How can I possibly get him out of my head?

[Anonymous]

I think I might be falling in love with someone, even though he makes out he doesn't, I think he might because be as he gets jealous and angry when he sees other men around me.

He won't ever tell me with him being in another country.

I can't stop thinking about him, and we are hardly talking at the moment as they are are extremely busy over Christmas and things for the next few weeks. Family, and work.

[Anonymous]

Well I had the same issue with a LDR I was in, as he was enlisted in the Navy with no contact for a couple months, and I couldn’t stop thinking of him. We have reconnected and such now, but what helped get me through it all was just recognizing the things I can do for myself. Take time and reflect, become your own other half! Obviously, you have to allow yourself time to hurt and feel any emotion that comes your way, but do not let them consume you all the time. Love and feelings are complicated, and it’s really up to you to decide what is best for you; as well as the future of your relationship with him!

[Asker]

Thank you... Its damn hard to shake him off haha. He is in Germany, and if I didn't have problems with my health, or this pandemic... I'd want to be there with them.

[Opinion Owner]

Of course! I know that feeling all too well, it’s a rough one to face. You’ve got this though!

[Asker]

Thank you.

[pleatedskirt34]

are you wearing a skirt?

[Asker]

Why?

[pleatedskirt34]

I did not understand

[Asker]

Why would you ask about a skirt?

[pleatedskirt34]

I just asked can you text me

[Asker]

And why the hell would I do that? I don't even know who you are..

[pleatedskirt34]

maybe i want to meet

[pleatedskirt34]

are you there?

[pleatedskirt34]

just asked do we talk from direct message?

[Asker]

I don't want to meet you. I just said in this whole thing that I love someone so forget it.

[Asker]

I said no.