Hello,
I really need an advice from you. My boyfriend and I are together for almost a year. Everything was fine at first, I even moved to his parents house for the time of the lockdown so that we could be together. But then I had covid-19 and the things has changed. I needed more sleep, I was moodier and grumpier. And I also realised that he is a mama's boy. When we make a decision together and his mother disagrees, he alwasy changes his mind. And he even believes that it is right for a grown up man that his mother is always the first. She manipulates him and tells him lies about me since I left their house because of the end of the lockdown. My boyfriend and I then have fights about that, he started doubting about me.
But what is the main problem here is the fact that he lost interest in me. No more videocalls, no more love letters. This weekend, for example, we both have free time and could spend time together, but he didn't invited me to come to him, he would rather spend time with his friends. I know that I was still quite moody when we last met but I cannot tolerate everything. I still love him and I want his old self back. He prioritized me, he was sending me cute messages, he wanted to spend as much time as possible with me. How can I make him not break up with me? How can I become at least as attractive as I used to be? How can I make him miss me, call me and spend time with me? Should I regularly text him that I miss him and love him? Or should I be more inaccessible? Or will he then lose the whole interest in me? I am so confused, please help me.
I really need an advice from you. My boyfriend and I are together for almost a year. Everything was fine at first, I even moved to his parents house for the time of the lockdown so that we could be together. But then I had covid-19 and the things has changed. I needed more sleep, I was moodier and grumpier. And I also realised that he is a mama's boy. When we make a decision together and his mother disagrees, he alwasy changes his mind. And he even believes that it is right for a grown up man that his mother is always the first. She manipulates him and tells him lies about me since I left their house because of the end of the lockdown. My boyfriend and I then have fights about that, he started doubting about me.
But what is the main problem here is the fact that he lost interest in me. No more videocalls, no more love letters. This weekend, for example, we both have free time and could spend time together, but he didn't invited me to come to him, he would rather spend time with his friends. I know that I was still quite moody when we last met but I cannot tolerate everything. I still love him and I want his old self back. He prioritized me, he was sending me cute messages, he wanted to spend as much time as possible with me. How can I make him not break up with me? How can I become at least as attractive as I used to be? How can I make him miss me, call me and spend time with me? Should I regularly text him that I miss him and love him? Or should I be more inaccessible? Or will he then lose the whole interest in me? I am so confused, please help me.
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Thank you for your answers. Now I know that living with his family for few months was a huge mistake and now he takes me for granted. But on the other hand I think he is not sure if he wants to be with me anymore. At first we had such a good time together and both of us worked for it but because of my health issues and problems with his manipulative mother he started doubting. I want to show him, that we can be happy together and that I am recovering but how?
