Because you’re trying. It’s like when people try to kill a spider. Instead of keeping calm while trying to kill it, they either run away or let it get away. Is that a good comparison? Does it even make sense? I couldn’t think of anything else
relationships take time and energy, they also need good vibes. So work on your vibes. If men/women aren't attracted to you the way you are to them than more than likely its a you problem
Compatibility is difficult to find, as is the determination to make a relationship work through adversity. So is selflessness.
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People often choose someone who is fun to date; but isn't the best choice for marriage. You might enjoy it for awhile; but eventually their drama catches up with you and ruins the relationship. Boring = Happy. If I need drama I go to my entertainment not my SO.
I am going to be honest, people don't even learn to love themselves. How can anyone even expect them to love others?
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It's not. It's difficult to find the kind of love that you preconceive of, and hold in your mind as the ideal or perfect kind of love. Love is not hard. But it's too often rejected because it's not the one that we hold in our minds.
Yes I know thus why I’m skeptical about dating now. I rather get to know a new person than invest in someone and don’t know where things are going. I’ve wasted too much time on people who didn’t want anything, but sex. I figure if we’re not dating or married than we shouldn’t expect anything from each other.
cause love is confused a lot with other feelings and finding real love isn't as easy as people think it is, which makes it harder for the people that know what love is, to find real love
Because it's 2021. We love modern sexuality how we evolved from single point of view of love. 2 guys and a girl can love one another. 2 girls and a guy can love one another. 2 lesbians or 2 gay guys. Etc. So world has become so vast.
I was taught, you never go looking for it. It finds you. But you can't just sit on your ass. You have to put your feelers out there. And let people know you are single. Also, make sure you are happy with yourself. That's how it usually happens.
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Because love is a two way street and the world is much more complex now
L - life, and what is life without love?
O - "oh wow"
V - very surprising turn of events
E - (how) extremely normal I find it
https://youtu. be/wHV70zK_a-k
*cries*
"It must be the pressure of entertaining"
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sad..
Most of the time it's because you're not looking in the right place and not going for the right people
Because you’re trying. It’s like when people try to kill a spider. Instead of keeping calm while trying to kill it, they either run away or let it get away. Is that a good comparison? Does it even make sense? I couldn’t think of anything else
relationships take time and energy, they also need good vibes. So work on your vibes. If men/women aren't attracted to you the way you are to them than more than likely its a you problem
Compatibility is difficult to find, as is the determination to make a relationship work through adversity. So is selflessness.
People often choose someone who is fun to date; but isn't the best choice for marriage. You might enjoy it for awhile; but eventually their drama catches up with you and ruins the relationship. Boring = Happy. If I need drama I go to my entertainment not my SO.
Be more lovable then, kiddo.
You're expecting too much of others, while giving so little of yourself.
Right on!
Because "love" has lost its value thanks to people who use it as a tool.
I am going to be honest, people don't even learn to love themselves.
How can anyone even expect them to love others?
It's not. It's difficult to find the kind of love that you preconceive of, and hold in your mind as the ideal or perfect kind of love.
Love is not hard. But it's too often rejected because it's not the one that we hold in our minds.
Definitely the times were in and how society views love. It’s extremely difficult finding someone for a committed relationship nowadays
thats because people dont want to commit to people, they instead commit to what they can GET from people.
Yes I know thus why I’m skeptical about dating now. I rather get to know a new person than invest in someone and don’t know where things are going. I’ve wasted too much time on people who didn’t want anything, but sex. I figure if we’re not dating or married than we shouldn’t expect anything from each other.
I haven’t dated in 6 years now.. I have too much going on in my life to even date now. I focus on myself and meet new people
Because people are searching in the wrong places, aka online.
Real love can only happen when you trust someone, and that can only happen after knowing them for a while outside dating.
Because people are complex and finding someone that matches and complements all of you is pretty tough.
But man it hits the spot when you find your person (s).
cause love is confused a lot with other feelings and finding real love isn't as easy as people think it is, which makes it harder for the people that know what love is, to find real love
It's not. Everyone is looking and so you could say the potential for love is in everyone you meet.
You MAKE it difficult because you have standards and expectations, dealbreakers as well as certain things that interests you.
Because it's 2021. We love modern sexuality how we evolved from single point of view of love. 2 guys and a girl can love one another. 2 girls and a guy can love one another. 2 lesbians or 2 gay guys. Etc. So world has become so vast.
I was taught, you never go looking for it. It finds you. But you can't just sit on your ass. You have to put your feelers out there. And let people know you are single. Also, make sure you are happy with yourself. That's how it usually happens.
Because love is the opposite of selfishness and 78% of people are extremely selfish
Its not... now in love with a compatible partner that’s difficult