How do I get this girl out of my head?

[Anonymous]

So I really don't know where to put this because we never went out or anything. Basically I liked this girl for a long time. Ever since the day I met her I really liked her, but she was dating this guy. Then it got complicated and they broke up and she was single for about two months or so and then finally started a relationship with one of my "friends" but I think the guy is a ******bag (this isn't because he's now going out with her it's just how he is). The reason I never did anything was because I was giving her time and I'm a big pussy. But all that aside I need to get her out of my head or else I'm going to go crazy. I keep trying to tell myself that she doesn't matter anymore and that I need to just get over it but every time I see them together all those feelings come back up, remorse, angry about myself, anger about my "friend", and a feeling of loss. I know there are plenty of girls out there but for some dumb and stupid reason I can't get over this one.

[apoxx]

You need to stop feeling these angry and blaming feelings towards yourself and

you friend. ( you're friend especially, just take him right out of the picture ) Alright,

so first of all, ask yourself : Is she worth it? I mean, if you've never gone out with

her, and you're not even sure if she likes you back, what's the point in feeling this

way about her? If you've already thought of that, and its one of those

involuntary things, where you just can't seem to get your head around her, then

the way to go is to think about what you like so much about her ( specifically ).

You need to think about everything you feel for her and realize that all these things

can be found in other girls. Think about it a lot, and when you see her and feel all

those feelings of remorse and anger, remember how she's just another girl, and

how what you find special about her, is something that can probably be found

in a girl who wants to go out with you.

p.s. You aren't a pussy, just because you decided to not ask her out right away.

Thats a very clever thing to do, as most girls are not looking for a relationship/

dating straightaway, but more independence. Guys that are willing to give a

girl some space are a rare and you will be appreciated for it.

Hope this helped :)

[june1216]

well if you think she's worth it, you should tell her how you feel.

if not, eventually she will get out of your head.

[DanteThomas]

Sounds like you are concern and worry about her. Put yourself first. Get her out of your head because you will lose a friend.