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If the man is the sole provider, he would be better living alone. Is she is daughter? Handicapped? Why can't she make money? What a meaningful life she has. Stay home, eat and sleep like a parasite.
Why live with a women that don't help financially, when he can live alone, save more money, no arguing.
And he can have a different women everyday if he wants.
He doesn't want her working maybe
Yes but why? What does she bring to the table if she’s not working? Let’s be honest now keeping a1 bedroom apartment like mine clean and cooking foods not exactly equal to me working 12 hours a day 6 days a week hard work.
@VanillaSalt she runs his life basically does everything for him
Then I suppose you expect the man to do it? So if your expectations are mandatory why are his optional?
Wrong post to reply too. She runs his life? See should support him for the sacrifices he makes so she don’t have to. If she wants to it should never be at the cost of her primary job. Supporting the family. Supporting her home. Most important supporting her husband. Because a real man will die for you and if you can’t appreciate that then you definitely do not deserve a real man.
@VanillaSalt calm down man😂
There is nothing wrong with that, if both people are in agreement about it. Whether they understand that the man can make enough money to support the family, or maybe the woman as always dreamed of being the stay-at-home mom/wife.
Call me old fashioned, but nothing at all. Nothing wrong with both providing, or even the woman, if that arrangement suits them, But it seems most natural for the man to provide.
Here the guy would have to earn say about 50000£ per year, which I'm guessing would be a 97 percentile income here. In other words, it would not be viable for 19 in 20 men here (if my maths is correct).
I was raised in a family like that. I think it was nice, my mother had a lot of time for me, though she was by no means subservient to my Dad.
I don't mind being the soul provider, but the sole provider maybe not so much.
I know I know
It's not wrong, at least if both are in on it.
I would like to keep working. I'm already a person who likes to stay home. Working is one of the few excuses I have to leave the house. I'd feel lazy, I'd want to keep busy
I feel the same way as you lol.
Nothing. Guys can be nurturing and run a household. My wife stayed home for 12 years while my kids were little. We would not put them in daycare.
Nothing at all, I would honestly just rather be a stay at home mom like the olden days, but I’m actually going into accounting for myself. Haven’t met the one yet but am willing to wait!
It's not wrong if he's okay with it. It's wrong if the women just expects to be able 2 freeload off his money
I agree
Well, I'm not trying to sound like an asshole but feminism and time did it. Everyone wants to be considered equal.. dont get me wrong tho, I am the provider for my family, but now at days everything is halfass backwards, and people identify as toasters, so I stopped asking questions I'm terrified of knowing the answers too lol
What’s wrong with the woman keeping the house clean, making dinner, and greeting me when I come home with the occasional foot or back rub?
Nothing
Nothing at all as long as it's a mutual understanding between the couple.
Nothing at all. On that same token women that choose to have the man be the only bread winner, if divorce happens end up winning permanent alimony.. Which is essentially theft.
My husband knows the hard work I’ve put into our relationship and my career. If divorce happened, he’d *want* me alimony.
I meant he’d want me to have his money.
@MzAsh good husband
I'm OK with temporary spousal support, but no one is entitled to permanent alimony... No one.
I had temporary support and I thought that was totally fair. Alimony I see maybe if several kids in one home primarily but not in general
In her case I get it
I could see support of one spouse is not working and one is.. But if both are, neither are entitled.
Now in the case of my wife I woul happily pay it for a Short time.. Not permanent.. She has a degree which I paid for and she could be a teacher tomorrow if she wanted.. We made sure she could have what she needed just incase something happened to me.
Mine was similar very actually
I can imagine.
Both where fine with it. Just till she got on her feet.
I'm the sole provider. I'm not sure I'd recommend it to families starting out. There are advantages and disadvantages.
Can you share the disadvantages with us?
Nothing as long as she is traditional as well. The issue is when she wants to be non traditional while demanding he be traditional.
As long as both are fine with it, nothing. I would want my wife to do something though. Especially when there's no kids.
Nothing. It's just not possible for like 93% of men around the world to take care of a whole family unit.
One is then dependent on another person. If there are children involved, then an adult is necessary to manage the child. Someone has to stay home.
Nothing if both people agree. Something if it’s forced.
Really slows down the income. Teamwork makes the dream work.
No real reason to sit at home, can also have kids a bit later. Pay off debt faster, invest and enjoy life.
It's just as "right" as a woman being the sole provider.
The soul provider, or the sole provider?
There is a difference.
Opps thank you
Nothing. I'd be morecomfortable with that than the other way round.
In today's economy, typically, in the middle class, both partners need to work to get by
. Just how things are.
if mothers stayed home and raised their children things would be a lot better. Obviously this depends on dad hanging around for the long term and both parents being intelligent financial planners
Not a darn thing! As olderandwiser said, we DO need to get back to traditional family structures.
No, we need couples contributing in whichever way they’re most fulfilled. If I stay home, I’m working from home, but that also means I need 8 hours of uninterrupted time in my home office.
@MzAsh A traditional family structure does not preclude a mother from working. Prov 31- In fact, the chapter holds "multi-faceted" women on a high pedestal.
Ok then what were you referring to when you said we need to get back to traditional family structures?
@MzAsh Nothing is inherently "wrong" about the man being a sole provider. There is also nothing wrong with mom pitching in by earning money as well in a traditional family, ie husband, wife, kids. A strong woman/good, discerning wife is exemplified in Prov 31.
Nothing wrong, in contrary, that's the right thing to do if he's capable...
I agree with you fully
Thank you owlee birdee 🦉
Nothing wrong with it if that's what both the partners want.
I mean if you're ok with your wife and kids looking at you as nothing more then a glorified ATM have at it.
What's wrong with the woman having a dozen kids and doing all the chores?
Nothing but its gonna be expensive for one person to be bringing in all the money alone.
As long as she keeps that ass in check... nothing
He should provide I would provide services
For sure
Boom happiness
I like women with ambition. Get a fucking job.
Get a better one
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My chicks make money so I can save the world in call of duty.
That's what's up
@OddBeMe that was funny shit
Nothing. Its the ideal scenario.
Works for a small certain type of men sadly.
Nothing is wrong with it I love it
I do too
Nothing. I wish the days when men acted like men and women acted like women.
Nothing, if that's what both want.
Whatever works for the family involved.
Are you a graphic designer?
No I wish
There's nothing wrong with it.
*sole. But yeah nothing is wrong with it.
what do you think?
@gagsucksballs1 I'm traditionalistic and support women being home if they want to be.
you're also a trump supporter im assuming
that retard
Not at all can't stand him
@gagsucksballs1 you can be a republican but not support a idiot
Nothing as long as he's fine with doing it
I have no idea.
I love ninjas and flowers ❤️
Wow girl 💋
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When he dies. No provider.
Life insurance
@blondie1234567 his will
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If you are spending more money than is being earned it will run out.
@MysteriousDarkness agree
The dependence it creates.
Only thus wrong is its not in fashion nowadays 😂
There’s nothing wrong with it at all
Nothing at all!
The lack of acknowledgement
Not everyone can afford to live off one income
Nothing at all.
Nothing at all.
Nothing
I don't think women are that pathetic
Not a damn thing
Nothing
Nothing.
you could get sick