I have a Crush on My Wife's Friend?

[Westcoastdude101]

I've been married to my lovely wife for 9 years now. Unfortunately over the past 2 years my wife made a new friend who I will not name. Every time she comes over I can't get over how beautiful she is. She's 5'6, athletic and has beach blonde hair. My wife has started to notice and whenever she comes over my wife will make sure she's guiding the conversation and is no longer inviting me on hikes and jogs with her. My wife said it's because I keep glaring at her and it makes her friend uncomfortable.

She recently suggested I have a crush on her friend and that I keep my distance from her since she's married. For the past 2 months I've been having dreams about her. How do I stop these feelings toward her. Oftentimes even when I'm sitting with my wife watching a movie I'll think of her being there. It's making me more and more anxious around my wife.

[Gedaria]

I have a crush on a friend she knows, a is a real tease. This has been going on a couple of years.
We use to have meals together the 4 of of us,.
She use to tease me then but didn't think anything of it.
When the wife died, she was there to help me get over things. But over the years we have got to be really good friends.
No sex, but she kissed me once when she was drunk.

[AshleyTaylorDanny]

Well if your Wife says her friend is uncomfortable then it is what it is there is nothing you can do to change her feelings but keep your distance. Forget about thoughts of anything more happening here and let them have their space.

[Hangry22]

Guys really can't be loyal now can they?

DIVORCE her

[Jmmmfi4]

I'm not sure what the question is here but you're married so keep your dick in your pants. Simple.

[Anonymous]

Maybe your wife will allow you to do some community service with her friend... she can be your pimp.

[SadGirl7777]

Get a divorce and tell her how you feel.

[Westcoastdude101]

That's insane. My wife still has quite a bit going on as a 5'9 brunette. A divorce is very expensive but would be fairly simple as we have no children.