It's not that you are not an interesting person. It goes deeper than that. It's in knowing yourself and who you are. Being able to present that information in such a way that others will recognize it and be attracted to it.
For some, it is in how they communicate through spoken words. For others, it is in how they communicate through their body language. Then there are the few that need to figure out a little bit of both.
However, it all begins with the individual. Knowing who you are, your strengths, weaknesses, boundaries, needs, and desires. Knowing what type of person you are looking for and the traits you need and want them to possess. From there it is a matter of trusting yourself to be a little vulnerable with the other person.
Every person has an interesting life story that someone else may be attracted to. The hotel maid who takes a week-long vacation every year to a different country would be interesting to a person who likes travel. The mechanic who on weekends performs in the local theater would be interesting to a person who dreams of acting. The police officer who mixes and masters local music group albums in their off-duty time. The counter person at the local McDonald's who draws comic strips for fun.
All of this is interesting to certain groups of people. But, to them, it is just their life and normal. It's just what they do because they enjoy it. It's not something they widely share with people they casually meet.
Everyone is interesting to someone. It's a matter of asking the right questions or presenting these things in the right fashion to unveil these hidden gems.
I know society tends to promote extremes, yet subtleties provide more stability over time. Yes, it's nice to be playful on occasion, but you don't have to be entertaining all the time or constantly need to prove something. The connection you choose to create and nurture is much more important.
Here are some very valuable qualities you can bring to your relationship: faithfulness, love, caring, teamwork, responsibility, communication, support, reliability, an inviting smile and a tender touch, creativity, playfulness, nurturance, comfort, gentleness, trustworthiness, safety, consideration, respect, helpfulness and, I'm sure, many other qualities you possess that are equally valuable to the right guy.
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Well, I bothered about this. I mean thinking about whether I am an interesting person or not.
If you ask me, I would say yes I am but that is in my own ways and not how the world perceives the definition of being an interesting person so it depends as to how others see me. To some I may come off as interesting and to some I will not.
Well, I have always been single and I wish to remain single for life. I have my reasons for that and it is all because of my thought process, my attitude and some other factors as well. I am happy and at peace with myself.
If you want to buy a T-shirt, you need to go into a shop that sells T-shirts’ and pick one you like, fits well and is right price / value for money.
yes you can buy a T-shirt online, however until you get it delivered, and try it on , you never really know if it’s right for you.
dating, meeting people is the same thing.
if you don’t socialise, you don’t see the full range of products available.
you can date online but it’s always a guys and lots of uncertainty
it’s not about not being an interesting person, talking about the weather is a thing, as is favourite movies etc.
it’s about meeting real people and simply chatting, after 500 chats you might simply click.
No. I know exactly why I'm not in a relationship: I'm too short, I'm dark skinned, I'm not considered physically attractive to women, and I lack ego (arrogance). The first three I have no control over, and the last one I don't want. The last thing I can be called in average or boring, though. I have to limit myself when around people because of how strong my personality comes off to normies. I can be too much, sometimes.
You said a mouthful and just that one sentence and you know the answer is on all on how you represent yourself and all on how you feel about yourself depending on the outcome you get I'm you always got to be positive vibes person and always be positive you know no matter what happens in life you never let it get you down and you pull yourself up always with a smile and see what happens you know in a relationship it always takes two it's never just one side
I think that whether u are interesting or not is "in the eye of the watcher". For example, many would say that I am a completely uninteresting weirdo, yet I found so many friends that think that I am funny and interesting.
Gave to much recieved very little. Very few can handle my intensity and unyielding devotion. If im in, im all in there's no holding back or any room for games.
Is what it is maybe someday maybe not.
Nope I'm a lot of things but not interesting is not one of them. There are definitely a few girls like that though. It's the ones that write on gag "I'm bored anybody want to talk?"
I think people over value the importance of interesting; personally I would prefer to date someone who is boring. I like drama in my entertainment not my life. Now if only I could find a woman who agrees with this sentiment.
I am in a relationship.
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