How do you get someone out of your head?

Question

what did you do to forget someone nd move on did you start seeing others? or gym time? lmk

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

OK, let me ask you this question first. Have you ever broke up before? And was it as hard as this to get over

This is my theory
We all have an energy within us It is almost like our spirit our soul

When we die.
Our energy gathers all our knowledge everything we have learned and as our body hit the ground it is going in to another Dimension.

I have been in relationships before that have ended Walked away. It was painful for a week or so but was able to move on

Another?
Time I went through a break up. And it was not me. I couldn't sleep. Eat I couldn't function right.. it was not me... I don't want to get in to it on here but I come to realize I was fighting myself. Kinda

I had my head going come on let's go buy my body said not I fought myself for 2 weeks.

I believe that when I fell in love with this girl that my energy fell in love with her energy. Even more and when we broke up my energy was mourning her energy.
I wanted to motivate Iand I could but in side everything stop and I would tell my self come on. I don't knownif you know anything about energy. But 2 energy's come together It's the most beautiful feeling in the world..

but that's the only thing it could have been if you and I started a online relationship. And we liked each other I could make you feel things you have never have before.. yes sounds crazy but it's not and I could prove it... it's by use my energy and becoming one with your energy..

Any way I would straight up force myself to do things.

Even in my head my head wanted to do the things that I wanted to do and I would have to talk to myself to make myself do it because my body would not move is this happening with you

Stefan3 · Accepted Answer

I am quite clear about this one. I am psychotherapist and been suffering this a lot. Only true way is to take time and cincerly, intimately, meditate about persons best qualities you can think of. But best qualities are those which are subjectively dearest to you. Something that you find very beautiful about person. When you hold those qualities in your intimate space in your heart long enough, they start to "evolve" whitin you, and you can properly part, say farewell in way that serenity can enter.
Probably, most relieveing feeling in this world.

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

If you're like me, it takes time. Time is the healer of all wounds. Eventually the more time passes the less and less you will think about that person. Dating someone new may speed up the process but if you're going through a breakup, only time can heal the pain of losing that person. If its just somebody you liked but couldn't be with, then it will be much easier to move on by just living life. Go out and do stuff with friends. Start dating. Get new hobbies etc. The point is to just live life. Which I know is easier said than done when you're going through it with someone, but it does get easier with time.

Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

To get something or someone out of your head, you put something else in your head. Ideally better. It can be a someone too, but ideally a something.

Distraction helps forget, and gain new perspective. 👍

frissyfrish · Answer

Honestly dating other people and finding someone new is a good strategy.

Before I met my husband I knew a few guys who were basically fuck buddies / friends with benefits. I'd call on them when I needed to have really good sex, but I didn't consider any of them LTR material. They were all players and knew how to fuck properly.

Whenever I'd have a breakup, I'd call on one of them to cheer me up a bit. <3

Oncewildtwiceburned · Answer

Seeing others was a stupid way I moved on, drinking as well. The gym time I devoted some time to was a far better approach. An MMA gym was even more perfect.

Pouring myself into work should have been what I devoted the most time to, or at least on par with church and christian fellowship.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

There is no one in my head but me, after a breakup. What is truly in my head is the happy future I imagined that won't happen anymore. I just need time, a long time even, to accept/digest that my expectations will remain, permanently, expectations, instead of reality

Cristi019 · Answer

I'll be damn If I know. Sunday I went to church to the funeral of a neighbor, and the girl I loved the most back in school 20 years ago showed up with her husband and daughter. I only looked at her once when she wasn't aware, I felt her watching at me but I just couldn't look at her again, it felt forbidden since she's married. Now after two days I can't get her out of my head. I see her very rare but when I see it just keeps my mind busy for days. Definetly it's something wrong with me.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

One thing is to avoid "trying" to not think of them, because that just makes you think of the situation more. When the thought of the person and the relationship comes to mind, just ignore the thought.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

The best way to get over someone is to get under someone new & if you want to get them out of your head it won’t happen over night but it will happen over time.

strateguy632 · Answer

By hunting for the next one. By Actively thinking about other things or people when memories of the ex, notice and Actively think about others.

Nikki1989 · Answer

The easiest thing in the world to do is to move on. It is baffling so many people have a problem with something so basic. Change is a part of life.

On_cloud_wine · Answer

Def when I meet someone awesome and stay frigin busy and sweat a little too.. that dopamine boost

PrincessC16 · Answer

If it's an ex then this is called Limerence. Check it out.

Likestorizz · Answer

Looked for someone else but I drink every day too. I forget with time

NicholasRedone · Answer

Someone or something else replaces them and repeat lol 😆 rinse and repeat cycle

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Mostly time really.. Time and occupying yourself with whatever it is you like to do really..

Mrtcn01 · Answer

date anothers. gym? i always do sports.. so gym is not an option for me..

jahaims · Answer

I'm emotionally healthy so I don't have that issue.

Lilly1979 · Answer

Cut them out of your life I moved away from my ex not to deal with him.

Sleephazard · Answer

Give your head to someone else. One way or another. Lol.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not easy, I still think about some really hot girl I saw recently.

7Phoenix7 · Answer

Focus on loving yourself...

trumpetplayerforlife · Answer

Horrible way but I slept with someone else

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Get on top of someone else

Eempriyanka · Answer

New hobbies new goals new friends

Happilytakenbf · Answer

Get them into your bed then move on

Sono83 · Answer

Get out and do things, meet new people.

Anonymous · Answer

Luck

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