebophilia.

I just wrote a whole thing on this but yes, this is the age where you start to be attractive because you are developed/developing and past puberty most likely and starting to be a sexually reproductive viable member of your species. If you think about tigers or some other animal they don't have laws about what age they have to be to start getting attracted and having sex with each other. It's determined by when they go from juvenile to adult, when they start to menstruate, develop breasts that can lactate to feed the young, etc. You're at that age.

[MecheD]

Check it out , it’s common for guys to come after a woman in general, but when it comes to finding out an age most men ( I would think) would say no due to the fact if caught that means prison. But it’s not looked bad upon if and when you’re “ legal” in the eyes of the law. At that point I kind of agree with age isn’t anything but a number.

[loveslongnails]

When you're 15, it's not "normal" for a 30 something guy to be attracted to you for any reason except sexually, unless you somehow have the mind of a mature 20 something year old. (yes, there is always the rare exception) However, the older you get, the less weird it gets. So if you were 30, it wouldn't be all that weird for a 40 something guy to be attracted to you not just physically, but mentally and emotionally as well.

[Cherokeehp]

It’s normal in the sense that’s it’s very common, but it is definitely not appropriate. Stay away from those creepy pedophile men.

[Dchrls78104]

No, not normal. Actually illegal in my country, where any man caught propositioning a girl your age can be jailed for "carnal knowledge", or something like that, with a minor, and labelled paedophile and pervert.

[Levin]

I would suspect that those guys want to use you for sex.

[Liam_Hayden]

Honestly it depends upon how you look and dress. If you look like a 15 year old, it is creepy. It you look and dress like an adult then it should probably be expected.

[weysally]

when I was 15 + my first lover was 44, he was so good meaning he made sure I was alright with what was happening, I loved him, so don't worry about it,

[bamesjond0069]

All guys your age just want to use you for sex. Half the older guys want to just use you for sex. The other half want to be serious with you. Half of those who want to be serious are losers, the other half are pretty awesome.

So an older man in and of itself isn't the answer. But you're way better off dating older men. All younger men will break your heart and just use you for sex.

[Anonymous]

Yeah because sometimes they don’t know your age but they shouldn’t keep trying to flirt or talk to you in that way knowing this. Some girls look very mature and men will always be attracted to young women no matter how old men get

[rachel776]

my dad's friends started checking me out when i was 12

and Kim Kardashian is 40, so what the hell are those guys doing?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

At your age it shouldn't be normal. And it certainly isn't legal... Older men shouldn't be sexualizing young 15 year old girls... Especially men in their 30's...

[Wise4myage]

No its not normal, and stay away from older men till your 18. They will just use you and move on.

[KristenKT]

I have been flirted with and have flirted back with older guys. I guess it's okay

[DWornock]

Of course because you are fertile and men are attracted to fertile girls. That is why, throughout most of human recorded history, men married young teenage girls.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

No, Not normal guys who are age 30, should leave teenage girls alone
guys that age is looking for one thing?

[Anonymous]

No it's very creepy and they're probably closeted pedos

[Anonymous]

Yes. You are entering youf sexual prime and are of marriage and child bearing age.

[Anonymous]

No, it's not. Do you perhaps look older than your age?

[FakeName123]

As long as there is hair on the muff...

[Anonymous]

yes it is
you are at the age of breeding
its how us men are

once a girl hits her mid teens
she is able to get pregnant
and you have fresh eggs inside of you

the older women no longer have eggs

[MarkyMark77]

do u like older guys?

[TOB93]

It's not normal but it is sadly very common.

[Ninafrances3]

That shii happens all the time lol

[Anonymous]

It's probably illegal depending where you live.

[Anonymous]

Ooooooooooh pedophiles

[Dave31989]

very common

creepy but

very common

[Wewladdy]

No, it's not.

[Hangry22]

Paedophiles

[Joe1956]

guys like that are predatory...

[_Just_A_girl_]

Run.