Please first read the full incident below... Is it flirting? To compliment or telling a guy that you are cute?

[Shinezz]

Writing like this for the first time please don't judge and ignore the errors (if any) one day me and my boyfriend planned to meet, he was at his cousin's house so he came with him also they have to purchase some party stuff and cake for their sister so we were spending time. First we went to coffee shop and then to purchase cake, I met his cousin brother for the first time he don't look much mature as of his age... we were of same age group and my boyfriend is younger than me so in the fun way I said his brother in front of him and trust me i said so normally with no intentions " that he is cute like a kid" after many days we had a fight about something, later he spoke to her bestfriend he was telling everything he also shared this incident (he was sharing his feeling that some time he feels insecure) , her bestfriend inflamed him by saying " OH WAIT SHE REALLY SAID THAT? BRO SHE WAS FLIRTING WITH YOUR BROTHER " seriously?😑 And the new issue raised up! He said so many things, I was hurt we had arguments-fights he supported the statement that it was flirting and so on...
Last thing I wanna add ! When this meeting happened even though that time we spent so well he was happy and normal he didn't felt that thing in appropriate that moment!

[HOAAH]

I think they are blowing it up and it is hurting your feelings that he is making it such a big deal and it is so obvious that you did not flirt with him.

[Shinezz]

Thank you and also don't you think it's disrespectful and instead of telling other person that no my girl isn't like that or something in my stand m not asking to fight with your bestie...

[HOAAH]

Yeah he is being rude. He should be defending you.

[Shinezz]

Thanks ❤️

[spartan55]

Very odd thing to say on your part. More stupid than flirting imho.

[Shinezz]

Can you please elaborate?

[spartan55]

Just borderline insulting. No guy wants to hear he looks like a cute kid...

[Shinezz]

Sir tell me one thing if the boy is shorter than you in height and same age group and face wise also not look much mature he is 21, will you believe the very first question I asked him after Hi/Hello was in which class you study? And above also I mentioned that we were laughing and enjoying and in fun way I said it...

[spartan55]

That's all fine and good, just not a good choice to me.

[Avicenna]

It’s not always flirting, but guys often assume it is

[Shinezz]

Thank you sir but I think just by assuming you can't claim or put allegations on your partner, especially when you heard something by someone and got influenced

[Iron_Man]

Talking it out is the key

[In_Trance]

Tldr... no

[Shinezz]

Thanks