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Why is it no matter how much love you give a man, they will still leave you? (Page 2)
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No matter how bad it gets u can get through it take a fiver moment to collect ur thoughts and don't run away from opportunity and resolution cause being alone will kill u
Let's hear his customer review of the dating relationship. I'm sure there's good insight there.
When guys leave it's pretty evident as to why. What you're really asking is why does he give that reason more weight than what you provided in a relationship.
To that we have to ask him or at a minimum have you get very real with yourself on what you provide in a relationship and what he actually cares about. Then line up one for one if you're providing what he wants vs just providing stuff he really doesn't care.
Because I gotta say. Guys don't give af about you being independent or having higher goals. You care about that. Guys respect it. But guys don't care the way girls do.
So listing that as a reason he should stay is irrelevant. Because no guy wants or cares about that in a partner
Says a guy that compares love and relationships to customer service!
Humor helps soften harsh truths. Considering your response i would say i have the answer. You're probably hard to be with and you're making yourself the victim rather than confronting where you're wrong.
Common
Sorry. You're right. I shouldn't have been sarcastic. I respect your opinion.
That's big of you. Apology accepted. Thank you
This applies to both gender male and female..
Female are also like that..
Ofcourse they are females who do that to. Just the number isn't equal. Just check the rate of abuse, cheats ,... you can judge for yourself
Nobody knows the actual rate.
There are many unregistered case..
That's why it applies to both gender..
Because both gender have some idiots with toxic mentality..
I think google knows the rate. Put a little search to that. Just saying
ask women. they are the masters of this. No matter how much you do for them they always see it as needy and weak.
If someone is putting an effort I see it as a interest. The problem is these men stopped loving just when I started to love them
I think this is related to a subculture of modern feminism.
@lonelyfortune haha! Still women fault!
Modern feminism isn't the fault of women. It's a subculture that affects different circles of society and is propagated by men as well. Have a look at modern gaming and movie industry and how they force more and more diversity, feminism, and gay content into their productions. Far beyond anything of representative ratio.
Not every Guy is like that, But the majority of Guys you might be attracted to like Confident Guys are so your better off going for someone different.
because if you love that dont matter, what matter is is the guy has to love you. yo ucan love all u want but if guy dont love you than quit even trying
Then why they act so in love. Say they are in love. And when they just think they have you they want to go?
Women can be like this too tbh. I think they fall in love with their image of you, so once they meet the real you, they become uninterested.
It happens, you'd rather him fake it and stay with you until he cheats?
Aw but they do fake love! They fake love until your open and then they break your heart
by the way my ex partner cheated on me when he was saying he was very in love with me!
Well he's just a trash can mf. It's not a gender thing tho, girls are guilty of this as well.
Same question i can ask the girls.
No mather how much love you give them, they will still leave you.
He never loved you that much back. It’s cool, just go get a guy who will appreciate you forever, till death do us part.
Why would a man not love you much back when you give them all? Why would they act so in love in the first place for you to open up your heart and then leave you when you love them?
Because we can be arsewholes. Some guys just get off on the thrill of the chase, once the hunt is over and the prey has been played with for a little, they get bored and go hunt something else. Woman can be similar, they do it to guys too.
Your choice of men must be terrible for that to be true.
It might be. I also tried choosing one that it wasn't my type. Gave it time. I actually fell in love with him more. He stopped putting an effort slowly. Got distant.
You know, it's like when they know they have you it's like it's done for them
Do they do those same things? If not, they never loved you. They loved your company.
Simple - these guys are not the long term relationship type. It is hard to detect them. But so are some women too.
2 reasons 1. You're fighting outside your class. 2. In your mind your all these great things you say you are but in reality your cons significantly outweigh your pros.
Practically you just said I'm not good enough. Thank you but no.
Or he's decided you're not good enough.
I was just going off of what you posted. You build yourself up in this post as though you work relentlessly at relationships. Well the truth is quality guys don't just up and get bored with women and leave. Which means you chose badly and never had a quality guy. Or you have a false perception of what a quality guy needs. And is expected from a woman.
I'm not saying you're not good enough. I'm saying i've heard this story from many woman repeatedly have the same problem. At some point you have to accept hmm. Maybe the problem ISN'T him.
Love doesn't identify a relationship. Something else has to.
Yes but surely important part of it
Its them not you. Sounds like what you give in a relationship is good don't stop. Some relationships last longer than others.
Partially me though.
This happens to men to, the common denominator is that both are trying to please partners that are better than them lol
Stereotyping. Not all men do this. Neither men nor women should indulge in such acts.
Its generally. And also not all men. Rare number of men are good men. 🙂
The same is true for women too. You won't find too many benevolent people today
True
Hope you do find such a man
choose Better men, we are all different, you are choosing "Losers"
Just feel like I don't have any love left in me after all of these. Been in couple of relationships. They all ended up breaking my heart with abuse or acting cold or aloof. Or I can stay in a relationship just like many other girls when they get abused
where do you meet these "men"? try a different place to meet men
Funny I ask the same thing about women. Hell women are some of the only people I hear actually condone the act of cheating because it "saves there marriage" or some crap like that. Get off your high horse women are really no better in this regard.
