How can I get her out of my head?

[Anonymous]

I broke up with her because it wasn’t working out and all I can do is think about her all day everyday and it’s giving me so much anxiety I don't know it’s like she is so chill about it how can I stop

[whereismyjohnny]

I'll have to agree with devilish-cutie here. Don't let her go if you love her. Have you tried communicating with her about your relationship and problems? Try talking to her. Maybe you could give your relationship another try and work on it if she wants it too.

[Asker]

Yeah I have but I don't know what to do anymore she talks to so many other guys for validation and I just don’t feel like a priority

[devilish-cutie]

Well listen to your heart instead of your brain for once. If you love her dont let her go man. Things not working out doesn't mean givign up but working on problems.

[Asker]

Yeah I know but I don't know what to do anymore I’ve stuck around for so long and because it’s long distance she can’t take me seriously or trust herself to be loyal sadly

[devilish-cutie]

Well that means to put in the work, make up for what you fd up, ask her how can you win her over and make it work and than do what she tells you. If she is answering there is a chance, ofc she will be cold cause ypu hurt her and she is protecting herself, you can't know how she feels.

[Asker]

Yeah I understand completely it’s just that she talks to so many other guys for validation and it just doesn’t make me feel like a priority and I’ve told her and all she says is she doesn’t like them plus she doesn’t take it seriously because were long distance so I don't know I can’t force her to change

[Asker]

I also appreciate u taking time to respond thank you!

[dudeinohio]

Time. It just takes time. Also, find someone new.