Is my friend attracted to my boyfriend or is she just being friendly?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months now and I am starting to grow stronger feelings for him by the day. I introduced him to my sister and my best friend like a month ago. I started going over to his place more but with my best friend. She told me when she first met him he was hot and I said I know. This past two weeks she just seems to be looking at him a lot. Whenever he says something that doesn’t seem too funny she laughs at it. We were drinking together at his house a week ago and she said he was handsome and he said thank you. Tonight they just talked more and laughed a lot about random things and she said she wanted to spend almost a whole day with us 3 together, he said that sounds good and that he would cook for us and she said she’ll cook with him and said that she thinks they can be a great team and said she loves him like a friend. She even acts a bit goofy around him. Is she into him or just being friendly? I don’t know how to ask or to just let it go and see if anything more happens.

[DevilishDarling]

Honestly you need to have a discussion. You aren't feeling all that comfortable with the situation. So talk with her, she's your friend right?

I would say talk to your boyfriend after but he could just be trying to be open because she's your friend and he wants to keep you happy and the relationship growing.

But definitely talk to your friend, not accusatory but honest. Like hey I'm glad you love hanging out with us but do you have strong feelings developing? Or however you feel like approaching your friend. Because otherwise it's going to grow and fester in you until you lash out instead of just finding out now

[Anonymous]

And next thing yk, you come after grocery shopping only to find your boyfriend banging your bestie doggy style. So yes she's trying to snatch him from you or maybe she's just jealous that you got a hot guy

[caring__1]

This does not appear to be friendliness, and she definitely isn't being respectful of you. She is fixated on your boyfriend. You can sit down with both of them together and ask them to help you understand the behaviors you are observing, yet don't accuse them of anything, as they'll just deny it and make it about your insecurities. I can't say whether you are insecure, but the behaviors you are describing seem to lean toward you becoming the third wheel. Only focus on what you are observing. Don't share assumptions or interpretations.

[Bad_Man55]

There is something there.. even being really friendly has its limits when it comes to your best friend and your boyfriend. She is either clueless or knows what she is doing

[Dave31989]

Sounds like you have trust issues with your friend and boyfriend

make sure your trust issues are ONLY with your boyfriend.. friends are forever, guys are a dime a dozen