Thank you. Thank you.
Even when it comes to abuse. Girls or women find a way to justify themselves being the abuser.
@iGodric its because they have been out on a pedestal. I'm all for treating women with respect but they gotta be respectable.
Guys get married, so what you're saying is just wrong.
Hey not all men are like this. Rare number of them are good men.
Yes but so many faults in marriage too. How about those guys who a women give them family, kids, and they simply leave because they fall out of love?
Still minority
Im a man and I'm not that way if u find a man that loves u for who u are and not how u look and how u r in the bed. That is the kind of man that will be with you for ever
Because the things you said are attractive for short term relationships and not long term ones.
What is attractive for long term?
@Incredible22 "No matter how good you look, how much you take care of yourself" if you over do makeup and buy expensive clothes and stuff you will be too high maintenance for serious relationship.
"even be good in bed.." if you sleep around, it sucks but men do not get serious with women they think are sluts. Personally i dump every girl who slept with more than 3 guys, period. Lots of men have their own specific rules about this.
"No matter how much you're independent woman" not attractive for a wife but very attractive for casual encounters. Means i dont have to do anything for her or pay for anything. Free booty.
"No matter how much you care for them, even cook for them, make them happy with little things" this stuff is good. More of this.
Well well well so this happens the other way around. Good.
This might be mean but I have zero sympathy or empathy when this happens to a girl because we all know how y'all move especially when money comes into play.
Stay alone. You should never be happy when good people are mistreated.
I hope you're dark heart heal someday 🙏
😂 My heart is perfectly fine no healing required. Good people? You assume the girl telling this tale was good? Or better yet perfect?
Playing the easy victim card you think she has not done this to someone else in her past?
Nope I assume nothing. You’re the one who assumed. Good luck with that.
You're probably chasing hypermasculine studs who don't have to commit to you because they can attract a bunch of women who will spread their legs for them.
Why do women always play the victim? Do research on divorce rates. Nearly 80% of divorces are filed by women.
I know right!
A lot of men are abusive. A lot of women are too. Your lack of empathy for people even though you have no idea if they fit your mold. You’re ugly. I think due to over spoiling and social media, men have become inadequate. Not all because sometimes good guys get left. However, the majority fit this mold.
Lmao shut up simp
How is admitting both genders are abusive being a simp? How about this- don’t use words you don’t understand. Telling the truth is not simping, it’s being honest ass clown.
You’re a simp for white Knighting the women’s perspective while willfully ignoring actual statistics that dispute the OP’s claim
Have you also searched why women divorce? Have you look at the number of physical and emotional abuse and cheats? Women don't usually leave relationship because they are bored. They usually leave because their partner stop putting any effort. Those men has checked out of the relationship waaaaay before divorce.
If that's the way they treat you then it's your fault for picking Lousy Guys. There should be reciprocity in a relationship.
Stop chasing fuck boys and Giga-chads.
You found a guy who doesn't care for you.
Not just one guy. Also I see experiences of my friends and people around me. I can see just a rare number that a man would stay committed
Oprah once said a quote https://images.app.goo.gl/o1SLv2bsDNA143Uc8
If you look fir men who do stay there are a lot too.
True
People fall out of love and lust.
Yes. So easily. As if you were nothing.
Almost 4billion pussies out there, we want to try as mant as we can.
Women do it too
Lmao
Men do it more
It seems to be true 💔😔
That is very much not true.
True to my experience and many people around me.
I am married. The pic that I have on is from my wedding. I have zero intentions of leaving my wife. No matter what. I mean if she cheats or something like that we are done, but you get what I mean. It was until death separates us after all.
And yes I already had chances to cheat on her. Didn't do it.
Well good men like you are rare.
You have poor taste in men?
Thats not true dont generalize
You're picking the wrong men.
Stop it, just stop it. You're making too much sense. Lol
@SlightlyEccentric Lol
Decent men hard to find
@Asker I agree with you there. Decent women are hard to find as well.
Some guys, and girls, are just never satisfied.
You dont need a partner to be happy
True. I'm working on that.
Do u ever hookup?
No I don't. Personally don't like to do it.
lol I could ask the same thing concerning women.
Women do it just as much.
You can say the same about women
Yes but we can see that more in men than women
That's just nature of life. We humans get bored.
Because You choose bad men
Same goes to any genders.
Yeah when you are clingy and he is a player
On second thought, most of the men are unable to have stable relationship. They will cheat on you no matter how caring you are. They just use any chance to fuck anyone usually bad girls. You shouldn’t rely on men. They are phoney
Okay
Wow! You're so cool!!!
I was born cool
One word: fuckboys
simple you need to give better blowjobs
Give good head and you’ll forever be in his head
@TikiTook many women say that. They say its the secret to making a man love you
Not true