Have you ever felt sick because someone said they loved you?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

It makes my stomach feel sick and I risk throwing up.

[sheikalana]

I've experienced something similar but instead of feeling sick I felt absolutely disgusted. I didn't want to feel that way and I don't know why I felt that.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Actually, yes

[Gwenhwyfar]

Thanks 😊

[AdithyaR]

Once when I finally realised how much a toxic person one of my friends was.
It took me a long time to realize how toxic she was.
She and I had a small argument and even though we sorted it out, it was when I first noticed it and distanced myself a bit from her. Soon I hear from our mutual friend who's her bestie that they had a big fight and are not on talking terms. As I was talking to another friend who was also on the receiving end of the toxic girls toxicity, I get a message from toxic girl. A really long message about how I'm always there for her, I'm the only person who understands her blah blah blah and that she loves me for it. It made me sick to the stomach that all these days I was not initiating contact and she couldn't care less and suddenly when she didn't have her best friend to talk to anymore, she's acting all friendly and loving with me for sympathy. I simply thanked her for the message. She immediately got angry that I didn't say I love you back to her and I said I can't just say those words without meaning and I'm not in a mindset to say it. She immediately does a 360 and says she's sorry she said those things and she thought I cared. Haven't talked to her since and I feel so much more happier and liberated.

[just_a_potato]

Yes but not for the reason you'd think. I felt like this person's was now suddenly weighing on my shoulders, and I had to be careful not to step the wrong way. Being loved by someone alone is overwhelmingly scary, also loving that person makes it feel like a horror movie.

[guesswhoseback]

I said this once at a inappropriate moment back when I was 22. I remember the utter disgust in her face and she said “I can’t believe this shit”. She had a boyfriend and I should of never said that.

But since then I’ve never said something that stupid again. In fact I never said “I love you” first That’s more of the woman’s area anyway.

[anmari2001]

It mademe sick when somwbody told you they love you but they dont show it, they run away when it gets hard and then you learn how much you meant to them
It is all words, just dont say

[Anonymous]

Not really, it can make me uncomfortable and not know how to respond. The only time it's made me feel close to sick, is when I was on a call with a guy I'd been online dating for a week and he said he loved me, I was going to hang up because it was utterly ridiculous but I think he had a mental illness factoring into it, so I let him down gently.

[JSmuve]

Nope. But I'd probably feel super uncomfortable and wonder why, then feel bad because I don't feel the same because I'm incapable of feeling love for someone

[Imcmullan]

Why do u say that you're incapable?

[JSmuve]

@Imcmullan I just haven't met someone that inspires those feelings long term. They have to look and behave a certain way and the women I've met either aren't attractive enough or their personality isn't one that encourages me to love them. I just look at them and feel nothing.

[Imcmullan]

Its normal not to be in love with someone who u aren't attracted to personality or looks wise... but at your age, I'd assume you have experienced love at least once in your life. Im a hopeless romantic and have been in love with s/o's many times lol. I love love... its beautiful feeling. I have found that the ones that have been really hot (even out of my league) have been the toughest to deal with. Im currently married and my spouse is super hot... but had none of the other qualities that I typically go for... however, I've never been made to feel this special by anyone like I do now. My point is, perhaps u should change what u look for... maybe its what u perceive as your perfect person thats prohibiting you from finding your true love. I think we are biologically made up to want, give, and need love. So, to say you're incapable maybe actually stretch unless you're telling me you're a sociopath lol.. n that's a whole other interesting topic😬

[JSmuve]

@Imcmullan you'd be assuming wrong. I've experienced infatuation when I was young and immature, but that only led to me being hurt. I haven't experienced love. I've used my past experiences to determine what I'm looking for in a woman and what I don't want, so changing it would be settling for someone I don't really want and I wouldn't love her. She'd just be a daily reminder that I gave up and settled.

[A_Bell]

Yes. But mom and I eventually worked out our differences.

I kid!

[InferiorElegy]

Oh yea all the time, oh wait I read that wrong, I thought it said the opposite and I pretty sure I've made girls sick to their stomachs just by saying I like them, imagine if I used the word love and they threw up all over me, good thing I do use that word.

[InferiorElegy]

Don't*

[EyebrowChewie]

No i didn't :S i dont get why someone would feel sick.
2 girls have been in love with me and one told me directly the other i could just tell.
I didn't feel anything, just was empty inside.

[TruthBringer]

Yes, after much hurt during my first relationship, she still had the nerve to say that. Her actions often contradicted her words. Thankfully, this hasn't reoccured again.

[Imcmullan]

Some people just don't know HOW to love other people properly

[TruthBringer]

@Imcmullan Very well said. It's often those who don't love themselves. They don't know how to return the love or how to properly receive the love they are getting.

[frenchfriesnoketchup]

Kinda happened to me once when a guy I absolutely found disgusting because of his behaviour told me that he liked me i still feel sick when i think about that

[TOTEMPLASTER]

Uh... NO!
I am mentally stable and am not upset by words, even if totally accurate and true.

[VanityFair888]

Not really, but I cringe when someone calls me beautiful, my love, baby and stuff like this.

[Dragonpurple]

No, very few girls have actually said they loved me.

[pleasestopthis]

No one I didn't love me told me they loved me thankfully, but I did felt sick when they asked for a date

[wkozak]

yes, but i didn't tell the truth because i didn't want to be rude to them.

[psychoticanimaIIover]

WHO LOVES YOU?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

The wrong people

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

And have you ever felt sick?

[psychoticanimaIIover]

One only time when I ate too many jelly beans.

[Anonymous]

My mom and my then step dad. She never treated me as anything other than a nuisance and his relationship with me was the wrong kind of love.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I felt sick to my stomach.

[DizzyDesii]

Only when i dont love em back