I think you may have to listen to your friend on this one. It's better not to. Number one, there's a lot of red flags concerning him. Those red flags stems from not only not having a close relationship with you in public but he only develops that online. Which I bet you have nothing to do with the pandemic. Number two, he has all these girls that he's involved with but it sounds like he also doesn't have much of boundaries either. If you get involved with a person like that you may end up getting seriously hurt. And I can guarantee you that you may not be the only girl that confessed to him. Number for, if he's not spending enough time getting to know you for you, it may not be appropriate. I think personally for you at 15 you are too young, and ask somebody else had said you definitely need to at least wait until you are 17 or 18 years old. The reason being is because you need to make sure that you want to love this individual and you got to understand why you want to be involved with this person. Don't confess something that you are not prepared to not only be rejected for, but something you can't be responsible for if you end up in a relationship with him and it turns out to be the worst decision you ever made. You are way too young to be making those kind of mistakes. And it's best to avoid them. That's my personal advice to you.
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I don’t understand how can you ruin a friendship by confessing your feelings?
it can go two ways:
1. He doesn’t like you back, and tells you that but continues the friendship as nothing changed
2. He likes you back and you becomes lovers
what do you thinks gonna happen? He’s gonna delete you from everything if he finds out you like him?
you think he’s gonna be Mad at you n no longer wanna be friends?
i don’t understand people who say this
Don't "confess". Just invite him to do something with you and see how he responds. If that's even possible with Covid-19 restrictions. Maybe you could just video-conference over something like an assignment.
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He's your best friend for good reason, kiddo. Don't make it all awkward.
You could ask him where he sees your relationship going? Does he think you will always be friends, or does he ever think it could be more serious? If he says he sees you as more than a friend, you could then tell him how you feel.
You have to decide if the risk of losing him as a friend is worth it
Once you go this route your relationship will never be the same
Flirting is figuring out without being explicit, so the approach is less risky.
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You’re way too young it’s puppy love focus on school
Go for it. Don't waste another day.
Confess, you will feel better.
At least it's not Iron Man that boy take steroids
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