The first time I was in love, it felt like I was invincible because there was this thing carrying me through my life, that I had this love that would endure through anything. And it did for a while. It was almost intoxicating knowing how much I loved her and she loved me. Making love with her was almost too intense. I'm not a religious or spiritual guy, but I would describe sex with that girl as a spiritual experience for me. The intensity of my desire to have her and make her happy and know she feels the same about me was more than anything I'd ever felt before that. Other ways I felt that love in my life include wanting to bring her with me any time I traveled, wanting to plan the future with her, and wanting to surprise her with something nice as often as possible.
After my first love, love was still intense but never like that again. It's more like this warm glowing furnace in the corner of my mind that I know I have there in case I get cold. But I knew it was most likely that we'd break up in a couple years max, and we did. Maybe that was a self-fulfilling prophecy, but the upside of that tradeoff is that the breakup was less painful.
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Every guy is different, so we all experience in our own unique way. For the most guys it would be his first crush that became his first girlfriend, many guys would tell you that has been their best experience of feeling love.
I have been pretty blessed, because I'm still with my first love and still love her very much, the way I know that I'm still in love with her is when I wake up every morning and watch her for like 1 minute next to me sleeping, putting a smile on my face. The pinnacle of our love is when my daughter was born 2 months ago, who just watches me with her big gorgeous eyes, like her mothers and smiles to me, that just completes me to no end.
Writing this answer makes my eyes wet, I'm gonna go cuddle and kiss them both right now, lol.
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How Do Guys Feel When They Like a Girl?
It's hard to say for sure, since every guy is different. But in general, guys tend to feel pretty happy and excited when they like a girl. They might feel nervous or shy around her, but that's usually just because they're worried about making a good impression.
- If a guy really likes a girl, he'll probably start to daydream about her a lot. He'll also go out of his way to make her feel special, and he'll definitely want to spend as much time with her as possible.
- Of course, not all guys are the same, so it's possible that a guy could like a girl but not show it in any of the ways mentioned above. Some guys are just more guarded with their feelings, and it might take them longer to warm up to a girl.
But in general, if a guy likes a girl, he'll definitely be interested in getting to know her better. So if you're wondering whether a guy likes you, just keep an eye out for any of these telltale signs.
How Do Guys Behave When They Like a Girl?
Well, it depends on the guy, but there are definitely some telltale signs that a guy likes a girl:
- For example, he might start paying more attention to his appearance and dressing nicer when he knows she’ll be around.
- He might also try to impress her by talking about his accomplishments or things he knows she’s interested in.
- When it comes to body language, a guy who likes a girl will often try to make himself look bigger and more powerful by standing with his chest puffed out and his shoulders back. He might also inadvertently “mirror” her body language, meaning he’ll adopt the same posture or gestures she’s making. This is a subconscious way of trying to connect with her and make her feel comfortable.
- Another dead giveaway that a guy likes a girl is if he can’t seem to take his eyes off her. He might stare at her longingly or constantly glance in her direction to see what she’s doing. If you catch him doing this, it’s pretty much a guarantee he’s into you.
- Finally, one of the most obvious signs a guy likes a girl is if he goes out of his way to do things for her or to make her happy. He might buy her flowers or gifts, or do favors for her without being asked. If he’s constantly trying to please her and make her life easier, it’s a good indication he’s head over heels for her.
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Of course we do feel it. I felt too those butterflies and the feeling the ceiling would fall on me if I said the wrong word. But me, as a guy, I live my emotions intensely so I come off "too strong". Rather than showing less, I'd rather not show anything at all. I'm just cautious and defensive.
always thinking about her, and less sex thought because when male falls in love he produces less testosterone.
When i was in love i felt pretty much the best and definitely much happier. The effects i get from a girl that loves me is intoxicating like drugs and i always want to be with that girl.
But then again i love girls and that's it.
Wonderful... but the ability decreased during ageing since I am a neurotic...
When you were loved for years and then not it hurts. Ask me how I know.
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