Actually I kind of ghost my friends too sometimes like if I'm really busy at work. I tend to go off the grid. We kind of ghost each other here and there with stressful times or big changes in life. But no big deal in our case.
Well, is there a difference between ghosting and just being unresponsive for like 6 months? All the cases I'm thinking about were just like that. Like "whoops, my bad, I got all caught up in this new thing and forgot to reply for 6 months."
And usually accompanied by some big lifestyle change like a new job, or a marriage, or having kids, something like that.
What’s with the different accounts?
@FictionalCharacter I'm trying to quit drinking lately. I only used the DrunkAss one when I was drunk, and so I canceled it since I'm trying to quit and also want one I can use when I'm sober. With the DrunAss one, it's like I had a notoriety for being so blunt and rude and crude to keep up that I felt the need to drink a lot each time before I used it, and I was getting tired of that. So I deleted it.
@FictionalCharacter I'm also not really that interested in making friends on here. I've found some nice people but I don't really care for online friends over my real ones.
@FictionalCharacter With the AK667 when I was an influencer and editor, I was just getting too addicted to the site! I was neglecting my work putting too much time into it. So I deleted that account just to focus on my work and other things since I realized the site was turning into an unhealthy addiction. That's the only one I regret deleting though since being able to edit MyTakes as an editor was so handy. I actually wrote super serious MyTakes back then which I poured hours into because the edit feature made me want to improve and improve and improve them. Ever since I deleted the account, all I do is stupid/silly/drunk MyTakes.
I know. I also never found you as rude, only bluntly. You don’t have to worry about being my friend I was just curious with the different accounts is all.
@FictionalCharacter My bad! I'll try to take this account seriously enough to keep it.
@FictionalCharacter I also do think of nice people like you on here as a friend in a way. I don't know how to explain it but I'm an extrovert and I grew up throughout my teens without the internet or even mobile phones being that popular and it took more years for social media like MySpace and Facebook and whatnot to become popular. So I am not so used to the idea of deep friendships over virtual spaces.
Me as a friend? Lol 😅 We never followed each other. But I have seen you around for a couple of years.
@FictionalCharacter We can follow now! I was using the previous one while drunk every time so I must admit that I forgot half the things I said or encountered at the time. I'm gonna try to behave with this new one reasonably well, just like I did when I started this site before I started getting super drunk sometimes while using it.
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😂 all good
lol, sounds like you’re the one who’s done it.
Yes always, unless it's official and a serious relationship. And others do the same to me, I'm pretty sure. That's my view of things and don't mind people ghosting at all
so true i got ghosted its fucked up as hell
I got ghosted, and when I gave him a second chance, he did it again..
Lol, how did you do that?
Patience and acting quickly when she gave an opening. She tended to second guess and get scared because she was new to bdsm snd still feeling embarrassed about liking it so much
I think its easier to do that with girls.
Probably, that was a game of teasing and pouncing when she worked up the nerve. With guys it’s more about getting them too wound up to think straight snd inviting them over lol
How to do that? Get them wound up?
Guys are pretty visual so pictures with a tiny bit of scenario usually does the trick
Oh I know that, the thing is he’ll get the wrong idea, won't take her seriously from the start, he’ll just see her as easy and then she’ll have to redeem herself and try yo get him to see she wants a relationship, screw that lol
That’s fair, I’m usually trying to pin down flaky new play partners for bdsm so the context is a bit different. Usually they just get in their heads and overthink/get shy so getting all the blood in their genitals tends to fix the problem :p
Why did you do it and would you ever consider anything serious with her?
I'm a few years older and i felt weird about going further... even though all i got was a maybe... i think age diff works only is its pretty great chemistry and personality.. plus.. being vulnerable is not easy for me.. she has a boyfriend now so i guess its ok
Has being vulnerable always been an issue for you? Reason why Im asking is because as soon as this one guy started opening up to me a little, he completely ghosted for no reason.
Definitely. Girls usually make the first move and it's usually a great match.. then i get in the way
^^^ make sure there Plan B is laying around