How do I get this girl out of my mind?

[Anonymous]

I am into a taken women and it makes me feel butterflies in my stomach but at the same time it drives me crazy and makes me miserable. All other girls just seem uninteresting compared to her. I've never had such a big crush on someone.

[Guy13]

Go to the gym or meetups etc

[Asker]

I already do that

[HelloHell]

Well well, It sounds like you have HUGE crush on her. It happens quite often when you like someone and start feeling like others are not as likeable as they are.

All you can do is,

• 1) Accept the sitaution.
• 2) Realize how their presence makes you miserable
• 3) Try to avoid going to places where you are going to meet them.
• 4) Get a new friend circle.
• 5) Let yourself feel the emotions. Try focus on the fact that She ain't the one.

Its gonna happen in the end. You're going to find true love that would make you actually happy.

Good luck!

[Anonymous]

This strongly suggests you aren't on your life purpose. That's the solution.

[Asker]

Well, I have goals in my life and one of them is finding the right woman. I am not unidimensional.

[Opinion Owner]

When you are truly on your purpose, they start to find you. Men are taught to chase women, but if they were taught to chase life purpose, they wouldn't need to chase women.

[Asker]

What does purpose mean? I don't chase her, she is in a relationship.

[Opinion Owner]

Life purpose is what you were born to do. Sometimes it's something only you can do or a mission. When you're on this it becomes your priority and it will become more important than anything else for the most part.

[Asker]

It's a rare experience to find something only you can do. One should strive to find that niche. But I am more willing to have more fulfilling dimensions in my life, not only one.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes it is, that's why I said 'sometimes'. Life purpose is what you were born to do and it brings fulfillment because you know why you are here, often it allows you to serve others, change the world, transform others lives and more. But not always, it varies from person to person and is certainly a very fulfilling dimension to a persons life regardless of what it is. You will know when you find it.

[Asker]

I hope I will at some point. I'm trying to find it