The more self-confident a person is the less they "care" - or more accurately are not bothered by - about others' shallow (looks, etc.) options with respect to themselves.
And as such shallow things mean little to nothing to a confident person.
I, as an example, am very self-confident. And like the "cool kid" Turbo mentioned in high school I get along with everyone. I am remembered by people years later even if we met/worked together once.
But people's looks, etc., mean little to me. I am far more interested in the person.
I'm confident and I don't really care about money fame or whatever that is not really needed I'm independent so I don't care if he doesn't make much money or his looks I can love someone not base on their looks
If you have a real type of confidence to comfortably navigate social settings and get to know all sorts, you tend to judge people less because they'll defy your initial impressions repeatedly. So you learn that your initial bias is worthless. I think antisocial types are some of the most strongly biased people I've ever met, because they form such strong opinions about certain types or groups of people without ever actually hanging out with them and trying to be friends.
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Its a matter of ego & not settling down.
I am not shallow, I do want woman but if I have to choose between an average looking good woman or a hot good woman then I'd pick the hot one.
Everyone wants the best possible man & woman that they can get. That's why a lot of film stars end up single. They get confused in the amount of choices that they have.
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I would say they care WAY more.
Especially for men. That guy, he's got hella hoes all over his dick. He picks the best ones from the top of the pack. The most beautiful girls with the best secondary traits.
Same for women. They choose the best men from the top of the pack.
The question said for finding a partner right? The more confidence you have, the higher your standards go.
It can depend on the individual me and my spouse are very cocky people but we could care less about superficial things. However my sis is so not cocky and super shallow haha so I think it really just depends on the individual
I think confident people for some reason have greater self-respect so they are likely to choose a partner who respects them and has a good character.
Much more in my opinion. Egotistical people (no matter what "spin" you want to put on it) always feel entitled to more, and try to justify it by saying "I deserve the best" no matter how little work they actually put in towards those people.
confidence has nothing to do with shallowness. Shallowness is an individual trait. There are good looking people that aren't shallow. Then there are average looking people who are shallow.
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