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Boyfriend dumped me for trying to slap him, is this fair? (Page 2)
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I would have dumped you for all that, too.
No tolerance for violence. The world is mad enough. One's home sphere should be a refuge from the madness of the world.
No one in the first place wants to be hit. Why should it be acceptable for you to do so? Hell relationship is a partnership. Of he has to censor his private conversations with his friends. That in itself is a problem. You sound like the type who dated someone who cheated a lot. You seriously need to work on your issues before they become permanent habits.
simp
Learn the meaning of the word. Chump
He was right to dump you for trying to slap you. Can you imagine what the post would sound like if it was a guy that almost slaps his girlfriend for the same reason.
Firstly snooping and secondly slapping him when he called you out and stood up for his right to privacy?
He did the right thing dumping you. Good call on his side. Learn to be a better human bring if you want another relationship.
Yeah agreed.
So you were violating his privacy, and when he rightfully got upset you tried to hit him? Yeah, I'm really glad he left, good for him. It sounds like he values himself enough to know he deserves better
You don't need such a fragile man who dont admit his mistakes and is being a pussy when you try to teach him a lesson. He's as good as a poop. Leave him.
Plus he should be OPEN AND TRANSPARENT if he is in a relationship with you. If he's not then he's just USING you.
I agree that there should be no privacy issues because partners SHOULD BE OPEN to each other. There should be nothing to hide.
Yeah he dodged a bullet, you're entitled and also completely oblivious.
simp
@SngBirdy
You're the simp.
this relationship was crappy anyway with you and him arguing him and him pushing your buttons and pulling out a cynical smile. He is also wrong. He made his decision and told you to leave. Dont go back to this idiot, he doesn't know how to deal with things maturely, he should know girls react emotionally and he made it worse. Find someone who won't push your buttons.
And do believe that he's been cheating on you, speak to his friends.
reply to your update: he's been cheating on you tho you're just in denial
100 % fair, why would you want to slap him for such a small argument? You're being toxic here. If you slap him for such a small things then how would you act if they were a bigger argument, would you punch him?
So first you snoop into his guys conversations and then you try to hit him... you say you "didn't him anyways", but it's just because he didn't let you. If he was the one trying to hit you you'd probably have done the same.
Yes, his decision seems justified. The only reason the slap didn't happen is because he caught your wrist, not because you stopped yourself. Have you ever hit a guy before?
Yes.
Presumably, if heâd tried to slap you, you would have dumped him too, yes?
Neither of you sound very nice. You should work on yourself. And donât slap people.
Ur abusive lol mentally and physically the fact u gotta ask this on GAG damn..
Yes. Violent people should be caged with other animals.
A girl trying to give her boyfriend a petty bitchslap is not her being violent.
Well you intended to hit him , even if it didn't land it's still abuse so I think he is in the right
Exactly! The only reason she didn't hit him was because he defended himself, the intent was still there which is the same IMHO.
@admles emotional abuse is also disgusting, he tipped her over the edge.
@EyebrowChewie nah he didn't do anything wrong , she was invading his privacy which caused the outburst , he just gave back abit of attitude which was justified
a cynical smile though? Thats not giving a bit back. He is dangerous to be around if he pushes others buttons purposefully, a psycho perhaps.
@EyebrowChewie maybe he'll roll his eyes like a serial killer , clearly a crap relationship
Just end everything
didn't it even cross anyones mind that he's cheating on her, he mentioned privacy of him and his friends? Rings an unpleasant bell as I purposefully got to know a cheat and they told me how they cover their tracks. For this girl to even get to this point means he gave her feelings that she can't trust him. I agree she should end it completely. He's pulled a fast one on her.
@EyebrowChewie where does it say he's cheating , there's as much evidence to say she's cheating or none of them are cheating
You're only going off what she said, her instincts believed he's up to no good. That's evidence
@EyebrowChewie that's not evidence , hard physical evidence
I had a dream my girlfriend cheated on me , doesn't make it evidence
Well that's just it then, this is why so many people on here are ignorant of the bigger picture.
@EyebrowChewie and some just blame men immediately instead of looking at both sides
Some? look at the majority comments! They defend him and because of the intent to slap, I agree she shouldn't have. But only me is defending her for the bigger picture, he's a cheat. You can cheat by flirting or giving affection to a friend online. This is what he is protecting. It's not easy to find evidence, she's young. Behaviour tho is not easy to hide. Spending a lot of time online suddenly. He broke up quick, he cynically laughed at her with an immature comment. He had no intention of working on it because he knew what he was doing and why she looked.
This girl is smart, he will try to find a dumb clueless girl so he can live out his life cheating and have one at home.
@EyebrowChewie bullshit! She could just leave but she chose to get physical. If he'd try that lame fucking excuse the cops would just laugh as they cuffed him and charged him with assault.
Equal rights? Bring the assault charge. If a guy does that he deserves to be charged. Why shouldn't a woman be charged as well?
@EyebrowChewie and evidence. There's no evidence that he's a cheat but look at your big brain. You figured it out all by yourself by reading between the lines. STFU... or if you have such awesome investigative skills then go be a private investigator and solve all your cases by reading texts from the comfort of your office.
@Andres77 so you've admitted your past experiences cloud your judgement đ
He's right, you're not
You're in the wrong, you didn't respect his privacy even tho he asked you to, and on top of that you tried to hit him.
Not only it's fair, but it was the right thing to do. And if he's not too dumb, he won't come back.
Glad you understood what you did wrong.
Being a girl doesn't give you the right to go around his stuff or to hit him.
Best of luck to you and him.
Very fair. It's a sign you lack self-control over your emotions, and you'll resort to violence to control him.
You can let him move on to something better, obviously your not ok with boundaries but I bet if he over stepped your boundaries you'd be fucking pissed off so, you should just let him move on.